Girls who do drugs

[Link_S]

^She's a 1 in a million

 

[cba]

Casual = wrapped up....ummmm, no. There is a difference.

where the fuck do you see the equal sign in my post? those two words aren't even in the same god damn paragraph.

 

[dilated_pupils]

^you probably shouldn't ask her repeatedly. IMO if she doesn't want to use drugs, and you want to be with someone who uses drugs, you should find yourself a new girl. Instead of pushing them on somebody who doesn't want them.

I stated that wrong. She just gets paranoid about smoking, thinking she will get caught or something and we'll be inside my house. Thats what I meant about pushing her a bit to smoke. I don't try and make her do anything else, she chose to do ecstasy, I think she may eventually trip too, she just wants to find info about drugs, even though I'm a drug guru and have explained everything to here many times. But it's good she wants to learn, I respect that.

 

[The_Idler]

I go to the local grammar school sixth form.

I'm pretty certain, out of all the girls there,
absolutely none of them have ever even partaken in the ganja.





-_-

 

[RedLeader]

where the fuck do you see the equal sign in my post? those two words aren't even in the same god damn paragraph.

"I feel as though if smart girls turn you on then you would be dating straight edge girls."

This statement preculdes that you'd never find a realationship with a smart girl who casually does drugs, because you don't think such a person could exist. Maybe I phrased my initial reply awkwardly, but it's truly sad if you feel as if such a person couldn't exist.

 

[The_Idler]

.....if smart girls turn you on then you would be dating straight edge girls.....

you imply that only straight-edge girls can be smart.

This is idiocy.


At the least, there is an even distribution between the two camps, and that's including those who do the more stupid drugs, addictive non-psychedelics.

 

[cba]

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have you been reading this thread, did you read what the OP posted.. have you actually read my whole post?

you are taking a phrase and running your mouth like a fucking democrat.

 

[GenericMind]

What the hell do political parties have to do with the discussion?

 

[malakaix]

lol.

I'd agree with the OP, i've hung around straight edge chicks.. and then chicks who are on Ecstasy or LSD. And it'd just so much more of a fun experience with the ones on drugs.

I don't have a g/f i do drugs with, but i have a few female friends who i regularly get fucked up with. I think been on MDMA with a S/O would just be unbelievably amazing.. but you also gotta weigh out the downsides to that too (comedown, depression, arguing etc)

 

[Thanatos]

I've been in a relationship for 2 years and i have still yet to get my girlfriend to smoke with me. Its hard for us to understand each other because i am a daily smoker, among other substances. When i try to explain what the psychedelic experience is all about, she just listens but doesn't have anything to say besides that she respects my love for these special substances and that she is open to my ideas.

I love her more than anything but my dream is to be able to experience the love of entheogens with the person i love the most. It can be a difficult situation at times. Although i feel like i'm missing out on something amazing, i'm glad that she is sober. It gives tension that all relationships need. I love learning about such a different person

 

[Walks]

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have you been reading this thread, did you read what the OP posted.. have you actually read my whole post?

you are taking a phrase and running your mouth like a fucking democrat.

lol new insult is new.

I have dated girls who did and didnt do drugs. I have dumped a girl cause she smoked pot all the time and she never wanted to do anything but smoke so I see both sides of it

 

[Atheist.]

It would be ideal for a girlfriend to do drugs with me. But if they're cool with me using and don't use themselves I'd be fine with it, although I would feel as if they're missing out and I doubt they could ever really understand why I used if they haven't.

 

[MynameisnotDeja]

I'm a girl, but I wouldn't date someone who didn't at least do some sort of substance.. I'm not talking about being with someone who abuses drugs hardcore, that would bring everything down. But it's so nice to have experiences with drugs like psychedelics and to be able to share it with someone close to you

My thoughts exactly. The key is finding someone who shares a similar belief about usage, whats appropriate and what's not, etc. For example I wouldn't be able to be with someone who smoked pot all day every day, but I also wouldn't like being with someone who wouldn't want me smoking pot at all, ever. It's all about finding the balance.

I have dated girls who did and didnt do drugs. I have dumped a girl cause she smoked pot all the time and she never wanted to do anything but smoke so I see both sides of it

^yep.

My ex didn't do drugs at all and was very, very against them to the point where I wasn't allowed to have anything in the house, etc. He saw things so black and white, it was incredibly stupid. For example in his eyes it was basically the same thing to be strung out on crack for weeks as it was to drop acid and have an incredible experience one night out of the year. He was totally brainwashed to the "drugs are bad" mentality. Pretty sad really. It wasn't even the fact that he didn't do drugs himself that bothered me so much as the narrow minded mentality of it. I always thought it was really sad that he wasn't opened minded enough to consider sharing an amazing experience with me if the opportunity arose.

 

[oliviazipper]

i'm a girl and i would definitely rather have a boyfriend (or lover haha) that does drugs as i do, sharing the experience with another is a totally different than doing it by yourself, or with friends. as amazing as it is each time, sharing it with someone you really care about is more amazing fo sho.
then again, i've been with guys who don't share the same '"drug habit" and they just smoke, but that's cool too. straight-edge guys just wouldn't work though, they'd try to convert me or something haha

 

[IGNVS]

most of the girls i know that do drugs are totally fucking retarted barred out whores or burnouts.

i wanna meet a girl that likes to trip, but understands it and respects it and knows what it is and how to use it.

 

[Too many doses]

Ive had good and bad experiances with ex's and drugs. At its best its rolling and playing around and having fun w/ eachother. At its worst it can be her stealing all of your money to go buy crack. The moral of the story dont date a girl just because she has a vagina and does drugs, if you do that you'll end up with the aforementioned crack whore. I personally wont date anyone who does coke or heroin.

 

[oliviazipper]

most of the girls i know that do drugs are totally fucking retarted barred out whores or burnouts.

i wanna meet a girl that likes to trip, but understands it and respects it and knows what it is and how to use it.

sucks, you are meeting the wroooong girls :/

 

[Excido]

I couldn't date a chick who wasn't at least open to the idea or fine with me using, or at least has enough trust in me to know I'm being responsible. But if she was like me in my use all the better, and perhaps if she had connections to get me more stuff haha.

 

[rangrz]

I met my GF when she mixed too much benzos/booze at a party, and everyone left her to aspirate on vomit, and I stayed with her and made sure she was okay and got her home.

now, we usually spend an evening or two a week getting pretty fucked up on opioids, and spend our other times more or less sober and doing "normal" stuff...its nice and she is a wonderful person, despite enjoying some chemicals now and then.

 

[jdizzle]

I love druggie chicks. They tend to put up with my psycho bullshit better than straight-edge or casual-user girls. They do have their own set of problems though.