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Girls And Hand Jobs: merged

Girls, Lets make a deal.

If you easy on the dick when you jerk us off we'll keep our fingers clean.

69!, why don't you have your women use lotion while she jerks you off.
 
Perhaps you could mention that it's a bit rough? Is this really worth making a thread over?
 
ask her to use lotion, if she already is, then just say something like 'a little softer' or whatever while shes doing. then tell her that you prefer if shes gentler either during or after it.

or hell, just get her to give you blowjobs ;)
 
yeah really tell her to use some lotion, and not to "tug" on it, I have had girls before that pull on it like a fat girl trying to get a slim jim out of a wrapper. Next time tell her it hurts, if not slam your finger inside of her while you are fingering her, she'll get the picture :)
 
my first gf couldnt do it for shit, omg painful jsut thinking about it, my second couldnt do it for me either to save my life or hers, and my last was pretty good at it, especially iwth loob. omg so awesome. she was so great!
 
I've never let a woman jerk me off, so I can't relate... but the idea of a girl being extra rough with aa hand job just makes me think that she really doesn't want to be doing it and is either trying to hasten the process to get it over with, or does it "wrong" on purpose so she doesn't have to do it.
 
She could actually have been misinformed - some girls mistakenly believe that guys like it "hard", and so try not to be too wimpy with the tug.

She probably thinks she's doing a good job, so be sensitive with your directions. Why don't you ask her to watch you pull yourself off for a bit (tell her it would turn you on, or something) and maybe she'll take her cue from how you do it?

I was certainly surprised the first time I saw my bf touch himself - I was doing it completely different. Now I know what he likes it's quite a revelation. There's a lot more soft stroking and pulling downwards away from the belly than I'd thought.
 
^well im not going to see her again, but i do find it strange that a 27+++yr old doesnt know how to do it properly, maybe other guys like it so rough? or maybe they where not pierced, who knows, i cant say i didnt like it tho, a litle pain is cool with me...

i would love some lotion, i have never tried it before either, but i dont think she or i could find such lotion in the mens room! plus having a pretty big piercing doesnt help at all!

crystalcallas said:
Gentlemen fuck ur women!!! ;)
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now thats an old topic! :p
 
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69! said:
^well im not going to see her again, but i do find it strange that a 27+++yr old doesnt know how to do it properly, maybe other guys like it so rough? or maybe they where not pierced, who knows, i cant say i didnt like it tho, a litle pain is cool with me...
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Just because someone is X age, doesn't mean they should be an expert on all things.

A little vocal guidance never hurt anyone :)
 
Well speaking from a girl's perspective, let us know! As you already know, we don't have the same genitalia and don't know what degree of touching feels good. Unless a girl gets around, I don't think most girls (teenage and early 20s) have done that much. Just as guys sometimes need and want instruction when they're giving oral sex, women would like some input as well. It might help if you talk to the girl you're dating rather than posting it on an anonymous forum.
 
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