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How is anal compared to vaginal sex

^Generally, it's kinda sensitive afterwards... but, it really matters if a condom was used or not. It's not like your body just absorbs spooge...
 
Never tried it. Asked several girls ive been with & most have said no way, not gonna happen. There was 2 girls that were kinky & willing but I just dont find it appealing, altho never tried it, I rather do the vagina or get a bj.......:)
 
DoUbLeYoU said:
For anyone who's received anal, did u have to take a huge shit afterwards?
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Ahhh well you see the secret is to take a shit before, so your bowel is nice and empty and ready to take that cock in... though I've found myself in situation where I got jumped without prior warning and didn't get to, ahem, prepare, and nothing terrible happened...
 
Escher's Waterfall said:
Just saying, if you're sticking something up your partner's ass, turn about is fair play.
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haha, I've never done anal, but every dude I've dated has asked or tried to "slip" it in during the deed. LOL When a dude asks, I usually say "Sure, as long as I can shove a dildo up yours" and it results in a "No." LOL Outgoing only for me. I did attempt it once, and didn't finish...it hurt and totally killed my mood. I've done the popping of the cherry when I lost my virginity and never ever want to go through pain and blood or whatever else is involved with sex ever again.
 
Lysis said:
haha, I've never done anal, but every dude I've dated has asked or tried to "slip" it in during the deed. LOL When a dude asks, I usually say "Sure, as long as I can shove a dildo up yours" and it results in a "No." LOL Outgoing only for me. I did attempt it once, and didn't finish...it hurt and totally killed my mood. I've done the popping of the cherry when I lost my virginity and never ever want to go through pain and blood or whatever else is involved with sex ever again.
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Lol just as well you've never met my boyfriend, he loves a dildo up his ass so it sure wouldn't stop him from sodomising me as regularly as he does! :D
 
Lysis said:
haha, I've never done anal, but every dude I've dated has asked or tried to "slip" it in during the deed. LOL When a dude asks, I usually say "Sure, as long as I can shove a dildo up yours" and it results in a "No."
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Dump 'em. Really.

[Unsolicited advice time!]

Everyone has their own kinks. That's fine. The mark of a healthy adult relationship is that if you're willing to engage in your partner's kinks even if it's not your thing, your partner should be willing to do the same. And hey, if you really care about the person, you tend to want to make them happy, which includes stuff you aren't really into, but makes your partner extremely satisfied.

So if you're willing to do something for your partner and he or she isn't willing to do the same if you want it, then there's a problem. Think about it. You're dating someone. You're willing to do [extremely kinky, weird sex act] for them, but they aren't willing to do [an equivalently kinky, extremely weird sex act] for you. What does that say about the relationship?

Either your partner's treating you as an object, instead of a person, or you have wildly incompatible sexuality.
 
Escher's Waterfall said:
Dump 'em. Really.

[Unsolicited advice time!]

Everyone has their own kinks. That's fine. The mark of a healthy adult relationship is that if you're willing to engage in your partner's kinks even if it's not your thing, your partner should be willing to do the same. And hey, if you really care about the person, you tend to want to make them happy, which includes stuff you aren't really into, but makes your partner extremely satisfied.

So if you're willing to do something for your partner and he or she isn't willing to do the same if you want it, then there's a problem. Think about it. You're dating someone. You're willing to do [extremely kinky, weird sex act] for them, but they aren't willing to do [an equivalently kinky, extremely weird sex act] for you. What does that say about the relationship?

Either your partner's treating you as an object, instead of a person, or you have wildly incompatible sexuality.
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^^This.

I've only done anal with dudes(3 times total receiving the rest giving*which I prefer*) and girls(only vaginal). I think there should definitely be a quid pro quo. It's only fair, after all...
 
To those that espouse the use of enemas: enemas irritate the anal cavity, and generally tend to add to a greater likelihood of chafing to occur. The best idea of course, is to make sure that you went poo several hours beforehand, fasted, and shortly cleaned the area in a shower. But, an enema always irritates the skin from my knowledge.
 
DOB said:
thats different,they dont have very much to choose from.Its still fucking sick but its not their fault,not like when normal man want this
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I see what you're getting at. Yes, anal sex is dirty, but fucking sick? That's a pretty loaded term. I would save such a term for rape, torture or murder, not consensual anal sex.
 
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