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How many straight guys would let a guy suck them off?

I wouldn't let anybody do it except my partner - even if a woman offered - unless it was my partner. I need to have a strong connection ('love') with the person. I don't like casual sex. Sex happens in your head, but it happens in your heart too, at least for me. It has to be with somebody I care about, and then I like sex all the time, every day.

I have been offered money and that was at places like bars or New Orleans Mardi Gras. Men offer money. When I was in college and grad school, older women (people who worked at the college, for example) would offer to cook me meals or alcohol or marijuana.
 
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I've done it once. A gay buddy and myself hooked up (Just oral, not penetrative). I didn't have a crush on him per se, but for some reason we did have the physical attraction to each other.

It wasn't an unpleasant experience, and I gotta admit, he was a good kisser (Very strong kisser too, lots of suction, and a complete lip lock.), but I really have no desire to do it again.

It was just a one time thing that allowed me to explore my sexuality, and as it turns out, I'm straight. lol =D
 
Whoa, I made a four page thread. But no I haven't had internet and rememberd making this thread and just wanted to clarilfy I don't go around wanting every dececnt looking straight guys cock in my mouth,lol. Kinda sounded perverted but I was fucked up. But my fantasy kinda came true! A hot black guy that was about 5'8 with a bubble butt and looked liked he could be on a football team started asking me quetions and wanted me to come to the bathroom while he was waiting to get his TV. So he got at the urinal and I started stroking him off then blew him real quick in the stall..Now, I felt kinda bad afterwards because I took the TV out for him and in the pasenger seat was what looked like his wife and his two sons in the back seat. BUT, I didn't know, and my fantasy kinda came true. But jsut wanna point out I have plenty of straight guy friends I couldn't imagine goin down on or fucking, it would just be wierd....
 
Screaming_Skull said:
Whoa, I made a four page thread. But no I haven't had internet and rememberd making this thread and just wanted to clarilfy I don't go around wanting every dececnt looking straight guys cock in my mouth,lol. Kinda sounded perverted but I was fucked up. But my fantasy kinda came true! A hot black guy that was about 5'8 with a bubble butt and looked liked he could be on a football team started asking me quetions and wanted me to come to the bathroom while he was waiting to get his TV. So he got at the urinal and I started stroking him off then blew him real quick in the stall..Now, I felt kinda bad afterwards because I took the TV out for him and in the pasenger seat was what looked like his wife and his two sons in the back seat. BUT, I didn't know, and my fantasy kinda came true. But jsut wanna point out I have plenty of straight guy friends I couldn't imagine goin down on or fucking, it would just be wierd....
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How is that guy actually hetero or straight if he had sex with a man? A marriage, wife, and kids don't mean anything especially if he's cheating on his wife with men. He's either bisexual or gay.
 
Yes I know, that's why I said it KINDA came true...more like the fantasy of it I guese since he ended up having a wife(which I didn't know until afterwards!) It's just a fantasy man, lemme enjoy,lol. Truth being he was probly bi or gay but just lemme enjoy the fantasy! HE WAS STRAIGHT I TELL YOU,lmao.
 
Screaming_Skull said:
Yes I know, that's why I said it KINDA came true...more like the fantasy of it I guese since he ended up having a wife(which I didn't know until afterwards!) It's just a fantasy man, lemme enjoy,lol. Truth being he was probly bi or gay but just lemme enjoy the fantasy! HE WAS STRAIGHT I TELL YOU,lmao.
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Maybe he thought that if you believed that fantasy, you would really get into it and do a better job?
 
One cannot help but wonder of what value or purpose it serves to call a sex act homosexual, when the matter at hand has all but nothing to do with what is and is not homosexual or homoerotic, but pertains exclusively to the sex act itself.

Moreover, such irrelevant and unsolicited opprobrium and condescension says a lot about these opprobious and condescending homo-obsessed people, but none of which is good.

The omphalos of the OP's query had nothing to do with the heterosexuality of male-on-male fellatio. Rather, the question is would or wouldn't one give or receive oral sex with another man.

It's of no consequence to debate the degree to which the act is gay or not gay.

It goes without saying, sex with the same sex is gay sex. Wha precisely is the quandary here, and what rationale for such ruction is there?
 
I don't know. I like women/tend to desire them... But letting a guy suck me off seems to be submitting to another male. Letting a female do this doesn't quite feel the same as this. Letting a guy take my cum just doesn't feel quite right. I'd rather be the one taking. Giving a BJ could be read as a position of power...

I'd say sexuality is complex. Dynamic... Ultimately I'm "straight", though. In that, I can only see my goal as being a female. A mother. Someone capable...
 
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I don't know. I like women/tend to desire them... But letting a guy suck me off seems to be submitting to another male. Letting a female do this doesn't quite feel the same as this. Letting a guy take my cum just doesn't feel quite right. I'd rather be the one taking. Giving a BJ could be read as a position of power...
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I respect your opinion, but I must say it's a very bizarre one. I don't see how receiving cunnilingus or fellatio is submissive; it would seem the obverse to be submissive.

Indeed, to give oral sex one must (usually) lower themselves, as if to genuflect, before another, which is already a show of submission. Then, they must stimulate the pudenda of another with their mouth—allowing one's most public and consecrated of orifices to be sullied with another's most private and profane of organs.

To be fair, it seems easy to think of the one performing the oral sex as the active party and the one receiving it as the passive party. However, this relies upon the erroneous notion that submission cannot be active and dominance cannot be passive. The flaw in this notion is in its presupposition that an agent does and the subject acquiesces . But what of the subject that demands the agent? Then we see a role reversal, where the agent is the one who acquiesces to the subject's injunction.

The Romans saw things similarly. This can be evinced in their use of words like irrumatio and os impurum.

At Pompeii, there reads a graffito exclaiming "Vote Isidore for aedile!" which means loosely in English "he's the best at licking cunt!". It was meant as a political invective, or insult.
 
dopemaster said:
I am straight and I got to say none of the sexual scenarios discussed in this thread are ones I would want to be in.

So to answer you question, I would never let a man suck me off even if it involved sex with multiple women.
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That's how my mind works but this asshole I'm dating says he's straight but he's gotten BJs and Kevin Gates by other guys. He doesn't touch me, kiss me, cuddle with me, or has sex with me; so hell for all I know he's screwing some guy. I don't think straight men have the urge to suck a dick or have a guy to suck his dick. I think some people just don't like or want the association with anything from the gay lifestyle. I don't see why he won't just come out because he has gay and transsexual friends back home?
 
I got one...you had a choice, the girl wanted you to get her pregnent so she could get a check, there was a gay guy wanting to suck your dick to and you were just really horny cuz the girl got you all rowled up then popped it on ya she wanted to get pregnent that night...go with that girl or her friend who's been eyeing your crotch all evening...masturbating is not an option.
 
I'd murder them all, do obscene things with their corpses and take off with whatever drugs and money they had.
 
The question should really be...
"How many straight guys would ever admit to having their dick sucked by another guy?"
Growing up I hit on every guy in HS I thought was hot... and there were a lot!
We would party and get buzzed at my house, have the guy sleep over... You can guess the rest...
Know how many of them didn't go for it and freaked out on me? ONE!!! LOL
And to my credit, the guys three brothers got into it many times over! (Living next door to them was a major convenience when horny, which at that age, was 24/7;)!)
Most all by now have married a few times, and had several children, and would probably kill to have a "reunion" and relive "the good old days", no doubt...
But very few I bet have ever admitted to any of the things we did together! I can still remember the usual conversations the next morning about what took place the night before... "Man was I wasted last night! I don't remember shit!" Haha! Then the next weekend would come around... wash, rinse, repeat...%)
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
If you want to have a man blow you or give or get oral sex to a woman and man at the same time then you're not straight or hetero, but are bisexual.

I know actual hetero/straight men and they have never had sex with a man, and do not ever want to, and this includes even if a woman was there, there were no women around or they hadn't had sex with a woman for awhile, or they were on drugs and horny.
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Ok... Not sure how anyone can really "know" another guy's past/present/future sexual desires, let alone their own. And I doubt playing 20 questions with "even if a woman was there?", "there were no women around?", or "hadn't had sex with a woman for awhile?", or "on drugs and horny?" would get a lot of honest answers when these questions would make the person asking them sound like their desperately trying to give them a blow job...? And it kinda goes w/o saying that a "tbnt" to you is not necessarily a "tbnt" to all, especially to someone who prefers their blow jobs with a little "discretion" on the side...
Most interesting though are the possible implications of the statements in that that second paragraph and how it might read... 8)

"To have the knowledge that enables you to account for another persons sexuality throughout their entire life is quite profound, to say the least.
But to foresee the future wants and desires of someone else with the clarity required to give you the entitlement to speak on their behalf would be a view only seen by one who is of a "higher power", indeed!
Knowing one mans innermost thoughts and desires on such an intimate and personal level is an incredible accomplishment, but having said "men" takes it to a whole other level..."
 
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Lol, funny you would assume me to be the fuckee! (Usually the Alpha here...%))
Anything's possible in the right situation, but it was mostly mutual BJs.
 
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