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How do I ask her if she would be okay with a long distance relationship?

I just wish I could not be angry right now.

Hey! We could be the king & queen of the country named...CANTEVERHAVEWHATWEWANT..
I'm also the president of the I F'd up club.

the anger will go away..there's a good one out there somewhere...

one of these days i'm bound to be right about something...maybe that?^^^

<3token
 
Just made plans with another girl for friday. Feeling better already :)

Now you've got it......

Just learn from this: you got dosed at the festie - you were really high and euphoric and then you came down and crashed. That's what being "In Love" (as opposed to Loving...) is all about. It's a drug and it seizes control of your being. Just understand it to be such and you'll be able to use the drug and not let the drug use you....

Many many awesome hippie wimmins in the psychedelic sea.......go share yourself widely....
 
You should just go with it man, why do you have to know you are in a relationship? You like her, she likes you, she isn't going to be hooking up with other dudes if there is an interest in you. And even if she was, does it matter?

Especially with her being older, play it cool. And that goes for your entire relationship. Just be chill, be a little bit coy, and don't open up to her all at once. If she is older, she will have seen that shit so many times. In all seriousness, be like David Caruso in Jade.

This.

As someone who has been in your position, and have always dated women older than me usually by more than 5 years in between our ages (they are superior in every way shape and form to their immature counterparts) I have to say that right now, if you're interested in her you need to show it. Take it easy, be coy like movie said, but test the waters, get to know enough about her so that you don't need an outsiders (bluelight) opinion on whether she'd be okay with a LDR. Because honestly, the only way you can be sure about something like this, is if an outsiders opinion could not possibly be more valid than your own, and hence is pointless.

edit: nvm, good job LSD
 
Just made plans with another girl for friday. Feeling better already :)

Good luck. Have fun. You deserve it. :)


Now you've got it......

Just learn from this: you got dosed at the festie - you were really high and euphoric and then you came down and crashed. That's what being "In Love" (as opposed to Loving...) is all about. It's a drug and it seizes control of your being. Just understand it to be such and you'll be able to use the drug and not let the drug use you....

Many many awesome hippie wimmins in the psychedelic sea.......go share yourself widely....


Not a hippie woman...in the pschedelic sea..lol...
but..I think sockpuppets right.

And the second paragraph...amazingly spot on.

And tricomb's post..."they are superior in every way shape and form to their immature counterparts"...
being the age I am now..and a woman.....and having been and lived through my younger more immature days...i would have to say this is true. ;)

best of luck logic..<3

~token
 
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