CoastTwoCoast
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Congrats on being clean! Definitely start working out, it will help your confidence and you'll carry yourself better.
Being a musician is a sexy quality. Find a girl who is passionate about music as well. She doesn't have to play an instrument, but someone who enjoys music.
It's difficult trying to meet people the older you get. You could try internet dating and find someone else who wants a serious relationship like you do, not just a hook up. Personally, I will never date on the internet again. Going to clubs and bars is an option, but you probably won't find a quality girl there, just a bunch of party girls. I wish I had better suggestions about where to meet people. If I ever decide to date again, I will try to find someone at church. You definitely have to get out there and be seen. You won't meet anyone under your bed.
You seem like a good guy, I wish you the best of luck!
There's a lot of excellent advice in this thread.
Being a musician is a sexy quality. Find a girl who is passionate about music as well. She doesn't have to play an instrument, but someone who enjoys music.
It's difficult trying to meet people the older you get. You could try internet dating and find someone else who wants a serious relationship like you do, not just a hook up. Personally, I will never date on the internet again. Going to clubs and bars is an option, but you probably won't find a quality girl there, just a bunch of party girls. I wish I had better suggestions about where to meet people. If I ever decide to date again, I will try to find someone at church. You definitely have to get out there and be seen. You won't meet anyone under your bed.
You seem like a good guy, I wish you the best of luck!
There's a lot of excellent advice in this thread.