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girls lying about mens .....size

Guys with big dicks generally know about it, as other men (as in, friends or teammates) have pointed it out to them many a time.
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....i can honestly say, no guy has ever commented on the size of my dick, nor have i ever commented on the size of theirs.
 
rincewindrocks said:
....i can honestly say, no guy has ever commented on the size of my dick, nor have i ever commented on the size of theirs.
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Yeah I don't know, I spend a good chunk of time naked with my friends, swimming, at regional "burns" etc etc without clothing and i have yet to hear dick size talk, and frankly flaccid doesn't mean shit, unless we are talking about something truly extraordinary.

And I think, from personal experience, women do tend to over estimate size quite often.
 
oh please. you stick a tongue and finger in there and, ime, that does just fine. vaginas are very adaptable and can accomodate AND FEEL dicks of all size.
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Well, maybe that works for some, but I don't like fingers or tongues, and dick size absolutely matters to me.

That said, I've only come across a very few guys in my life who I'd actually consider small enough to not be good in bed. I felt super sorry for them because it seems most guys are average or even big. But yeah... sorry, it does matter. My vagina is apparently not very adaptable. :D And I'm small/tight!

edit-wanted to add that part of it depends on the woman and how she gets sexual pleasure. Most women like clitoral stimulation which you don't even need a dick for. I can't stand clitoral stimulation, I only like internal/g-spot stimulation. So maybe that is why it matters for me, because if a guy can't reach my spot, I don't feel shit.
 
MynameisnotDeja said:
I felt super sorry for them because it seems most guys are average or even big. .
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Most guys are average.

Most guys are definately not "big" lol... funny statement.

Now perhaps "big" (and maybe average) guys get an inordinate percentage of sexual partners due to confidence increase etc.
 
i'm sure girls flatter guys from time to time. i know i've told plenty of women white lies about their appearance to avoid setting off an Insecurity Bomb. i kind of measure myself against the dudes in porn, figuring that Porno Average is equivalent to Normal Guy Big.

i have some close girlfriends who know i'm not insecure about my size, so i've sat in on some pretty in-depth conversations about who they've fucked, how big they were and how good it was. a small guy can make do, but i definitely get the impression that a big guy is at an advantage. of course, if you're dealing with a girl who knows what she's doing, it all just kind of gets lumped into your overall "good in bed" score, and that's a lot more than just size and endurance.

as for guys talking about dick size, i've almost NEVER heard it. nobody's hard in the locker room, and i can't imagine anything less cool than describing my aroused penis to a friend.
 
i have had an ex cum while on top ,while i was losing an erection(i was from the whole relationship going sideways ,she was plaing me and i simply couldnt stay erect anymore ,just wasnt into it)

so with a soft falaccid penis(i dunno 4"") she came and said ah thats all i needed ...i was simply amazed and like are u fucking serious ...but it was true she waS BLUNT ABOUT ALOT OF SHIT INCLUDING SEX
 
Usually people will not say something like that unless they mean it or you're obviously insecure and they're trying to make you feel better. If you don't mention it and a girl brings it up out of nowhere, chances are she's being honest. At least that's what I think. I know I wouldn't personally say, "Whoa, you have a huge dick!" unless I actually meant it. If in reality I thought little of a man's penis I would simply refrain from discussing its size at all and I think most women are probably the same when it comes to this subject. I mean yeah, people lie, but girls generally don't bring up penis size out of nowhere if they are straight up lying about it.

I would say the only time most girls would lie about a man being well-endowed would be if he verbally expressed concern or issues with insecurity in regards to his size and the girls are trying to make said guy feel better about it.
 
I'd never lie to a guy about his size. I've had men that were small ask me what I thought, and I've sort of told them the truth. By that, I mean sugar-coated it a bit. E.g. "It's on the small side of average, but it feels great".
Never told a guy he was big unless he was. Sometimes this is preceded by a scream of pain as he hits my cervix too hard.
 
Not meaning to sound big headed but every woman who has seen my penis has gone "wow your big" or something similar haha.
 
My girlfriend says I have a big dick (too big for her even), and I think she honestly means it, but I attribute it to her not being with many men (2 others, who very well might be small by comparison). I think I'm average, and one girl I've been with has even hinted at small.
 
glitterbizkit said:
I'd never lie to a guy about his size. I've had men that were small ask me what I thought, and I've sort of told them the truth. By that, I mean sugar-coated it a bit. E.g. "It's on the small side of average, but it feels great".
Never told a guy he was big unless he was. Sometimes this is preceded by a scream of pain as he hits my cervix too hard.
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so you lie and tell a guy that is below the average of 5"-6" that he is on the on the small side of average and that he he feels great when he really does not? is that what you call a sugar coated lie?
 
Eh, this is a no win situation for the ladies involved.

If one tries to be supportive and respectful of a man's feelings, or one just wants to turn him on more by telling him he is well equiped, that same man will turn around and devalue that comment.

I would be happy with someone who was/is willing to make an effort to make me feel comfortable and valued as a person and a sexual being.

Think about it this way guys. If you like a girl and she asks you if her ass looks big in a pair of pants ( even if she has a big ass ) what would you be more inclined to say?

:D
 
Girls, how would I know if a girl thinks I'm small?

So this girl I've liked for a long fuckin time is finally willing to do somethin sexual with me.. She didn't say what but you all know when she says, "Whatever happens, happens ;)" means youre gonna get somethin..
I'm not trying to come off like a jerk with that last sentence, I'm just stating a fact hahaha..

But no back to my point, I'm sort of nervous for her to see or feel me down there and think it's small or something.. I just got out of a year and nine month relationship with the only girl I've ever had sex or has seen my dick..

So my question, how would I know if a girl thinks I'm small?
Am I just worrying about it too much?
I just don't want things to be weird afterward you know? I want shit to just be cool because I really like this girl..

Haha so any advice?
Much appreciated..
 
I think you are worrying about it too much.

This topic has been covered in a multitude of threads with minor variations in focus.

I'm going to merge this with the most similar current thread in SLR at this time.

:)
 
greed said:
so you lie and tell a guy that is below the average of 5"-6" that he is on the on the small side of average and that he he feels great when he really does not? is that what you call a sugar coated lie?
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She never said she lied - a small dick can still feel great. Some of the best sex I've ever had was with a guy that had the smallest dick of any guy I've ever been with.

I've certainly never lied to a guy about it, nor would I. Why would I bother? I wouldn't be with a guy that was that insecure that he needed some kind of reminder of his virility. Lord knows that I'm loud enough that it should be pretty obvious when I'm happy... :D
 
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