• S E X
    L O V E +
    R E L A T I O N S H I P S


    ❤️ Welcome Guest! ❤️


    Posting Guidelines Bluelight Rules
  • SLR Moderators: Senior Staff

How many times a year

Hurhel said:
Once every 6 months
I'm married too and I'm 41
Pathetic I know
Click to expand...

Actually it's understandable. I am married too and one thing marriage does is it steals the passion from a relationship. It makes everything mundane and methodical...also all the arguing and bickering is not sexy at all.
 
Almost once a day, but it's the same girl. Lately it's been a lot less sex and a lot more marriage talk which is scaring the shit out of me.
 
Lol im 21 and i dont think ive heard someone tell how great married was
 
Long term relationship (12 years). Sex 2-3 a week, usually teasing/playing on several others. Ever since my partner stopped taking the pill, her sex drive (and fucking kinky dirty badgirl mind) really ramped up. Timed well, I was finally off SSRI's and opiates so my dick actually worked! :D Good times have been had.

There's no hard and fast (oh yeah) rule for this, but generally the more sex the better and I ca think of no real exclusions to that principle. :)

In terms of partners, I have not slept with another person for 6 years which was a brief foray into promiscuity during a break in my relationship, and I did not enjoy it.

I've been in several long relationships so have only slept with about 20-25 people, mainly women but not always.
 
Well, the year is ending and I can recall 13 girls...maybe I forget somenoe though.
 
Heh i dont use facebook aso i tend to wander arojnd here when bored like at the doctors or whatever

Only 20 to 25 lol dam more like maybe 4
 
Well I'm in a relationship and have been for 5 years, we have sex every 1-3 days, so that's about 150 times on average in a year. That's assuming you mean how many times total rather than how many people, in which case, like I said, 1 a year for 5 years now.
 
theredgiant said:
Actually it's understandable. I am married too and one thing marriage does is it steals the passion from a relationship. It makes everything mundane and methodical...also all the arguing and bickering is not sexy at all.
Click to expand...
Well said!!!!
I want more sex but damm it's so boring
 
This is a hard question as for most of my adult life ive been in relationships. Historically speaking I dont do well outside of them so my number too is usually 0. Im 29 and have had 2 girlfriends totaling 10 years, 6 year relationship ended about a year ago. The issue isnt that I'm not over my ex or something stupid the issue is always my confidence. When it comes to literally anything other then human interaction (and to a lesser degree mathematics) I am awesome and think I can do anything i set my mind to and will try seemingly really complex tasks under the assumption i can do it. When it comes to people I think the opposite.

I would love to see that change but realistically i have to wait as a former drug addiction has made it so i live with my parents, my car recently died so from the surface I really dont have much going for me. That set of unfavorable circumstances leads to a lack of confidence. But I am actually furthering myself so part of me tries to comfort the part that cares about sex by saying it would be a waste of the little time i do have but thats not all that comforting :(

My main point is if you arent getting laid its probably because you dont think you will. If you change that thought process and try, you most likely will. Set out with a goal and achieve it... then again i have never taken my own advise lol.
 
^ Confidence is necessary, that's true. Then again, I'm not quick to judge guys in certain circumstances. Confidence for women is really important or you will end up with just anyone. Not good. I've been kind to guys in bad circumstances and they treated me like shit in the end. I needed to raise my confidence in order to meet a decent guy. I'm glad I didn't give up or I wouldn't have met a quality guy.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top