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Girls And Hand Jobs: merged

Anyone who thinks she has MORE control with her mouth or with her vagina than with her HANDS is kidding herself.

If you disagree with that statement, try writing your name with your mouth or driving a car with your pussy.

The key to giving a good handjob is knowing exactly what the man likes.

And using both hands.

With patience and practice (and Astroglide), a woman can be taught to OWN a man with her hands.

Mine certainly owns me. :)
 
^^^^
True! But a girl that does Kegal exercises on a daily basis definitely owns any hand job.
 
Tech Kinetics said:
^^^^
True! But a girl that does Kegal exercises on a daily basis definitely owns any hand job.

Agreed.

I'm NOT saying that handjobs are better than great sex.

Great sex has ingredients that are missing from even the greatest of handjobs.

I'm simply saying that great handjobs offer certain things that sex and blowjobs do not, and that just because you haven't given or received a great handjob YET does not mean that they don't exist.

If someone spends their entire life in England, does that mean that no one in the world has nice teeth?
 
Perpetual Indulgence said:
Nothing sexier than watching a guy pleasure himself.

ive been saying that in my head during this whole thread. one of my main fantasies.... is just watching him through the slightly open door and seeing how he likes to get off. *shiver*
 
^Describing a hand job is like describing how you like to masturbate; everyone’s going to have a different attic. But I'll give it a shot.

First she stokes the fun stick really lightly, just using the tips of her fingers. The fingers are in a position where they are pointing at the body. Fingers are opening and closing, kind of tightening up on the head but still being gentle while rubbing the head. Then, while still keeping the rhythm, the fingers point way from the body. Getting ready to use the palm but not quite yet, continue using the fingers. After a little fancy finger working, starting using the whole hand. Loosen that the bottom and when you come up, tighten by the head but don't make your hand so tight that you’re yanking on it (had it happen, it hurt so much). In the end, pick up the pace, and don't forget to massage the head.

I think someone could do a better job then me explaining. I feel dirty now.
 
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Xenomaniac said:
^Describing a hand job is like describing how you like to masturbate, everyones gonna have a diffrent tatic. But I'll give it a shot.

First she stokes the fun stick really lightly, just using the tips of her fingers. The fingers are in a postion where they are pointing at the body. Fingers are opening and closing, kinda tightning up on the head but, still being gental while rubbing the head. Then, while still keeping the rythem, the fingers point way from the body. Getting ready to use the palm but not quite yet, continue using the fingers. After a little fancy finger working, starting using the whole hand. Lossen that the bottom and when you come up, tighten by the head but don't make your hand so tight that your yanking on it (had it happen, it hurt so much). In the end, pick up the pace, and don't forget to...

post it on a message board
:)
i enjoyed the read lol
 
Xenomaniac said:
^Describing a hand job is like describing how you like to masturbate, everyones gonna have a diffrent tatic. But I'll give it a shot.

First she stokes the fun stick really lightly, just using the tips of her fingers. The fingers are in a postion where they are pointing at the body. Fingers are opening and closing, kinda tightning up on the head but, still being gental while rubbing the head. Then, while still keeping the rythem, the fingers point way from the body. Getting ready to use the palm but not quite yet, continue using the fingers. After a little fancy finger working, starting using the whole hand. Lossen that the bottom and when you come up, tighten by the head but don't make your hand so tight that your yanking on it (had it happen, it hurt so much). In the end, pick up the pace, and don't forget to massage the head.

I think someone could do a better job then me explaining. I feel dirty now.

I only have two comments about this:

1. Spellcheck ;)

2. You forgot to mention the balls. ALWAYS remember the balls. I'm a girl and even I know that ballplay is essential to a good handjob. :)
 
Pure_XTC said:
I only have two comments about this:

1. Spellcheck ;)

2. You forgot to mention the balls. ALWAYS remember the balls. I'm a girl and even I know that ballplay is essential to a good handjob. :)
Like I said, someone could do better. I usually just have sex.

Pure: Yah I just noticed that. I'm lazy.
 
I personally dont think that girls can give very good hand jobs. At least non of the girls ive met.
Perhaps they should stick to using their muths and vaginas.
 
I find it easier to come from a handjob than head alone (both at the same time is a different story).

I dunno, I guess its just the lack of pressure from getting head (it still feels damn good tho - but probably more relaxing than anything else)

That said - I've had to teach my girl how to give good handjobs, there is nothing worse than a bad one - ouch!
 
all guys love getting handjobs, duh

99% of women not only cant give them, but cause a lot of pain when they do

the remaining 1% are pornstars
 
eh, if i was that desperate for a hand job, i'd just jerk-off really. its called "the stranger"
 
OK girls, ask your guy to show you, talk to you. Because you want to do it (almost) as well as he does and he has years of experience. And just because her previous b/f thought she was Queen of The J/O, that doesn't mean that was perfect for him is perfect for you.

Fun times to be had teaching this skill!

Plus, you get to have her show/tell you how to use your hands on her to her maximum pleasure (she's been strumming that paricular ukelele much longer than you have!

Talk and play.
Play and talk.

Kind and gentle fun so everyone gets what they like.

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