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How to help premature ejaculation

Wanking before fucking works pretty well. Bashing your boner with a book helps too. Lots of techniques suggested above. But a cockring helps you stay hard for longer even after coming.
 
Think about baseball. Pretend like your batting. Im dead serious. If I do that I can go forever. Just imagine you know like you got one strike and 2 balls (no pun intended) so your trying to read the pitcher, etc. I played baseball so that works for me. My dad told me that one.
 
Man, I have some big issues with this. I can't even last 20 seconds sometimes. Also, does anyone else get this? I'll precum sometimes even when not engaging in sexual intercourse. In other words, if I just see my girlfriend, after a long break, and we cuddle and hug, I notice that I start to ejaculate (clear fluid). I distinctly remember the first time this happened to me; I was at a rave and I was being seduced by two gorgeous girls.
 
Think of Tom Arnold and Roseane Bar (how the hell do you spell her name again?). That's what I did back in the day.

But I've been with my wife now for 15 years and our best sex is under 10 minutes. There were the marathon sessions, but I would nut several times and would stimulate her while I was recovering. Or maybe it was the other way around (those days are well in my past). Keep on laying the pipe, or maybe a blow job before the sex just to get that first nut out of the way?
 
Uhhh hi. I have the exact opposite problem, i can last for hours but if i start edging i usually lose my hard on... It really sucks when you have a naked girl in front of you and you can't even get it back up.

What i'd do if i were you is SLOW IT DOWN and probably use more lube and maybe wear a condom. More lube, a condom, and slowing it down all = less friction. Maybe your gf is just super duper tight? If she's hella tight then maybe loosen her up with your fingers beforehand. Perhaps try focusing on her pleasure. Focus on giving her an orgasm, worst case scenario - you keep cumming early but you get her off at the same time. If i can give my gf 3 orgasms before i cum in under 3 minutes she'll be satisfied.
 
A good technique I used in middle school was to masterbate prior to sexual activity. It makes you less horny and won't have you exploding like your first time. I'm only 25 and I still only go for 45 to an hour of rough sex. Don't get discouraged
 
Uhhh hi. I have the exact opposite problem, i can last for hours but if i start edging i usually lose my hard on... It really sucks when you have a naked girl in front of you and you can't even get it back up.

What i'd do if i were you is SLOW IT DOWN and probably use more lube and maybe wear a condom. More lube, a condom, and slowing it down all = less friction. Maybe your gf is just super duper tight? If she's hella tight then maybe loosen her up with your fingers beforehand. Perhaps try focusing on her pleasure. Focus on giving her an orgasm, worst case scenario - you keep cumming early but you get her off at the same time. If i can give my gf 3 orgasms before i cum in under 3 minutes she'll be satisfied.

I got the same problem as Lost Ego.

As for the original poster I think you just need to warm her up like dude said and eat her pussy for a while so she gets off and then she wont care if you spill it early. Also get her to suck you off and get the first nut out the way before you fuck. You will get better with experience about the pre-ejaculation. I had a friend who had it happen to him, he ended up married.
 
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