I’m a straight male, why do I want to suck dick?

[Mr. Krinkle]

Do FTM have a feminine taste/smell? I have had attractions to both FTM and MTF but I am bisexual. I have never had sex with anyone trans as in my experience both FTM and MTF tend to be naive or lax about having safer sex, but many gay/homosexual men are also like this both before and after drug companies heavily promoted and marketed the toxic Truvada which people take and think it is a magic pill that enables them to not use condoms or have safer sex at all.

I know men who claim they are homosexual/gay that have had sex with FTM but mostly all other actual gay/homosexual men I know, even those that when they were closeted or younger had sex with women, girlfriends, or married women have no desire to have sex with any transmen, transwomen, or women at all etc.

It is the opposite for lesbians as even the ones who were once married to men have no desire to be with transmen, transwomen, or men.

I wouldn't know...usually FTM are attracted to girls...plus i don't like guys, so there's that too...but i would think they'd still release female pheromones - and idk what happens when somebody has a sex change either but i would think that there's really no way around that, but i could be wrong

i do believe its been proven that gay men release gay pheromones that attract another gay male...but again, i cant say anything one way or another on that

i definitely know that if i smell male, the show is over, and that's happened a few times - even tho my mind is open to it all

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

I wouldn't know...usually FTM are attracted to girls...plus i don't like guys, so there's that too...but i would think they'd still release female pheromones - and idk what happens when somebody has a sex change either but i would think that there's really no way around that, but i could be wrong

i do believe its been proven that gay men release gay pheromones that attract another gay male...but again, i cant say anything one way or another on that

i definitely know that if i smell male, the show is over, and that's happened a few times - even tho my mind is open to it all

I do not believe pheromones have a set sexual orientation or that people of certain sexual orientation release pheromones that are unique to them and their sexuality.

Before the apps and websites bisexual and gay men would find each other by openly flirting, body language, fashion, talking, and the younger gay and bisexual men in their 20s to mid 30s have no idea how to do this, what cruising is, the art of it or how to decline or respond to it.

 

[Mr. Krinkle]

I do not believe pheromones have a set sexual orientation or that people of certain sexual orientation release pheromones that are unique to them and their sexuality.

Before the apps and websites bisexual and gay men would find each other by openly flirting, body language, fashion, talking, and the younger gay and bisexual men in their 20s to mid 30s have no idea how to do this, what cruising is, the art of it or how to decline or respond to it.

Im not sure they do either - but i do know what happens to me if i pick up a scent of man. So that's really all i can speak of. I would think all of that would get thrown out the window if you're truly bisexual. So in that sense, it really can't be set. So you totally have a point.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

Im not sure they do either - but i do know what happens to me if i pick up a scent of man. So that's really all i can speak of. I would think all of that would get thrown out the window if you're truly bisexual. So in that sense, it really can't be set. So you totally have a point.

I read this article. I suppose it is true to some extent. I have had this happen with women, and to women from me, as well as to/from men but this was in a gym or public place and these were strangers, so I did not want to make anyone uncomfortable or basically hit on or try to pick them up, or have them do this to me when it was not that sort of gym or environment at all, and it can be considered unwanted.

When I go to a gym or go to exercise I concentrate on doing just that to relax, and not think about things.

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[Mr. Krinkle]

a girl i worked with would go through the same thing with other females when we were working at the hospital - she would get repulsed when i wouldn't pick it up at all, and she'd be amazed that i didn't even catch a whiff

 

[crazyhairman]

Quit trying to define it. Why does there have to be a reason. If it's something you like doing then do it it's a free f****** country.

I'm gay and sometimes I watch straight porn.

I'm dating a guy that's 23 years older than me. Who the f*** cares. We make our own destinies sometimes doing what makes you happy is the right thing to do.

And if you need practice. Dm lol

 

[SuperPsych]

Because they're delicious and nutritious

Deciding to suck cock and not care what others thought is the best thing I ever did with my life.

I had always considered myself bisexual, but the more cocks I sucked the more I realized that vaginas don't do it for me, so now I'm really only interested in women if they're trans, though I will very occasionally get in a mood where I want to sleep with a cis-gendered woman but it is not very often.

Not at all saying this will happen to anyone who sucks a dick, it's just my experience.

However, if sucking dick is something that one finds themselves fantasizing about, then I'm sure they'd enjoy it. Why withhold something from yourself that you'll enjoy? Sucking dick is just as pleasurable as you imagine it is, if not more so.

If it makes you feel better, sucking dick is only gay if you're gay. Otherwise you're just enjoying yourself, no?

 

[nznity]

The spike in people being visibly gay, bi, trans etc is more likely to do with the fact that nowadays you're a lot less likely to be verbally and/or physically assaulted because of identifying as anything other than heterosexual.

Although that's just my opinion

Oh boy and we were so right.
It's been 4 years and it's not just our opinions, it's a fact. Lol

 

[Eligiu]

Well I mean firstly, I'm ready to have people jump on my back for saying this and I won't really bother engaging after I say it, but for the lgbt community especially, but in a sense some straight people, sucking dick is not inherently a homosexual act.

Follow me here.

I am a trans man. I have medically transitioned 10 years. Hormones, surgery, you name it. I am five 10, athletic, extremely hairy, and completely pass as cis (not trans) (with underwear on). Most straight men who have any sense in them, when they consider me asking them whether or not us sleeping together would be gay even if I DONT have a dick, generally say yes, yes it would be gay. @tubgirl.jpg is one such user who came to acknowledge that point.

Now, if having sex with me as another man, is gay, then it would logically follow that sex with a trans woman, regardless of her surgical status, is not a johomosexual act as she is a woman. And you would find that most gay men would firmly agree with that statement. They aren't into women.

And this is not to say that anyone needs to share this opinion, it's just that over my life I have come to believe in boxing people in firmly can be somewhat of an asthenine process. I have had straight friends who went out and sucked dick just to say they tried it, and who were still firmly comfortable identifying as straight. They tried it, they weren't that into it.

Just because a person *experiments* with their sexuality, does not mean their sexuality automatically changes. A person does not become a raging gaylord like myself from getting down with a person of the same sex one single time, especially if they didn't actually enjoy the experience. That is normal, human experimentation.

At the end of the day, I would suggest picking a label which makes you feel more comfortable. I have my rules with guys who experiment (I won't hook up with them as the first guy they try to have sex with, because I can't guarantee that they won't just turn around and say that because I'm 'man lite' it wasn't really gay or some shit like that. Happy to help people in their journey of experimenting when they have become a bit more comfortable in the idea of having a more fluid sexuality than they thought.

The long and short of it, no man, it's not gay of.you to want to suck dick randomly. Personally I don't understand how everyone doesn't explore each possibility for maximum dating pool availability but that's just me. You can go out, suck a dick, decide it ain't for you and still ID as a straight man and that is absolutely okay.

Just don't ID as a straight guy and hit on trans men in the community. That's a big not Gucci.

 

[mal3volent]

I've wanted to have sex with women before. I think it's something to do with seeing if I could actually do it and how she would respond. I think heterosexual sex would make any gay man theoretically feel more virile and sexually potent. And that would have a lot of positive psychological effects. Even if you only did it once.

Maybe it's similar for a straight guy wanting to suck dick. You wouldn't necessarily enjoy it if you're straight, but perhaps it would fulfill some kind of subconscious psychological need. Or it could be something as simple as curiosity/wanting to see what a blowjob is like from the "woman's perspective".

 

[nepalnt21]

i also love dick but am generally not attracted to the guy that is attached to it.

i love women, pussy, lady ass, lady feet, lady... everything;

but there's just something about a plump, veiny, big- headed, loose- skinned penis that really turns me on.

Even closet gays, there wasn't that many of em.

how would you know? the point of the closet is that they don't want you to know.

many are still hiding it from others, or even from themselves.

 

[cosmic charlie]

Ive had points in my life where i was attracted to men and hooked up with some from time to time. It was enjoyable and didnt make me start questioning myself or anything like that. Never been in a relationship with a man tho that was beyond a friends with benefits sort of thing. Im just really sexually adventurous and wanted to experience different things. Ive done most things you can imagine with both sexes.

But in general i date women and have long term girlfriends and prefer that. I really enjoy pussy and love big breasts and a large ass. Im attracted to bigger girls that are nice and soft i find it sexy as hell especially when they are short. At times tho i have had fantasies about men tho and i deff acted on them to see how it was.

Because of this i would consider myself bisexual, but if there was a spectrum between that and straight id be leaning for on the straight side. Honestly you only live once and its worth it IME to explore yourself and see what your into. Society is what makes us question things and worry about what others think. Id assume that for most of human history people of both sexes played around with eachother, why not if it feels good.

 

[TheUltimateFixx]

What about same-sex sexual activity that seems to be context specific? Men in prison for example who will suck dick while they are imprisoned but are exclusively hetero the rest of their lives. Are they latently bi?

That's known as 'opportunistic homosexuality', meaning just randy men who get it on with each other out of sexual frustration in the absence of available women. That's different from primary or 'preferential' homosexuality which is an innate orientation.

Same distinction can be observed with non-human animals as well.

 

[w01fg4ng]

Heterosexuality is about as common as homosexuality.

It's a myth that most people are straight.

The real dominant sexuality is bisexuality.

 

[DeathIndustrial88]

If you've never looked at a guy & said 'wow he's fuckin' hot"...

If dudes in military or construction gear don't get your knob throbbing....

YOU AIN'T GAY!


At the very least, maybe bisexual. But it's more like just being heterosexual but with kinks I guess.


But there's also a lot of "straight" men who will hide their attraction to other men (for their whole lives even) for whatever reasons.


I've been gay my whole life (obviously) and if I woke up one day & felt like I wanted to eat snatch... I think I'd pretty damn confused myself.
I find it fascinating but also tend to be skeptical of people like this. A lot of people still don't want the stigma & the stereotyping that comes with calling themselves "gay", so they mask it up in this whole "I like dick, but I definitely don't like dudes" type of thing (not saying that's what OP's doing here though). thereby saying the same sex turns them on but because they don't like it in this context or that context, it can't possibly mean they're bi or gay. lol Pretty confusing stuff though. I dunno what I'd do if I suddenly wanted pussy but still wasn't attracted to women. That just seems odd. I would think I was having a stroke or something.

 

[ketquest]

Any men would suck their own dick if they could, would that make them gay? no...

I particularly get turned on by a dick which looks like mine, or very similar, and feel like sucking it too, jerking it off. It does not mean you are gay, it's just something that turns you on. For example I would suck said dick, but would feel grossed out by the thought of kissing the owner of it in the mouth.

 

[ketquest]

If you've never looked at a guy & said 'wow he's fuckin' hot"...

If dudes in military or construction gear don't get your knob throbbing....

YOU AIN'T GAY!


At the very least, maybe bisexual. But it's more like just being heterosexual but with kinks I guess.


But there's also a lot of "straight" men who will hide their attraction to other men (for their whole lives even) for whatever reasons.


I've been gay my whole life (obviously) and if I woke up one day & felt like I wanted to eat snatch... I think I'd pretty damn confused myself.
I find it fascinating but also tend to be skeptical of people like this. A lot of people still don't want the stigma & the stereotyping that comes with calling themselves "gay", so they mask it up in this whole "I like dick, but I definitely don't like dudes" type of thing (not saying that's what OP's doing here though). thereby saying the same sex turns them on but because they don't like it in this context or that context, it can't possibly mean they're bi or gay. lol Pretty confusing stuff though. I dunno what I'd do if I suddenly wanted pussy but still wasn't attracted to women. That just seems odd. I would think I was having a stroke or something.

I am pretty sure that the great majority of men started out their sex life/exploration with their male friends, even if it was just jerking off each other, they won't admit it though.

 

[Frog Dreams]

I've wanted to have sex with women before. I think it's something to do with seeing if I could actually do it and how she would respond. I think heterosexual sex would make any gay man theoretically feel more virile and sexually potent. And that would have a lot of positive psychological effects. Even if you only did it once.

Maybe it's similar for a straight guy wanting to suck dick. You wouldn't necessarily enjoy it if you're straight, but perhaps it would fulfill some kind of subconscious psychological need. Or it could be something as simple as curiosity/wanting to see what a blowjob is like from the "woman's perspective".

Fucking a (nice, tight) vagina feels MUCH better than fucking a (nice, tight) asshole.

You should try it.

 

[ketquest]

Fucking a (nice, tight) vagina feels MUCH better than fucking a (nice, tight) asshole.

You should try it.

The "problem" with vaginas is that they are tight in the 1st couple of minutes, then they get loose. Generally speaking. There are indeed some girls with very tight pussies, I had a girlfriend like that once. It was really hard to hold myself from ejaculating when laying hard pipe. I could not even reach 1min of hard fucking I had to stop. Just like the tight fleshlights that have a high stimulation texture, you cum in 30 seconds if you want, it's so good. Heat up some water and keep filling the fleshlight for at least 10min, heat up your lub too. Man, that's out of this world. I have one with suction cup that I can attach to the wall of my shower. Good sessions hehe.

 

[someguyontheinternet]

The "problem" with vaginas is that they are tight in the 1st couple of minutes, then they get loose. Generally speaking. There are indeed some girls with very tight pussies, I had a girlfriend like that once. It was really hard to hold myself from ejaculating when laying hard pipe. I could not even reach 1min of hard fucking I had to stop. Just like the tight fleshlights that have a high stimulation texture, you cum in 30 seconds if you want, it's so good. Heat up some water and keep filling the fleshlight for at least 10min, heat up your lub too. Man, that's out of this world. I have one with suction cup that I can attach to the wall of my shower. Good sessions hehe.

I'm not sure that characterization holds. Vaginal tightness is purely about muscle control, strength, and endurance

There are plenty of women who do tons of kegels and would snap your dick off with their vag after an hour long sesh

This lady is definitely extreme and doesn't do kegels but the article mentions them

This Woman Can Lift Seriously Heavy Objects With Her Vagina

Kim Anami wants all women to embrace vaginal weightlifting.

www.self.com