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I’m a straight male, why do I want to suck dick?

Zuda said:
I kind of agree with this. I am a mostly straight male but much like OP, I would totally try the chicks-with-dicks thing. Not very interested in making love to an actual man though. They would have to be extremely feminine with no body hair lol
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Have sex with drag queens, female impersonators, or femme/queenie twinks, or androgynous twinks?
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Have sex with drag queens, female impersonators, or femme/queenie twinks, or androgynous twinks?
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I briefly dated a very passable drag queen last year.
Because of the bars being closed, they did't have their usual "outlet of sexual creativity", that's their term for it.

It was fun, but if i'm being honest it was frustrating that they were constantly on the fence about whether or not they wanted to present as female or male.

Long story short: I couldn't make that decision for another human being, their Meth use was constantly out of control which made it difficult to be around them our views and values on recreational substance use differ so widely, and they got twacked out to hell one day while I had to work a Saturday at work and blew my phone up/showed up to my house asking my brother where I was/ messaged my friends on facebook/ the list goes on.

I got off work and caught myself up on the situation and met them at the park and explained to them that this behavior is not acceptable and unattractive.

I would have kept seeing them honestly, it was a very fun relationship when we were together and they would go to the lake/river with me and other things, we never used together and just smoked cannabis and did fun stuff/have deep life conversations.
In the end it was the out of control drug use that I drew the line at.

I won't lie that it did jade my opinion on getting involved with cross dressers and drag queens, I really don't like to form an opinion on an entire demographic so I keep an open mind.

But just like them, almost every cross dresser and drag queen I've met either has an out of control habit with no rules or they have to use to express themselves fully.

It just doesn't match my life philosophy.

I'd still interact and enjoy passing moments with anyone though, I just wouldn't go home and sleep with them if I noticed red flags.
 
Navoc said:
I briefly dated a very passable drag queen last year.
Because of the bars being closed, they did't have their usual "outlet of sexual creativity", that's their term for it.

It was fun, but if i'm being honest it was frustrating that they were constantly on the fence about whether or not they wanted to present as female or male.

Long story short: I couldn't make that decision for another human being, their Meth use was constantly out of control which made it difficult to be around them our views and values on recreational substance use differ so widely, and they got twacked out to hell one day while I had to work a Saturday at work and blew my phone up/showed up to my house asking my brother where I was/ messaged my friends on facebook/ the list goes on.

I got off work and caught myself up on the situation and met them at the park and explained to them that this behavior is not acceptable and unattractive.

I would have kept seeing them honestly, it was a very fun relationship when we were together and they would go to the lake/river with me and other things, we never used together and just smoked cannabis and did fun stuff/have deep life conversations.
In the end it was the out of control drug use that I drew the line at.

I won't lie that it did jade my opinion on getting involved with cross dressers and drag queens, I really don't like to form an opinion on an entire demographic so I keep an open mind.

But just like them, almost every cross dresser and drag queen I've met either has an out of control habit with no rules or they have to use to express themselves fully.

It just doesn't match my life philosophy.

I'd still interact and enjoy passing moments with anyone though, I just wouldn't go home and sleep with them if I noticed red flags.
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Yeah I would completely avoid anyone into METH, and other hard drugs.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Yeah I would completely avoid anyone into METH, and other hard drugs.
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Atelier3 said:
Damn straight! Stick well clear.
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It's funny but I don't ever use with any of my partners.
Some have known, some haven't.
I don't mention it unless they directly ask me.

I do my little 25mg line and go about my business, I don't like social using parties.

I'll play beer pong all night, that's fun.

Sitting around a table and continuously preparing/doing Meth compulsively, not fun.
 
w01fg4ng said:
The term "bumping uglies" is the most accurate way to describe sex. Sex is dirty and as a man I embrace it.

To the insecure boys: We get it, cooties are gross. Now go put your big boy pants on and leave the dirty work for the men.
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I absolutely hate that term. I think that sex is a beautiful and divine expression of love.
 
Zuda said:
I definitely have, but they're hard to find in the south. Maybe I should visit Atlanta again. lmao
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Look on grindr, adam4adam, and other apps and websites write how you are bisexual and looking for trans, drag queens, femme men, effeminate men, female impersonators, TV/CD, etc.

I completely avoid having sex or dating any women, men, or whoever that uses hard drugs as a lot are HIV+, can have AIDS or have other STDs but do not know it as they lower people's inhibitions and I have known lots of people who when doing the PNP thing not just with CRYSTAL METH, but with opiates or even just alcohol and pot became poz when they had unsafe sex with a hook up, FWB, partner, etc.

I also avoid people who claim to be on the Truvada or prep, or are POZ undetectable as this means they want it unsafe and you have no idea if they even take the medication, or if they are really undetectable. A friend that has been living with HIV since 1984 says how the medications work but how he only dates and has sex with other men who are also HIV+ and condoms are used as he does not want to get other strains of HIV, give someone the strain he has, get reinfected, or make his or someone else's medications to stop working.
 
Zuda said:
I absolutely hate that term. I think that sex is a beautiful and divine expression of love.
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I mostly use it to keep myself humble. In reality, I think my partner and I have the best privates this world has to offer.
 
birdup.snaildown said:
What gay guy? Who is doing that?
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Straight man seduced. Loves eating pussy but on camera he is easily swung the other way. This is in gay pornography all the time so its obviously true. Straight up. Then once the camera turns off he is straight as an arrow again.
 
jose ribas da silva said:
Everyone wants to suck a dick nowadays, it is fashionable, either women or men
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Not me. I used to love getting CHOKED on my ex's average cock, and doing this to him in a 69. It is a pity he is cut.

Outlier said:
Straight man seduced. Loves eating pussy but on camera he is easily swung the other way. This is in gay pornography all the time so its obviously true. Straight up. Then once the camera turns off he is straight as an arrow again.
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Yes it's a plot based on the old homophoic/biphobic desire pipe dream plot...and it's also based on marketing.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Look on grindr, adam4adam, and other apps and websites write how you are bisexual and looking for trans, drag queens, femme men, effeminate men, female impersonators, TV/CD, etc.

I completely avoid having sex or dating any women, men, or whoever that uses hard drugs as a lot are HIV+, can have AIDS or have other STDs but do not know it as they lower people's inhibitions and I have known lots of people who when doing the PNP thing not just with CRYSTAL METH, but with opiates or even just alcohol and pot became poz when they had unsafe sex with a hook up, FWB, partner, etc.

I also avoid people who claim to be on the Truvada or prep, or are POZ undetectable as this means they want it unsafe and you have no idea if they even take the medication, or if they are really undetectable. A friend that has been living with HIV since 1984 says how the medications work but how he only dates and has sex with other men who are also HIV+ and condoms are used as he does not want to get other strains of HIV, give someone the strain he has, get reinfected, or make his or someone else's medications to stop working.
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Ooh...Grindr. Must be easy to pull a tranny off of there. I'll just have to be sure to casually use quasi-offensive words similar to "tranny" in conversation to make sure I'm not talking to butthurt, SJW princess.
I actually have a girlfriend who lives overseas in a country with less rights that she can't even leave right now. We're gonna try and get her over here when the flight ban lifts on her end. But we have an agreement that we can mess and get our needs met as long as the other person knows. Plus I'm pretty sure she wouldn't care if I banged a transsexual.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Not me. I used to love getting CHOKED on my ex's average cock, and doing this to him in a 69. It is a pity he is cut.


Yes it's a plot based on the old homophoic/biphobic desire pipe dream plot...and it's also based on marketing.
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I love doing the 69 with girls <3 doing it with a trans girl (with a dick) would probably be fun too!

I don't know if I could have sex with a post-op trans though. Thinking about what it took to get there makes my dick hurt
 
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