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Good Enough (Body)?

honestly, I'm not sure why you and OTW are in this little tiff here... seems to me you have started a thread of a bunch of photos of women, then asking if these women are "good enough" (your words).

now you are telling OTW that he is the freak who hates women... all he has tried to say is that it doesn't matter to him what a women looks like as much as what her personality is like. while every person on earth is going to have preferences on appearance, he's saying that physical appearance isn't as important to him as her attitude and intelligence.

what I see is an insecure woman trying to get validation from a group of internet nobodies. sorry if this sounds harsh but you come across not as vain (also your words) but very shallow. more concerned with what everyone else's opinion of you is than what you think of yourself.
 
Yea, hadn't heard that before.

And he's the one who reckons this is "Having let yourself go". Do you find this an healthy message to spread to young women? She's simply of larger built (like tall, modelesque women often are - can't do much with your inherent bone-structure and muscle-mass even if it's not to all men's taste) and as a man I thought you'd enjoy the Julie Ege Gallery.

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I simply love and admire femae beauty and enjoy my conversations with Rocko, who's simply the same, more. And what in this world is more beautiful than a beautiful woman? Don't see anything wrong with this. I'm not the one talking down to them or pointing out their flaws. I simply make objective comments as I have no problem with a woman more beautiful than me and simply congratulate her. Or is this such a foreign concept? Are we all supposed to catty bitches and hating each other?

I just love the beauty of this world of which women are some of the greatest examples and don't really see you're problem with that. It like if you take an interest in beautiful women you have to be either envious, insecure, or something unhealthy like that. Beauty is a factor that makes a great difference in all women's life (having experoenced it) and acknowledging it, rather than being in denial of it, seems to be a healthier approach.

When it's more like a man admirering a male athlete. I'm sure many women would back me up on this. Or why do you think they read Vogue? Meanwhile I've been commissioned to write an artilce of the Bulgarian mystic Peter Deunov so it's not like I'm that one-dimensional. And I'm sure any random girl on the street with silicone in her lips and tits would turn out to be worse than me.
 
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Ninae said:
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I also think most men would prefer the second version, even if they prefer the natural look, simply because it's more visually beautiful (if only there was a way to make it look more natural/less glamorous).
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Incorrect, men will go for the first one. Boys that only know lust will go for the second one. That's the secret to attracting good men BTW.


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But hips the size of Niagara Falls.

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And that's about as skinny as I can get.
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That looks fine. What's the big deal? The only thing most males would like is definition, which is just work in the gym with resistance. I know I personally prefer the hips and thighs.
 
Ninae said:
And he's the one who reckons this is "Having let yourself go". Do you find this an healthy message to spread to young women?
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I'm sorry but where do you get the idea that OTW is trying to spread messages to young women?
 
I have 3 private girl boarding schools within 1km of my practice. It is not uncommon to have giggling teenagers sitting in the corner of my surgery using their mobile phones to take photos of me.

It's a little disconcerting being treated like a piece of meat and knowing my image is being passed around back at the dorms during their nocturnal dabble sessions, but at least I'm not fat or balding and they have good taste.
 
omg, lol

I'm so glad I'm getting my confidence back.
You just have to not listen to fuckers who don't appreciate you.
NO matter what you look like, someone will.
There is no need to be appealing to masses of people unless you are going to breed with them all.
I mean on a practical level. For real this is lame.
 
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