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Girls who do drugs

LSD is too beautiful of a substance/experience to not let my girlfriend know all about it :)

and of course she loved it and decided to only do it with me when we both have the time to...amazing.
 
Hmmm....interesting question. Ideally for me, my gf would have used drugs in the past, but is coming out of them like I am. Im late 20's so in 5-10 years time when i want to settle down, maybe have a family etc I dont want to be taking E's on the weekend at raves. Im not saying I'll never do E again after im 35, but i dont want to be coming home at 8am fucked up on 10 pills and sleeping all day when I've got kids and stuff. You get me?

I have been out with someone before who hadn't used drugs, and i felt they looked down on me for it. If your with someone who has/does use then you escape not only the judgemental attitude, but can also share some particularly awesome times. Try not to base your relationship around drugs though mate, you need more than that.

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so most bluelighter guys find acceptability - borderline attraction! - in girl's who use..? yea, i'm definitely in the minority on this one. extremely and entirely hypocritical, i know. my 2 pennies, but i just don't find the attraction in getting fucked up with a chick. watching a girl snort pills, shoot up, trip, whatever, is unattractive in its own right. this same girl so fucked up she can't talk, form coherent thoughts, stay focused/awake, and looks like she's an LD kid by the gigantic shit-eating grin on her face..now that's damn unsexy and a half.


note: to all the ladies who prefer credit cards for lining bumps and the guys who'd rather see a girl blow pills than blow dicks: i do hope you didn't take this to heart and take offense to my bluntness. i'm very opinionated. and always right. all apologies.
 
<~~~ is a girl that does drugs with her boyfriend. it's all gravy at first, but when the drugs run out and the withdrawals start it can be pure hell... feeling like shit and getting on each other's nerves, paranoid they held out and they're using without you... it gets ugly.
 
of course i suggest have a gf who is willing to give it a shot, meaning to try it, if she doesnt like it, then its done, i wouldnt force drugs on anyone, especially someone who i would like.

but i would force E down her throat once in a while for bedroom purposes :)
 
I love my fiancee, partly because she never does drugs. She has tried all the major drugs in the past, but after my addiction to narcotics she completely stopped. It is nice to have someone sensible who keeps me in line, and I never have to worry about anything related to drugs. She will smoke weed once or twice a year, so she isn't completely straight edge.
 
I would rather find a straight edge girl who knows what she wants in life. To each his own though, whatever makes you happy right?
 
I'm kind of surprised at how many guys who use drugs (assuming so at least, considering the forum we're on) wouldn't date a girl who uses. I also think it's surprising how doing drugs seem to correlate with not having any plans/direction in life.... cause I'd definitely say I know a lot of drug users (guys and girls) who are very intelligent, and use casually, or for spiritual purposes, but are definitely not that much different directionally than most people my age. Some, I'd even say, seem to have more a purpose for being alive than some college students that just get trashed every weekend at frat parties.

It probably does depend on the drug mostly used, however. Anywho, I like this thread, it's interesting.
 
peacebone said:
I'm kind of surprised at how many guys who use drugs (assuming so at least, considering the forum we're on) wouldn't date a girl who uses. I also think it's surprising how doing drugs seem to correlate with not having any plans/direction in life.... cause I'd definitely say I know a lot of drug users (guys and girls) who are very intelligent, and use casually, or for spiritual purposes, but are definitely not that much different directionally than most people my age. Some, I'd even say, seem to have more a purpose for being alive than some college students that just get trashed every weekend at frat parties.

It probably does depend on the drug mostly used, however. Anywho, I like this thread, it's interesting.
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I'm not surprised, I notice it seems to follow a similar frequency and pattern to the guys who don't have issues with sleeping with girls who have someone else yet would never consider letting their g/f be with another guy. Another girl is of course, fine. *eyerolls*
 
peacebone said:
I'm kind of surprised at how many guys who use drugs (assuming so at least, considering the forum we're on) wouldn't date a girl who uses. I also think it's surprising how doing drugs seem to correlate with not having any plans/direction in life.... cause I'd definitely say I know a lot of drug users (guys and girls) who are very intelligent, and use casually, or for spiritual purposes, but are definitely not that much different directionally than most people my age. Some, I'd even say, seem to have more a purpose for being alive than some college students that just get trashed every weekend at frat parties.

It probably does depend on the drug mostly used, however. Anywho, I like this thread, it's interesting.
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Gldm said:
I'm not surprised, I notice it seems to follow a similar frequency and pattern to the guys who don't have issues with sleeping with girls who have someone else yet would never consider letting their g/f be with another guy. Another girl is of course, fine. *eyerolls*
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I read these posts, in verbatim, to my fiance. Because that's EXACTLY how he feels. God. :p So retarded.
 
Now, when I got with my boyfriend I wasn't even sure what pot was.
Hell I'd never even seen it.
But when I found out he smoked it, I was all for it.

And now we smoke together =]

And I can't see myself ever being with a guy who isn't atleast up for smoking every once in a while.
Especially never a guy who's hardcore against all drugs. They tend to be so preachy and naive about every other aspect of their lives as well- who could deal with that all the time =?
 
I like to hang out with or get into a relationship with a girl who does drugs; provided she isn't getting way more wasted way more often than I am. That's when I know I've taken on someone with some severe problems.
 
I already posted in this thread about how my fiancee and I do the same drugs at the same time and it's great..but fuck that. Drugs have gotten in the way of the best relationship I've ever had, and honestly I'm done with them except the occasional trip at a festival or something. I don't know for sure yet, but I might have lost the most important person in the world to me because of drugs.
 
I think the type of drugs we are talking about make a difference...

I've only used LSD with my girlfriend and nothing else, besides alcohol..and its amazing..

I wouldn't want to start using coke or opiates with her because of what other people have stated, the withdrawals suck and it would be easy to get into fights over that kinda shit..but psychedelics...man they open up a new door in relationships and I never want to close.
 
I want an ex-tweeker turned stoner. that's my dream chick. twisted enough from the speed to be interesting as a bud-dome.
 
I like girls who aren't addicts. That occasionally uses drugs. If they're not drug users, then I like the type that is open minded and knows that I can use drugs responsibly.
 
My preference is for women who use drugs in a similar fashion to myself .... enough to be fun, but staying very clear of addiction. My GF of eight years has an addictive personality, so we stay far away from amphetamines and opiates.

I'd rather stop my own use of something instead of risking that hell for her.

To Gldm & Danashae: Some people can't seem to get away from that insecurity/jealousy problem. If they ever get past it, try a MDMA house party ... incredible fun with the right people! :D
 
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