girlygrrl
Bluelighter
^^ I have to agree, especially about how the Dao de Jing trumps the bible any day. If people could just agree to be less dogmatic and more "go with the flow" that would help a lot.
Darkness seems to be most harmful attached to anger and extreme lust; when one allows anger to fester in their heart or one allows lust to fester to where they have no regards for the object of their lust then these things can take over and ruin someone way more than just about anything else ever could. And "feeling victimized" can often grow into "becoming an abuser" if one cannot let go of such feelings.
Addiction/obsession is probably the only other thing that is really super destructive. One can latch on to just about anything to become addicted to it. Most people are addicted to hedonism or escapism at some level. And I see far too many people becoming addicted to dogma and obsessing over "pleasing god" or obsessing over "the afterlife" or "being right" instead of focusing on healthier things.
If you let go of anger, lust, and addiction and focus on going with the flow then you can start experiencing ego loss and then life becomes much more harmonious.
Darkness seems to be most harmful attached to anger and extreme lust; when one allows anger to fester in their heart or one allows lust to fester to where they have no regards for the object of their lust then these things can take over and ruin someone way more than just about anything else ever could. And "feeling victimized" can often grow into "becoming an abuser" if one cannot let go of such feelings.
Addiction/obsession is probably the only other thing that is really super destructive. One can latch on to just about anything to become addicted to it. Most people are addicted to hedonism or escapism at some level. And I see far too many people becoming addicted to dogma and obsessing over "pleasing god" or obsessing over "the afterlife" or "being right" instead of focusing on healthier things.
If you let go of anger, lust, and addiction and focus on going with the flow then you can start experiencing ego loss and then life becomes much more harmonious.