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having a small penis

I wouldn't be to worried about having a small one. I know a friend that admited to having a small one but every time I caught him finishing up the act, the girls would be more winded out them him. Just think of what Robin Williams said in the movie 'Death to Smoochie.' "ITS SMALL BUT ITS FEIRCE!"

EDIT: I type to fast.
 
Have the intelligence to accept the things you cannot change, the strength to change the things you can, and the wisedom to know the difference.
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drunk;)

You will find that women have preferences on this matter simuliar to mens preferences on breast size. Personally I like big boobs, many other guys don't. Some girls will want a big penis, others won't. Not the end of the world.
 
Your obviously not going to become brad pitt in bed however even he is getting divorced.
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That's because Jennifer is a dumb ugly whore that got paid to much and thinks she's important. I'm sure Brad has no trouble in bed.
 
I was at a sex store the other night and saw somethign called the penis extender something that sliped over the end of your cock and extened it a few inches.

Might help in your case. shurgs'
 
I've seen a study that has average at 5.1 inches, so you're really not that far off from average. Besides, there's always cunnilingus. . .
 
^^ That is the truth.

The average male penis extends a mere 5 and a half inches...

4 1/2" is not far off..., account for the average vaginal depth ( in previous post); throw in a bit of skill and tactic (which you can read about, imagine while masturbating, and imagine in your head) - and quite frankly, you can be an excellent lover in bed.

A few illusory tactics:

1) shave down there. All of it. Gives the appearance of being bigger.

2) When (or if) you have sex, give her a few shallow thrusts to excite the shallow g-spot and to get some clitoral stimulation...then when you go deep, make it slow..., and when you are all the way in, continue pushing with your pelvis to make it seem like you're going deeper.

When you are all the way in, hold it there, and move it around in circles. She'll feel it, I promise.

then go back to shallow thrusts...and while you're at it, throw a finger down there or something and start massaging the clit.

there are soooo many other ways to stimulate a woman than just penis size. In fact, that's probably the least effective.

SI
 
Porsche? are you kidding me? That's like a Honda civic with a longer history.

Ferarri is the answer.
 
hey Smalls.. If you makes you feel any better, I think I have a small one also. It's bigger than yours, but I suck so bad in bed it's a joke. If you read my other post, you'll see that I can't last for shit in bed. I am pretty confident in my looks, and I know a lot of girls like me but, getting any further than just talking is a big fear for me.
 
Dude.......The small penis thing is the same exact thing women go thru w/ small breasts and/or their bodies......

Sopme guys are really obssessed w/ their size.......But men dont have it that bad b/c when u first meet a girl......she has no idea what ur size is...as opposed to women who's breast and/or body cant really be hidden.....

Therefore u have the chance to have her like u regardless of ur physical characteristics.....And man once u are really feeling a girl and shes feeling u......Your dick size will be the last thing on her mind.......Women are not nearly as superficial as us men......

I mean think about it dude.....At least u can be yourself w/o ur dick makiong the first impression as opposed to many women who are just overweight or have abnormally small breasts, ect.....

I had a gf who had realllly small breasts........It really took alot to break her out of her insecurity.....We didnt have sex for a long time b/c of it......But when we eventually did......She felt like the biggest moron cuz she let something as superficial as a body part keep her from enjoying some of the best things in life, in this case, mindblowing sex....:)

Just realize thats its not ur dicksize from keeping u from having a gf or getting laid.....Its u not facing/overcoming ur insecurities......Your missing out....The only i way i can suggest u overcome this is to simply just face it....You will always feel the same until u face it and get it over w/.....The thing that is fucking u over is ur mind......Not ur dick....

Your insecurities have made u miss out on most of ur teenaged and adult sex life......Doesnt that make u pissed off? I hope it does......Do u wanna stay stuck w/ the same insecutroty the rest of ur life? I hope not......Eventually u gonna have to face it......I figure u might as well get it over w/ and stop hinder yoursefl and ur poor dick that his been sooo deprived throughtout ur sex life......

Do ur dick a favor......and give him a chance!!!!:D
 
i know lots of girls and gay guys that would prefer a smaller penis to a big one. ive gotten lots of compliments about my small but incredibly cute penis :)
 
Turn it around to your advantage: You don't NEED to sleep with her first do you? So perhaps work on being a really lovely boyfriend who isn't after just sex, one that makes her feel really special because you just want to be with her and entertain her and hang out.
When she wants it she can come to you for it, hopefully by then you would have convinced her of your wonderful wit, caring and thoughtful ways and have her totally gagging for when she makes sweet love with you (let's be positive here!)
I wouldn't suggest talking to her about it though, just go for it if and when the time happens (oh, spend heaps of time downstairs so she is screaming in delight and forgo your own oral pleasure for a while).
 
just try to date smaller girls...smaller girls equal smaller parts usually
 
Honestly, 4.5 inches in quite small
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Average is 5 inches erect. So he's not that far off but most of the guys I have been with have been 6.5-7 inches.

Let me tell you ... big dicks can be unpleasurable, small dicks can not be very pleasurable either BUT as long as the person can turn you on, touch you just right, say some dirty things and can get a rhythm going the sex can be fucking hot and amazing as hell.

Approach sex with confidence, women don't want to see insecure men. A girls job is to be insecure ;)
 
its the way you use it. my ex had a small one and he was the BEST fuk ive ever had.
 
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SO...in conclusion...Girlies, if they've gotten to the point of nakedness with you, should in my opinion be of the quality where unzipping your pants and finding a slightly small penis is not going to be an issue, because they're naked with you- and that's your penis, and how lovely is it to touch and see that part of you regardless...
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Original poster should read this part again:)
 
Size doesn't matter as long as you can work it than you should be fine. I was with a guy who didn't have a large pines and to top it off the first time we had sex he was having a hard time keeping it up he went down after 5 min in to it. He was very upset with himself I can only imagine how embarrassing that was for him and the only thing I could do was comfort him but, that didn't stop me from seeing him because we were dating for a few months before that incident and I became very close to him and I wasn't going to let something like that brake up what we had. Sex is very important in a relationship but love is a lot more important. So the second time we had sex he didn't last very long but being afraid that the same thing that happened the first time could happen the second time he decided that he would give me head until I came he made sure that I was satisfied before he took care of himself. He is a average size man and he has a problem lasting in bed but he makes me have multiple orgasms with just his fingers and his mouth. He is my love and a year later we are sill going strong. I've had bigger guys in the past but that doesn't compare to the love I have with my so no matter what size he is.

You will find that right girl whose going to love you for you and she will stick by you no matter what. Good luck ;)
 
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