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nabollocks said:^^You would also miss a very educated subgroup that can not be bothered paying money to join a site... Why would you when you have database access to journals and the likes? Just trying to keep it in perspective.
HR is about helping those without money just as much as it is for people with money.
webguy said:Here are I am speaking (without any authority to do so) for the three to five percent of bluelight visitors who are twenty to 40 years older than the typical bluelighter (median age: 20).
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Rogue Robot said:My vote is for GLers to not be able to go to the lounge. Like you said TLB, it would spill over into other forums, but that happens. The likelihood of them trolling a forum that isn't the lounge for the sake of trolling, i'd say is less likely overall.
zephyr said:I doubt restricting the lounge access will have any affect at all on the amount of trollage that crops up from time to time.
If you notice- the trolls come and go because of a grudge against some moderator or other members, an if they are that bitter or bored/ whatever to bother making themselves look like a dickhead for "revenge",they will troll the lounge regardless of what it takes.
zephyr said:The lounge brings more interest and actual participation than the other social forums. As much as it is ragged on as being "useless and full of idiots", its more useful than other more uptight forums for the simple reason that it is what it is.
The lounge shouldnt be seen as a filter to keep the riff raff out of the other forums. If you are not able to point the new members in the right direction of what they want to get out of BL in NMI, then what is that forum for apart from a glorified "welcome wagon" pm?
zephyr said:Its probably a lot easier and less work for you mods to discourage or prevent new members from posting in areas they will probably be assraped in at first. I remember going to the lounge specifically to get the virtual popcorn out and watch the fur fly years ago, and its gotten a lot nicer in the lounge since then.
zephyr said:Trolls will always be around, just face it. Its a pattern of behaviour that just keeps repeating, and you have no chance of making the trolling go away if the mods don't take a long look at why it really happens. If you get someone who is pretty much guaranteed to be drug affected, pissed off at being "singled out and treated unfairly"- real or imagined, and publically torn a new arsehole over and over- then banned- you'll have yourself a troll.
Maybe a better way of dealing with people like that is to put them on a universal ignore, or somehow bar their posts from being viewed so that they think they are still being heard but are not.
zephyr said:If they receive no attention- liek NONE (and banning/ warning is ultimate attention to someone who hates you guys) they will eventually wander off and not bother with it.
zephyr said:Im a little tired of mods who post in the lounge themselves (or lurk, which is kinda ghey in itself) taking a shit on the social forum that is getting more atention than any other. If it were gone, the rest of BL would not be too far behind, so appreciate it while you have it.![]()
This is the only part we agree on, zephyr. It's a start, I guess.zephyr said:I doubt restricting the lounge access will have any affect at all on the amount of trollage that crops up from time to time.
Casual, off-topic chat subforums serve a purpose on most boards, but to claim that they are more useful than the on-topic core forums is inaccurate.The lounge brings more interest and actual participation than the other social forums. As much as it is ragged on as being "useless and full of idiots", its more useful than other more uptight forums for the simple reason that it is what it is.
I lied; we agree on two points. It's a better start.The lounge shouldnt be seen as a filter to keep the riff raff out of the other forums.
Yet it is not as "nice" as it was, say, five or six years ago. It has quite a ways to go to being considered an approachable casual chat forum for some one just happening onto the site for the first time and coming from the normal parts of the internet.Its probably a lot easier and less work for you mods to discourage or prevent new members from posting in areas they will probably be assraped in at first. I remember going to the lounge specifically to get the virtual popcorn out and watch the fur fly years ago, and its gotten a lot nicer in the lounge since then.
Here is where our opinions begin to differ in earnest, zephyr.Trolls will always be around, just face it. Its a pattern of behaviour that just keeps repeating, and you have no chance of making the trolling go away if the mods don't take a long look at why it really happens. If you get someone who is pretty much guaranteed to be drug affected, pissed off at being "singled out and treated unfairly"- real or imagined, and publically torn a new arsehole over and over- then banned- you'll have yourself a troll.
Exactly the opposite is true. The people who are repeatedly warned and eventually banned are precisely the ones who will not go away or tone down on their own, as they simply crave the attention of their disruptive behaviour too much to give it up. Warnings and especially bans are last resort measures.If they receive no attention- liek NONE (and banning/ warning is ultimate attention to someone who hates you guys) they will eventually wander off and not bother with it.
A casual, off-topic chat forum is a valuable one on any board, but to imply that BL would cease to exist if the Lounge were to disappear is a grave fallacy. Rather than try to strike fear into people with these sorts of absolutist statements based on your own distorted version of reality, I would suggest that you take a stroll through the world wide web, visit some other focus forums and see how much nonsense is tolerated there. The message is almost without exception universal out there - no flaming, baiting, trolling, or spamming. Even forums which originally allowed the nonsense to get out of hand a bit have since pulled in the reins, since they realised that it is simply unrealistic to be taken seriously by the world when they themselves do not take themselves seriously. Fun and games are all good... to an extent. What dictates that extent? You guessed it - common sense. Even in my position as an admin here, above all I am a Bluelighter. A such, I am a part of this institution. If the institution has lost touch with its common sense in some small corner of its otherwise excellent universe, you better believe it that I cannot help but try and think of a way to recapture that common sense and bring it in line with that of the rest of the world. You are wrong, zephyr, when you imply that no Lounge would mean no more Bluelight. Although my only intent is to make the Lounge more approachable by general web standards, I'll counter your statement by saying that Bluelight would be more in danger of disappearing not if the Lounge departs, but if the common sense does not return.Im a little tired of mods who post in the lounge themselves (or lurk, which is kinda ghey in itself) taking a shit on the social forum that is getting more atention than any other. If it were gone, the rest of BL would not be too far behind, so appreciate it while you have it.
SA said:Casual, off-topic chat subforums serve a purpose on most boards, but to claim that they are more useful than the on-topic core forums is inaccurate.