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I’m a straight male, why do I want to suck dick?

Zuda said:
Ooh...Grindr. Must be easy to pull a tranny off of there. I'll just have to be sure to casually use quasi-offensive words similar to "tranny" in conversation to make sure I'm not talking to butthurt, SJW princess.
I actually have a girlfriend who lives overseas in a country with less rights that she can't even leave right now. We're gonna try and get her over here when the flight ban lifts on her end. But we have an agreement that we can mess and get our needs met as long as the other person knows. Plus I'm pretty sure she wouldn't care if I banged a transsexual.
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Some trans people call themselves trannies. Or at least the older ones I have met do.
 
Zuda said:
Ooh...Grindr. Must be easy to pull a tranny off of there. I'll just have to be sure to casually use quasi-offensive words similar to "tranny" in conversation to make sure I'm not talking to butthurt, SJW princess.
I actually have a girlfriend who lives overseas in a country with less rights that she can't even leave right now. We're gonna try and get her over here when the flight ban lifts on her end. But we have an agreement that we can mess and get our needs met as long as the other person knows. Plus I'm pretty sure she wouldn't care if I banged a transsexual.
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This is definitely controversial information that will probably offend someone but, in my experience across 4 countries and 15 states, if you want to just mess around then a lot of transsexual women are interested in the same.
But the longer they've been transitioning and living as a woman the more comfortable they seem to be with themselves, know what they like, and ask for it.
Younger transsexuals tend to be more clingy, insecure, and desperately want a boyfriend to validate them as a woman.
I never involve myself with anyone under 35 anymore, regardless of gender or presentation.

Just too much drama and insecurity, in my experience.
 
Twackademy said:
This is definitely controversial information that will probably offend someone but, in my experience across 4 countries and 15 states, if you want to just mess around then a lot of transsexual women are interested in the same.
But the longer they've been transitioning and living as a woman the more comfortable they seem to be with themselves, know what they like, and ask for it.
Younger transsexuals tend to be more clingy, insecure, and desperately want a boyfriend to validate them as a woman.
I never involve myself with anyone under 35 anymore, regardless of gender or presentation.

Just too much drama and insecurity, in my experience.
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You know, being 27 now, I have some experience with this as well, in "normal" women, not just with trannies. I've always sought out older chicks since I was 19 and figured out that the ones my age were far too immature. I've come to also find through the relationships I've been in that older chicks who date younger guys are usually also immature, and stunted in their development. Thank God I'm older now!
I don't mind giving compliments or trying to build somebody up though. All part of the love-making experience if you ask me
 
JessFR said:
Yeah I've never "gotten" this. Like, I consider myself pretty much just ordinary straight. I have no particular desire to be involved with other women. But I can't say seeing naked women really repulses me in any way either. Certainly not to the hysterical degree some guys make it out as.

Maybe it's different for guys, or some guys anyway, although if I'm honest, part of me strongly suspects this is another thing where guys are more or less just pretending because they think guy culture expects that of them. Or if not pretending, that they've convinced themselves that's how they feel because they think they're supposed too.

My thoughts anyway.
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I guess I've always imagined women in locker room showers feeling relatively at ease. I can't imagine (okay, I can) being in the shower with a bunch of guys. If I had to do that I'd keep my damn underwear on; and I don't even wear underwear. I don't want strange guys looking at my dick. I wouldn't give a shit if strange women saw me naked
 
Gormur said:
I guess I've always imagined women in locker room showers feeling relatively at ease. I can't imagine (okay, I can) being in the shower with a bunch of guys. If I had to do that I'd keep my damn underwear on; and I don't even wear underwear. I don't want strange guys looking at my dick. I wouldn't give a shit if strange women saw me naked
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As somebody who is mostly bisexual (with limits), I'm just gonna say that I do NOT want to see the wrong guy naked. And the thought or sight of a very masculine person (who is anything less than a gymnasium God) makes me extremely uncomfortable.
And I wouldn't even be sexually attracted to the gymnasium god either. Not feminine enough for me to be attracted to, but it's good enough to not make my skin crawl if I look at it. idk just my thoughts
 
I went to boarding school at 11 and was forced to shower in a room full of 20 boys for years. Then the army. In both places no-one had a problem pointing out the limitations or admirable qualities of another bloke’s dick in a jocular way. It was only when I went to public pools that I realised some men had issues and felt uncomfortable being naked with other men.

I became a bit self-conscious about glancing even accidentally at other men in the change room. In the main though I don’t think it is a matter of being repulsed by another man’s body but fear of being thought some kind of sleazy homosexual creep. Or guys self-conscious about their own bodies and not wanting to be judged.

Anyway if it seems polite not to look. Don’t look.
 
The Wizard of the Creek said:
Those people are called meat peekers. You’ll find them in YMCA locker rooms and any public restroom with side by side urinals. I always say, “Do you mind taking your eyes off of my balls”, in a thick Italian accent.
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True. But I also see guys who seem inordinately proud of their dicks and seem to take a long time getting their undies on. They’d be disappointed if you didn’t look. There’s all kinds of weird out there.
 
Atelier3 said:
True. But I also see guys who seem inordinately proud of their dicks and seem to take a long time getting their undies on. They’d be disappointed if you didn’t look. There’s all kinds of weird out there.
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Those are exhibitionist types, or often times they are on the make for a lover.

There is a super well known bodybuilder and model that is bisexual and a bisexual man I am friends with met him at the saunas/baths in NYC in the late 1970s or super early 1980s. They went back to the body builder's place and were masturbating together and the body builder kept getting interrupted by the phone as clients kept calling booking appointments with him. My friend paid absolutely nothing while everyone else had to pay lots of money.

None of this is any shocking secret. The model/bodybuilder hung out (no pun) with the bisexual artist/photographer Robert Mapplethorpe, and Grace Jones and the 54/Warhol crowd.
 
Zuda said:
As somebody who is mostly bisexual (with limits), I'm just gonna say that I do NOT want to see the wrong guy naked. And the thought or sight of a very masculine person (who is anything less than a gymnasium God) makes me extremely uncomfortable.
And I wouldn't even be sexually attracted to the gymnasium god either. Not feminine enough for me to be attracted to, but it's good enough to not make my skin crawl if I look at it. idk just my thoughts
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Start going to TV/CD bars/pubs, drag shows with drag queens and female impersonators, or go on apps or websites to find hyper-effeminate and androgynous twinks. None of these are my type at all but a hyper-effeminate gay friend that is a part time drag queen at times has no issue attracting masculine jock types to fuck his ass rough, RAW, and to own his ass and make it theirs.
 
Twackademy said:
This is definitely controversial information that will probably offend someone but, in my experience across 4 countries and 15 states, if you want to just mess around then a lot of transsexual women are interested in the same.
But the longer they've been transitioning and living as a woman the more comfortable they seem to be with themselves, know what they like, and ask for it.
Younger transsexuals tend to be more clingy, insecure, and desperately want a boyfriend to validate them as a woman.
I never involve myself with anyone under 35 anymore, regardless of gender or presentation.

Just too much drama and insecurity, in my experience.
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I have never had sex with a TS/TG woman or man but you are correct.

I have met TS/TG men and women and the younger ones are super insecure and love drama, gossip, and if we met in a store they were working at they would get fired or quit immediately after being hired.
 
So let me throw this out there:

So if you consider yourself straight (for the most part), and you do like trans girls, which is completely normal, there's the one thing that might be a problem, and that's sometimes you'll pick up the scent of a male from the trans girl, and they mostly do their best to cause that not to happen, but a lot of times, it still happens - and a scent plays a big roll in whether you're aroused or not...so although everything might look great on video, that doesn't mean it'll all work out when it comes down to it

not that i would know anything about this, im just saying =D
 
Mr. Krinkle said:
Right - that's why they sometimes say "doing it Greek"
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Hah! Greek is slang for anal sex. French or Italian is slang for oral sex.

The Ancient Greeks and Romans, as well as Central European Celts, and others did this but each Ancient Greek city-state practised it differently.

www.theguardian.com

Why were the ancient Greeks so confused about homosexuality, asks James Davidson

Plato wrote that same-sex lovers were more blessed than ordinary mortals. But then he changed his mind, describing the act as 'utterly unholy' and 'the ugliest of ugly things'. So why were the ancient Greeks so confused about homosexuality, asks James Davidson.
www.theguardian.com www.theguardian.com
 
Mr. Krinkle said:
So let me throw this out there:

So if you consider yourself straight (for the most part), and you do like trans girls, which is completely normal, there's the one thing that might be a problem, and that's sometimes you'll pick up the scent of a male from the trans girl, and they mostly do their best to cause that not to happen, but a lot of times, it still happens - and a scent plays a big roll in whether you're aroused or not...so although everything might look great on video, that doesn't mean it'll all work out when it comes down to it

not that i would know anything about this, im just saying =D
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Do FTM have a feminine taste/smell? I have had attractions to both FTM and MTF but I am bisexual. I have never had sex with anyone trans as in my experience both FTM and MTF tend to be naive or lax about having safer sex, but many gay/homosexual men are also like this both before and after drug companies heavily promoted and marketed the toxic Truvada which people take and think it is a magic pill that enables them to not use condoms or have safer sex at all.

I know men who claim they are homosexual/gay that have had sex with FTM but mostly all other actual gay/homosexual men I know, even those that when they were closeted or younger had sex with women, girlfriends, or married women have no desire to have sex with any transmen, transwomen, or women at all etc.

It is the opposite for lesbians as even the ones who were once married to men have no desire to be with transmen, transwomen, or men.
 
Quere said:
This is the kind of knee-jerk reaction i was talking about. Having fantasies about other men does not automatically mean your gay or bisexual.

www.google.com

Straight Guy, Queer Fantasies

In her recent book Not Gay: Sex Between Straight White Men sociologist Jane Ward shows how straight guys are often more sexually fluid than they’re...
www.google.com www.google.com

www.queerty.com

Science Explains Why So Many Straight Dudes Fantasize About Having Gay Sex Together

We already know that straight guys are a lot more bisexual than people think. We also know that they secretly get off on watching gay porn. But we never knew exactly why. Until now. A new study out of the University of Portsmouth in England has uncovered why some straight dudes have gay sex...
www.queerty.com www.queerty.com

Sure, you may be right and he may be a gay/bi man in denial, but it certainly isn't the only possibility.

People have all sorts of fantasies for all sorts of reasons and suggesting that it is impossible for a heterosexual man to have a very specific sexual fantasy involving another man just seems ridiculous to me.

The way you just dismiss his post "this thread again?" seemed unnecessarily cruel as well. He's obviously confused and distressed, you could show some care if you are actually going to respond to his thread...
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That sociologist mentioned in both articles is a joke. She is a leftist navel gazing academic and Lesbian, so based on her garbage theories she would be and should be attracted to and having sex with men, partnering/marrying men, etc.

She used Cragislist personal ads many of which were written by bots/spammers, or by bisexual and gay men who are in denial, in the closet, or who want free amateur porn, or if they are male prostitutes they claim to be "straight" as there are lots of gay and bisexual men who need the pipe dream fantasy that they are having sex with a man that is actually straight/heterosexual. She also did not contact the authors of the ads to ask the non-bots/spammers about them selves, and I would not be surprised if she wrote the fake ads or had her family and friends write them and put them on Craigslist as there was no history or real archive for all sex ads on Craigslist.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Do FTM have a feminine taste/smell? I have had attractions to both FTM and MTF but I am bisexual. I have never had sex with anyone trans as in my experience both FTM and MTF tend to be naive or lax about having safer sex, but many gay/homosexual men are also like this both before and after drug companies heavily promoted and marketed the toxic Truvada which people take and think it is a magic pill that enables them to not use condoms or have safer sex at all.

I know men who claim they are homosexual/gay that have had sex with FTM but mostly all other actual gay/homosexual men I know, even those that when they were closeted or younger had sex with women, girlfriends, or married women have no desire to have sex with any transmen, transwomen, or women at all etc.

It is the opposite for lesbians as even the ones who were once married to men have no desire to be with transmen, transwomen, or men.
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I'm American. From reading it seems this was common practice not only in Greece and parks of europe but in Asia and Africa as well, and probably the America's.

I think there's a keen difference to having sex with a male simply for pleasure, and be attracted to men emotionally and desire romance with them. Esp when young and societal 'norms' and conditioning havent taken hold.

Ive been with a gorgeous mtf. One where everyone would turn their heads when walking by and never know that she was born male. She smelled like a woman. She felt like a woman. Even her penis was small and feminine looking if thats possible. I have no attraction to men. I was crazy about this girl. Madly in love. I loved her penis too. I get zero arousal from seeing men or their junk. I like beautiful brunette women, however I loved playing with and sucking this trans woman. I think being madly in love made her having a penis more palatable as well. She looked like a woman, her face and body slender and feminine. Soft skin. Boobes and a cute butt. She smelled like a woman. Pheromones were great. Many years on estrogen injections. She would inject her e2 while I injected my testosterone and masteron.

I am now married to someone else. I have no desire to be with any man ever. However now if I see a trans woman who has a bulge and she's beautiful I am aroused. I would never consider myself gay. I only have romantic feelings and sexual desire for women, and always have. I think there is some totally different about fantasizing about just a penis, and fantasizing about a man - including muscles, facial and body hair, smell, height, etc etc. I can totally see how someone could be repulsed by the thought of sex with a man yet think sucking a dick could be hot.

My 2 cents and personal experiences.
 
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