what i want to know is this: when i described how i like a guy to be when i'm blowing him, i was talking specifically about power and control. i like that. from what i gather, most females do not. i want to ask straight men how they feel about it. do you want a person who worships your dick, will do anything for it and likes the rough stuff, or do you want the sharing 69 stuff? see, for me, i can adopt that role, the cock worshipping slave, do it, like it, stand up and go right back to being an alpha male in normal life (though i don't do it often). women don't have that option, so i suspect they won't do it that way....is this true? i may be sexist and insane, but i feel that power/control sex should be between men, not so much between men and women. the things i do to men, i could never do to a woman.