how do girls feel about touchy guys on E

[swifty]

His meaning of "cute" may be size 16 women that are 5 feet tall. Of course you're attracted to people who you think are "cute". That's the fun part isn't it, feeding that desire?

Yeah but be that as it may, he's still only doing to those girls he considers cute, therefor it's still kinda sleazy....

 

[-skilld-M.aD.MA.n-]

its all about the music..........who am i kidding when i roll or do any drugs i get horney as fuck!!!!!!! but that said i have a gf so i never make a move on any1. i just take out all my fustration on her when i get home.

but if a fit bird jumped me while i was rolling hard i think that would break my will power.

 

[e5th3r]

when me and my ex used to roll together, we used to always go to raves and we used to stand there for hours and hours and hours just holding eachother.. touching eachothers' skin and just pouring our hearts out to eachother.

it was really cute. i miss it a lot!

 

[Medi57]

In the UK from what I've seen from going to commercial dance clubs/not so commercial clubs and raves no one on E acts like this. No one stands/sits around rubbing and touching and massaging each other anywhere I've been and if you randomly started doing it to any of the girls they'd tell you to fuck off or slap you.

indeed, the only place I have seen a "cuddle puddle" in the UK was at a bluelight meetup, and it involved american candy people...


I find it annoying if I'm trying to dance and someone is trying to hug me, I'm there for the music not the fucking plur.

 

[SheeshKeebab]

I'm a guy, and I abhorr random chicks coming up to me and getting all touchy when I'm pilling...

Swifty ... You're just a lucky git. I'd be more than happy to take your place

 

[crappybones]

i love gettin touchy with my goood friends that are chix. bt nothing really intimate or with thoughts of anything further, unless of course there were some feelings beforehand.
but i love locking arms/shoulders with other people dancing and screaming in unison. hahahaha or the ever fun "party-grip" with other dudes. we grip our hands kinda like an armwrtestle without the wrestle and go YAHHHHHHHHHHHHH WOAHHHH! hahahaha, well its all just for kicks n fun but if a 100% sober person who had never been in the scene saw people doing that, also without the music they would think we are crazy

 

[hypnoticzzz2003]

yea your gonna touch the wrong damn girl and get your wig split from the back of your neck down to your asscrack. Thats just direspectful. No one is gods gift to women/men so who the heck r u?? I had some douchbag trying to get my ex upstairs one night when we were on E no one there was very pleased with what he was trying to do.

 

[MaliceNwunderland]

If it's a girlfriend/friend or even someone you just met and talked to little and established a lil trust with (it's is a dance party after all...) I don't really see a problem unless yur full on fucking on the dance floor.

...but random gropings...no way. I'm a dude but I have had my ass and junk unprovoked and randomly grabbed and it's disturbing no matter what drug I'm on.

So many bad things could happen cuz of that shit...what if I'm a rapist and just made you my prey or I'm a fag and my boyfriend is a jealous, methed up, roid raging bodybuilder.

Keep yur hands to yurselves and you won't get in trouble...it's just good manners.

 

[Perpetual Indulgence]

Indeed. Where did etiquette go?

I guess there are girls who have perpetuated his belief that some girls like being touched on e. They respond accordingly. There may also be a handful of these same responding girls that believe it is what they should do under the influence of e.

 

[mapleleaf]

i know a lot of girls and guys who get extremely touchy when theyre rolling. If i know that i girl wants to get intimate and i want to. theres really no problem with it in my eyes. Sure it is just "E love" but thats the beauty of the drug you love everybody. And its not sexual at all, i dont even think about sex when im rolling

#1 just cuz i never feel the urge.

#2 because even if i did feel the urge i know my shits not gonna get hard

 

[Nimrod4154]

Today I was at the concert and I only got like 2 hugs. I hate it when girls get all mean. Some girls were smokin a bowl and I wasl ike Oh smokin the chronic? and the girl was like NO.

 

[-Guido-]

i love gettin touchy with my goood friends that are chix. bt nothing really intimate or with thoughts of anything further, unless of course there were some feelings beforehand.
but i love locking arms/shoulders with other people dancing and screaming in unison. hahahaha or the ever fun "party-grip" with other dudes. we grip our hands kinda like an armwrtestle without the wrestle and go YAHHHHHHHHHHHHH WOAHHHH! hahahaha, well its all just for kicks n fun but if a 100% sober person who had never been in the scene saw people doing that, also without the music they would think we are crazy

 

[SIM-1]

I dont like touching or being touched by strangers when rolling. Yuk! It irritates me. But my guy can go nuts & i love it.

 

[crappybones]

sorry dudes. was kinda fuckd up at the time. ahhahaa
i think i get what i was tryin to say, it doesnt have much to do with the OP.

 

[smotpoker]

IF I'm rolling at a party, the only time random touching happens is if some girl comes up to me and wants to show me a "roll trick". I actually had girls put their hands down my pants when I'm fucked up, and it wasn't provoked at all.
Of course I didn't stop her, but at the same time, I can't really get it up when on E so it didn't really affect me at all. It was kind of akward to be honest. It was like "Ok, her hands down my pants, do I really care, no."

I'll admit I do like giving girls backrubs when I roll, and sometimes I'll be giving them a backrub and they'll turn around and just start making out with me. Yes it's fun, yes we both wouldn't be doing it if we weren't fucked up, but I think both of us know that it's all in good fun, and we prolly won't ever see each other again, so fuck it.

On a different level though, there was one time when a gay guy made a pass at me (he pinched my ass), and normally I would get pissed and start a fight, but I knew he was fucked up, and he wouldn't do that if he was sober, so I just told him not to do it again.

Long story short, if a girls wants to get down with me, by all means I'm not gonna object, just as long as we both understand it's just "having fun" for that night.

And I know a lot of girls that like to get down when they roll, what's wrong with that? It's just having a good time.

 

[Black Octagon]

Mapleleaf, I should probably point out that most people who've replied to this thread are guys. The few girls that have posted seem to agree with the rest of it. But that doesn't mean there aren't a lot of girls who love to get touchy-feely with a guy when they roll (to return to the original question). This is a generalisation, but I've found that when young girls are first exposed to MDMA, one of the things they love about it so much is that while on it, guys are incredibly 'unthreatening' because they have little to no interest in sex, as the above poster made abundantly clear.

So I guess the moral of the story is do what you like, just make sure she's genuinely up for it first.

 

[Stunner]

I do not what kind of E you guys are using, but sex on ex is GREAT!! I get HUGE hard ons, and can screw all night. Touching is wonderful on MDMA...not sure maybe yall are taking MDE or something...

 

[Black Octagon]

^No, you are just in a minority of guys. Impotence is a well-known temporary effect of MDMA in the majority of test-subjects, and its pharmacology is readily available to those who bother to UTFSE before speculating mindlessly about what other MDXX compounds other people are taking.

 

[Perpetual Indulgence]

^^Haha!

I am a girl who does NOT like to be touched by strangers.

Why did you (mapleleaf) duplicate this thread in SLR?

 

[crappybones]

well its because MDMA is generally a vasoconstrictor. besides. its way too hard to keep that hardon when you are gettin so confused peaking and tryin to get it going on. id rather feel the vibe of the party and just keep the rolltricks and massages going to keep that peak up