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having a small penis

Most of the advice here is good. IMO, guys obsess too much about dick size. Most of the guys I've been with have either been average or slightly under (assuming average is about 5-6 inches). I suppose it would be nice to sleep with someone with a big dick, but I can live without it. I'd rather have someone with a small one who was good in bed than someone with a huge one who was only average in bed.
 
hey man i wouldnt worry about it, she would be more likely to let you stick it in her ass aswell.
 
If you can't get past it and accept your body the way it is, you can probably make it bigger without surgery. If you got up to average, would you feel OK about it? Note that this takes a lot of time and effort, and has a small degree of risk that must be carefully managed. I have not tried this myself. Go to this place for info (non-commercial site). At the very least, you will find lots of support there.
 
It just goes to show that men can be just as self-conscious about their bodies as women. I feel sorry for these guys, it's bad enough they feel insecure about, it doesn't help that american culture puts so much emphasis on it.

It's time like these that I'm thankful I'm a well-endowed good looking guy. Now if only I wasn't saddled with emotional/behaviour problems. Everyone's got their own cross to bear and their own insecurities.

And on a final note, if she doesn't love you for who you are move on till you find someone who does.
 
Just buy some beigh colored playdoh and build more mass onto your old cock, using pink playdoh for the head.
 
It's not just about how the guy "works" it. If girls do some reading and experimenting, they will find that they can get more clitoral/vagina stimulation by the way they're positioned as well, no matter what size he is down there.
 
not to mention your girl will be able to deep throat that monster....hmmmm....deeeep throooaaat....you'll be able to experience pleasure the mutants of society can only dream of. (unless of course they know girls with no gag reflex)

but seriously, listen to Loveline sometime http://www.AdamDrew.com/stat.htm and you will realize that only a VERY small percentage of girls EVER cum through penetration, and a much larger percentage can ONLY cum through oral, with the MAJORITY never cuming with either, and/or faking it. so if you can make your girl cum through oral, she should love you forever....simple as that...

and if she really loves you she prolly won't care anyways...i know when i'm in love, a woman's body/breast size/shape/tightness, ect becomes completely irrelevant...there is a MAJOR difference between love and lust....it's just the pleasure of being with them, caressing them, ect....and don't forget the nipples, neck, earlobes, ect, and gently working the clit with your pelvis during penetration...good times...

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It's just amazing that with all our science, human sexuality isn't better understood. We have to learn trigonometry in school, which most of us will never use, but we hardly study sex at all, which all of use will be mildly to wildly obsessed with. Good scientific sex studies are few and far between.

The Kama Sutra and other Indian sex philosophy places emphasis on the proper match between a man and a woman. The men are divided into three groups, based on the size of their penis. The women are divided into three groups based on the size of their vagina. Matching a small man with a large woman doesn't work well, as does matching a large man with a small woman.

The biggest size queen I dated (she liked truly rare ones, 10"+ and thick), is also the largest inside of all women I've been with. It's no surprise!

Here's something (mild work warning) I found on the net. It's not the real thing, but is a summary of the Kama Sutra on this subject. This is an excerpt:

"On Sexual Union...Chap 1...

MAN is divided into three classes, viz. the hare man, the bull man, and the horse man, according to the size of his lingam.

Woman also, according to the depth of her yoni, is either a female deer, a mare, or a female elephant.

There are thus three equal unions between persons of corresponding dimensions, and there are six unequal unions, when the dimensions do not correspond, or nine in all ...

The Kama Sutra is adamant that the largest men should stay with the most accommodating women, and that each should stick with those who best match them biologically and mentally." (There is another matching factor based on how long the man lasts.)

It's too bad small guys can't seek out small women so they have the match they were made to be. Society is so sexually repressed and insecure that this info is not disclosed in advance (or even known), so it ends up a crap shoot.

The most important thing for the guy who started this thread is that he consider himself a man, in all respects, regardless of his size. If he can get to that place, women will be turned on by him and he will be able to sexually satisfy the majority of them.
 
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Honestly, don't worry about it so much. As others said, develop your skills in other ways. And my ex fiance was big... too big for me. He hurt and it wasn't comfortable. So all in all, I like the guys that aren't hung like horses :)
 
Heh, having a smaller dick isn't always bad, with my girl I can only get one finger in to start with, then two when she's gotten a bit excited, and to put my penis in we need to use lots of lube (I'm average length but slightly thickerthan average), so if she's tight then a big dick isn't always a good thing...

/mludd
 
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amnesiaseizure said:
this is a great way to look at having an under average penis - you can tell her that it's only the dick's over 6 inches that hurt during anal.
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actually from my one anal experience with a large cock, vaginal sex hurt more than anal, especially when he would thrust really hard (which is a bummer, because I looove the hard thrusting). Anal was just like any anal sex- once the insertion part was over, it was all painless. It surprised me a bit.
 
nephron said:
... right.

I don't come with someone just sitting inside me, no matter how much I love them.

Sex != love.

Also big penis != good sex, and small penis != bad sex.

to the OP- consider that you have an advantage- you are in a position to more fully develop other sexual skills.
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werd

its like for us guys

large labia = bad sex

perfect looking vagina =great sex
 
beamers said:
I read somewhere that the average was 5.5 inches and that this was also true for black guys.
This means that half of all guys are below 5.5 inches and half are above 5.5 inches.
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Actually, that would be the case if 5.5 inches were the mean, not the average. You should consider taking a statistics class.

Originally posted by beamers
Mines 7" long and 6" round, and points a little to the left just so it can hit all the spots
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If it points a little to the left, how can it hit all the spots? What about the spots on the right?
 
Not to poo poo your point, but I think you meant if it were the median, not mean (same thing as average).

It's a shame so many guys are hung up on size. If you're already naked with a girl it's basically a sure thing.
 
Well, im @ 6 inches, and thats not too bad, but its not wide enuff for my likings :( but it does the job... Don't let it get u down man - the average guy is 5-7inches.. 4.5 is a bit small, but fuck it - just play with her clit b4 the sex and u'll be okay
 
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