glitterbizkit
Bluelighter
beamers said:
Considering the fact that the average vagina is 3-4 inches in length (or was it 2-3?), it's not so hard.
-
-
SLR Moderators: Senior Staff
having a small penis
- Thread starter smalls
- Start date
Considering the fact that the average vagina is 3-4 inches in length (or was it 2-3?), it's not so hard.
MikeyLikesE
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Dec 2, 1999
- Messages
- 1,373
i hate this society some times....we boil and boil and boil everything down to it's most base conclusion. make a guy feel tiny because he doesnt measure up to some standard they have no control over.
it goes for women too, small boobs = worthless
well fuck that.
i know ive had some damned good sex in my life, ive made women go crazy....and no i will never make a girl feel like a two year old sitting on a post, but im also not worried about it.
but being bombarded with these thoughts, images, ideas over and over again only makes people feel bad for things they cannot control......
bah.
8)
it goes for women too, small boobs = worthless
well fuck that.
i know ive had some damned good sex in my life, ive made women go crazy....and no i will never make a girl feel like a two year old sitting on a post, but im also not worried about it.
but being bombarded with these thoughts, images, ideas over and over again only makes people feel bad for things they cannot control......
bah.
8)
penis size isn't important when you're talking about trying to have a great relationship w/ someone. because SEX is not what holds a relationship together. i can almost promise that if sex is the primary factor in any given relationship, it will become the very thing that makes the relationship fall apart. the couple will more than likely begin to dispise having sex w/ eachother and they'll stop.
while a big cock and deep thrusts dont hold a relationship together, they usually STILL FEEL GOOD!!! that is... IF.. you're not trying to keep a relationship w/ a guy who has a big cock and thrusts deep based totally on the sex. cos then you'll start to hate it.
small cock guys: do not fret - those hung studs aren't good for too much more than a few gasps and whimpers.
while a big cock and deep thrusts dont hold a relationship together, they usually STILL FEEL GOOD!!! that is... IF.. you're not trying to keep a relationship w/ a guy who has a big cock and thrusts deep based totally on the sex. cos then you'll start to hate it.
small cock guys: do not fret - those hung studs aren't good for too much more than a few gasps and whimpers.
cody510
Bluelighter
havin a small penis????
well to let u all kno yes i am gay and i have a small penis but i havent had complaints yet so it doesnt matter how big or small what does matter is do u kno how to use it
well to let u all kno yes i am gay and i have a small penis but i havent had complaints yet so it doesnt matter how big or small what does matter is do u kno how to use it
FaerieBum
Bluelighter
this whole thread reminds me of that episode of sex and the city
where samantha and her man at the time went to a sex therapist....and samantha finally just tells him that he has a small dick...and he responds with
"maybe you just have a big vagina!!" hahaha.
some of my friends are size queens and were telling me that they consider a small dick to be 6-7 inches. It just makes me think that they must be pretty roomy down there. Not meaning to insult the size queens on the board, i'm just saying.
I've had sex with men with large cocks who did nothing for me, and I've had sex with men with penises on the small side, and they've made me climax through penetration easily. Its all about positions and how you work it, for the most part.
where samantha and her man at the time went to a sex therapist....and samantha finally just tells him that he has a small dick...and he responds with
"maybe you just have a big vagina!!" hahaha.
some of my friends are size queens and were telling me that they consider a small dick to be 6-7 inches. It just makes me think that they must be pretty roomy down there. Not meaning to insult the size queens on the board, i'm just saying.
I've had sex with men with large cocks who did nothing for me, and I've had sex with men with penises on the small side, and they've made me climax through penetration easily. Its all about positions and how you work it, for the most part.
joystick
Bluelighter
This situation reminds me of the Pylon (from "Chain") lyric:
"What am I supposed to do?
What am I supposed to do?
What am I supposed to do?...There is no solution."
While it may be false that there is "no solution" to your conundrum, it is indeed true that the self-evident solutions are in fact highly imperfect, personal and painful.
Note: You have already stated that you are far from gay, but allow me to include the gay scenario as well for the sake of comphrehensiveness.
Three possible options:
(1) You find a woman who will "tolerate" your condition. Like someone else already said, this is not an impossible feat and is somewhat akin to a female with small breasts finding a significant other, only in the case of the male suitor, it is even more difficult because not just any prospective girlfriend you meet can look at you and plainly tell you have a 4 1/2 inch erect penis as soon as she sees you (as is not the case with smaller bust sized women, whose breast size is immediately recognizable to anyone and everyone who lays eyes on them) and because the penis, moreso than the female mammary glands, is more directly involved in human sexual gratification and sexual reproduction.
This fact makes for awkward dating scenarios because you will constantly be harried by the question, "When should I tell her?" If one out of twenty dates is not bothered by your very personal situation, then you will be forced to endure myriad, time-consumming, painful rejections before finding even the first good prospective match. Other men in your situation may choose to avoid dating altogether because being merely "tolerated" by a life partner is not enough which leads to (2).
(2) You remain stoically alone, while everyone around you gossips, at times maliciously, or merely wonders to themselves what is in fact "wrong" with you, a man of 27 years of age, as if being born modestly endowed is somehow a heinous crime against the human race.
Will they say that you are asexual? What about diseased? Deformed? Gay? Perveted? Impotent? Unstable? Insane?...you get the idea.
The list is endless, predictable and horrid and is only made worse by the answer that the only thing "wrong" with you is the way you are made: a condition which neither you nor anyone else can realistically change in this lifetime. Sure, there are surgergies, penis pumps, implants and pills, but their safety and efficacy is questionable at best.
(3) The Gay Card.
You look for a "top" man. For whatever reason, however, most gay men are even more obsessed with big dicked guys than the average nymphomaniac and much more so than the average, sweet girl next door.
However, I have been told and have seen online, that there are some gay men who want a smaller dicked man because they either want to have the bigger dick in the bedroom at all times or because they have a particular fetish for small dicks. The former types tend to be abusive control freaks, while the latter category borders on the freakish, although I have personally never met (to my knowledge) either type in person.
In short, there are no easy answers to your very private yet very public dilemma. However, until you can accept your body as yourself, then you have let the small dick haters win.
"What am I supposed to do?
What am I supposed to do?
What am I supposed to do?...There is no solution."
While it may be false that there is "no solution" to your conundrum, it is indeed true that the self-evident solutions are in fact highly imperfect, personal and painful.
Note: You have already stated that you are far from gay, but allow me to include the gay scenario as well for the sake of comphrehensiveness.
Three possible options:
(1) You find a woman who will "tolerate" your condition. Like someone else already said, this is not an impossible feat and is somewhat akin to a female with small breasts finding a significant other, only in the case of the male suitor, it is even more difficult because not just any prospective girlfriend you meet can look at you and plainly tell you have a 4 1/2 inch erect penis as soon as she sees you (as is not the case with smaller bust sized women, whose breast size is immediately recognizable to anyone and everyone who lays eyes on them) and because the penis, moreso than the female mammary glands, is more directly involved in human sexual gratification and sexual reproduction.
This fact makes for awkward dating scenarios because you will constantly be harried by the question, "When should I tell her?" If one out of twenty dates is not bothered by your very personal situation, then you will be forced to endure myriad, time-consumming, painful rejections before finding even the first good prospective match. Other men in your situation may choose to avoid dating altogether because being merely "tolerated" by a life partner is not enough which leads to (2).
(2) You remain stoically alone, while everyone around you gossips, at times maliciously, or merely wonders to themselves what is in fact "wrong" with you, a man of 27 years of age, as if being born modestly endowed is somehow a heinous crime against the human race.
Will they say that you are asexual? What about diseased? Deformed? Gay? Perveted? Impotent? Unstable? Insane?...you get the idea.
The list is endless, predictable and horrid and is only made worse by the answer that the only thing "wrong" with you is the way you are made: a condition which neither you nor anyone else can realistically change in this lifetime. Sure, there are surgergies, penis pumps, implants and pills, but their safety and efficacy is questionable at best.
(3) The Gay Card.
You look for a "top" man. For whatever reason, however, most gay men are even more obsessed with big dicked guys than the average nymphomaniac and much more so than the average, sweet girl next door.
However, I have been told and have seen online, that there are some gay men who want a smaller dicked man because they either want to have the bigger dick in the bedroom at all times or because they have a particular fetish for small dicks. The former types tend to be abusive control freaks, while the latter category borders on the freakish, although I have personally never met (to my knowledge) either type in person.
In short, there are no easy answers to your very private yet very public dilemma. However, until you can accept your body as yourself, then you have let the small dick haters win.
Last edited:
glitterbizkit
Bluelighter
cxsx said:
I disagree totally...
big cock + deep thrusting= fucking OW!!!
small cock + deep thrusting= hmm, yeah, that feels ok
average cock + deep thrusting= FUCKING HEAVEN (assuming average is between 5 and 7)
Also, I agree with faeriebum. I don't understand how anyone can ever think 6-7 inches is small.
babybull
Bluelighter
banksy said:
That is fuckin hilarious
Benefit
Bluelighter
The thing with finding an average penis size is that it's just a really tough undertaking. You can't randomly sample people and measure their wangs. Conversely, if you ask for volunteers I would suspect the more well endowed males would be the ones to volunteer which would skew the results. Guys with little dongs probably aren't going to jump at the chance to particpate in a scientific study.
Also, when it comes to penis size, there is A LOT of bullshit out there. You get girls all the time that talk out of their asses and say they've never had a cock under nine inches, their boyfriend's cock is ten inches, etc. I wouldn't trust any kind of anecdotal evidence like that. So basically, don't even worry about it if you got a little wang. It's not the end of the world. Napoleon had one of the smallest penises in history, and he still had a lot of good things going for him. :D
Also, when it comes to penis size, there is A LOT of bullshit out there. You get girls all the time that talk out of their asses and say they've never had a cock under nine inches, their boyfriend's cock is ten inches, etc. I wouldn't trust any kind of anecdotal evidence like that. So basically, don't even worry about it if you got a little wang. It's not the end of the world. Napoleon had one of the smallest penises in history, and he still had a lot of good things going for him. :D
ChemicalSmiles
Ex-Bluelighter
My dick is just under 6 inches prob 6 inches now cause it has gotten a little large. Ive been with 8 girls and all but 1 said that it was more than enough. I am experienced sexually (3 long term relationships). I know almost every position and girls are literally shocked the first time we do it and end up in 7-8 positions easy. The look on their faces after is precious. Ive also learned that some girls dont cum while your inside or are very hard to get off. You have to know how to use your fingers to stimulate the g-spot and how to eat pussy and stimulate the clit with JUST THE RIGHT amount of pressure. You cant poke the thing! Or rub too hard because its very sensitive and it will ruin it. You dont sound like your not capable of pleasing a woman or giving an orgasm. Make sure you know plenty of positions and ones that go deeper and keep it tighter than usual. Try getting on top and holding her legs back as far as she can + put them as close as they can go. You can also vary this by putting both legs as far back and putting them on either side of your shoulder (keeps it tight!) Always put two pillows underneath her back by her bum for a better angle. The pillows are actually used in a variety of positions. Try doggystle (again with the pillows underneath her stomach).... push down on her lower back (gently) and hit it deep, when your all the way in keep it there and move it around. Also try getting directly right up on her ass and staying there grinding up down and around. Also try doggy while standing up. Have her stand up and bend over holding the bed with her hands (best with a lower bed but also harder for her to keep balance. Put 1 leg on the bed beside her and hit it hard. You will get very deep on this one. And every time you do it doggy make sure her legs are close together instead of spread. If she knows how to ride then she will get good clitoral stimulation, if she isnt experienced grab her and pull her against you making sure her clit is getting rubbed. If shes good at her work have her get on top facing away. Have her support herself by putting her feet on top of your legs, and her hands on the side of you. Help her move op and down and at the same time rub her tits, girls go crazy on top while you rub their nipples.
When going down flick the clit gently while fingering her. Go in a couple of inches and give the "come here" motion. Basically you hold your hand palm up when doing this. You can vary the fingering by what she likes and how she responds. While fingering vary the tongue action. Flick the tongue lightly on the clit, then try doing the alphabet a b c ect... (use a little more pressure this time) Then try grabbing her clit with your closed mouth and sucking softly, then pull back ever so softly with your lips untill it slides out. Then try the figure eight. GO up and down her pussy, stopping shortly at the clit for a little harder pressure. Do the figure 8 ... hope this helps man. Just a few tips to help you... I could go on and on but you gotta learn yourself...
-weez
When going down flick the clit gently while fingering her. Go in a couple of inches and give the "come here" motion. Basically you hold your hand palm up when doing this. You can vary the fingering by what she likes and how she responds. While fingering vary the tongue action. Flick the tongue lightly on the clit, then try doing the alphabet a b c ect... (use a little more pressure this time) Then try grabbing her clit with your closed mouth and sucking softly, then pull back ever so softly with your lips untill it slides out. Then try the figure eight. GO up and down her pussy, stopping shortly at the clit for a little harder pressure. Do the figure 8 ... hope this helps man. Just a few tips to help you... I could go on and on but you gotta learn yourself...
-weez
implicitprodigy
Bluelighter
Having a large penis is everything....If you have a small member you should feel really embarrassed...how do you go into public knowing your penis is small....You should try looking into turning gay...there your guys wont care as much...I feel really bad for you, And I suggest that you stay indoors at all time untill a later date...
joystick
Bluelighter
^^implicitprodigy,
I'm 29, and the only serious girlfriend I've ever really had left me because of this reason. It's unfortunate I know, but what you wrote pretty much describes how I feel about myself at this point. I don't even consider approaching other girls anymore.
That's pretty much as much as I want to talk about this subject for the time being. I wasn't trying to sound rude or condescending towards smalls, if that's what you think.
I'm 29, and the only serious girlfriend I've ever really had left me because of this reason. It's unfortunate I know, but what you wrote pretty much describes how I feel about myself at this point. I don't even consider approaching other girls anymore.
That's pretty much as much as I want to talk about this subject for the time being. I wasn't trying to sound rude or condescending towards smalls, if that's what you think.
implicitprodigy
Bluelighter
i was just kidding, I just think smalls was posting bullshit
so what's the conclusion?
1. dicks come in all sizes
2. a small dick is an issue if you choose to make it an issue
![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
alasdair
1. dicks come in all sizes
2. a small dick is an issue if you choose to make it an issue
alasdair
Last edited:
MikeyLikesE
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Dec 2, 1999
- Messages
- 1,373
bah who cares really jeez peoples, roll up a jay with your girl and go to town, she'll love it and wont think for a second about the size, just how oh my gawd great you are.
either that or lock yourself in a tower and throw away the key...
no wait, just off yourself.
lorena bobbitt yourself and try some lipstick.
j/k
just relax folx, with age comes wisedom....and about half an inch on your member.
either that or lock yourself in a tower and throw away the key...
no wait, just off yourself.
lorena bobbitt yourself and try some lipstick.
j/k
just relax folx, with age comes wisedom....and about half an inch on your member.
