Juturna
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Oct 28, 2005
- Messages
- 150
i can kind of relate. one time i was just dancing, you know, minding my own business with friends... having a good time. what happened next was kind of a blur; some random girl i never met (or took notice to) ended up in front of me, and we began to enjoy each other's presence, which was cool. next thing you know, i took her to get some water, and i really felt like making a move, so i did. found ourselves outside getting some fresh air for ages.Blue_Phlame said:You gotta be carefull because if you're doing something that may seem like you're hitting on the girl, she may become clingy, and would wanna stick with you the whole night... which for some people is ok, some might not like it.
but what if the feeling is only mutual only when you're both rolling, and when you sober up you'll have the uneasy tension between you two (been there, and it isn't really nice)
fast forward to another time, i saw her again. this time i was on a bunk pill, she was on a dodgy one. i wasn't feeling AS attracted to her (don't get me wrong, she's one of the hottest girls i've got with) and we ended up in the same place outside, but for longer. she started to peak and i wasn't feeling anything. i don't know, i totally lost the magical feeling i had the first time we met... sure the tongue in my mouth may have indicated there wasn't tension but i definitely wasn't as pleased.
this other time though, i was enjoying myself as usual, flowing with the music... dancing in my own little world. then i find this girl in front of me, i'm like... okay, didn't really mind her. i continue to dance. after a while, she stops and says something to me like, "yeah, i think we should really get to know each other better", that totally fucked up my trip. i didn't know what she meant. it wasn't like we were touching. i thought maybe cause i met her through a friend (they're related) she may have meant that in a friendly way, cause she left immediately after that but what the fuck, right?
so yeah, in my experience, it's all up to the girl. i mean, if she wants to start touching and whatever, let her be... but don't return the favour too early? fuck, i really don't know anymore. people really misinterpret things. personally... enjoying myself is #1 obviously, but x is about the people too, and sometimes meeting strangers and having a blast with them is one of the best feelings.