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Gibberings episode 0x000000c5 -- Play nicely or you're out!

yeah but my loves gone from your arse straight down yer throat, so i win

I'm glad you're back <3

Of course you win, we're happy you're a winner, but you will have to prove your credentials a such 8) Prove IT? <3





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Aw, I'd love a Royal Python, probably going to get a Cornsnake next though cos I'd like to raise one from a baby and haven't got any previous experience. She's got a Hognose at her Mum's that we're gonna bring up tho, isn't as big as the other one but yeah is quite hefty and a bit scary looking. Eats very politely though :D That snake measurer is excellent I wanna find out how big ours is, I'd put her at 5ft maybe.

Don't think I could man fresh food though missus is fond of getting feeder fish for her turtle when she goes home and that grosses me out a bit. Watching the lizard hunt locusts is hilarious though, little dude is such a character

I used to have a garter snake as a kid (terrible snakes as pets) and it just went off thawed food completely..so we had to put 6 live goldfish in his bowl each week (found out later that it's bad for them as it depletes B12).

I want a female corn snake next - Percy is sub-adult so he's nearly at his peak in length. I just need to beef him up a bit so he's a healthy mating weight (graduated up to rats last week %). However, on my advice, my mate got a female Corn for his tattoo shop. It has a lovely morph, too. Tis' only a little sprout though so it'll be a few years before we can get a clutch. It is also dependent on him giving me care of his snake for a few winter months.

Those Hognose are very good eaters, as I recall. My royal sometimes goes off food for a couple of weeks which is natural. I'd only considering giving him a live prey item if he hadn't eaten for a couple of months.

He is very charming though :)
 
Good morning all.

let's all do a little dance to appease the postal gods this morning! <3
 
FOR FUCK SAKE WHAT IS IT GOING TO TAKE TO GET THIS BITCH OUT OF MY LIFE? IVE THREATENED HER WITH THE POLICE AND WILL TAKE THAT ACTION N WHY WONT SHE LEAVE ME ALONE?

Before anyone says "stop acting a victim" well in this case I am. I've been stalked / harassed by this person for two years n she's just not stopping. She's 57 for goodness sake n harassing someone young enoug to be her daughter playing head games etc.

Raas n a few others said I shouldnt mention her but I'm asking anyone who's dealt with this for advice. Have you sought action? Raas told me police take internet stalking seriously. I've recorded all her E-mails n showed some of them to snolly, mdb n Raas n honestly people would be absolutely shocked to see the venom n hate in then n this is what I'm having to put up with daily.

To those who say dont look, tried that then she started coming on Bluelight, even though she's permabanned for harassing me, copying my posts n begging admin to ban me - she's done that for months now n that's not fair on admin.

I just want this woman out of my life n want her to stop. Wish she would get the psychological help she needs because this is disburbing behaviour.

Evey
 
Evey,

differences aside; if someone is seriously causing you this emotional damage and has shown signs of stalking then I would 100% go to the police. If you're innocent in no coercing or encouragement then the situation will be dealt with swiftly and you shall be at Internet peace. From what you're saying taking legal action is the only way forward if you can't just ignore them and block them from everything.
 
I agree with GL.

Alternatively stop signing up to places using the same name? You have to make an effort to protect yourself at the same time.
 
evey, as above ^ take it to whomever will support you. You sound like youve lost faith in locals and local help, because of small minded attitudes. Thats your problem, but their fault and its sad as hell to be isolated in such a way. welcome to a good portion of what many good folks come to face. knock, myself etc. As a genuine practical solution I'd advise you to get in touch with CAB in your area, and explain to them the extent and extremity of whats been going on


CAB will cut out the 'locals' factor in a heartbeat and theyll act on your behalf, know exactly what to do and what your best approach to finding a solution is. Theyll present you with informed, accurate choices, and theyll essentially take the worry away so you can approach the situation smartly.

Im with CAB for a number of different reasons atm, for a backlog of problems Ive accrued during my year of crazy. I had an hr appointment yesterday, got another two hr appointment next monday. Theyre fucking fantastic on every level.

Call CAB for me pls and then come back and tell us how you get on <3

most importantly, theyre totally impartial to social politics, theyre credible with all institutions and they have your best interest at heart. Go to CAB pls lady.
 
I've been through it. I ignored him. I didn't respond to any of his attempts to contact me and all of my friends were told what was happening and to please do the same. I changed my email accounts and forum names and blocked his known accounts preemptively. It took a few months of endless emails and letters and harassing my friends before he gave up but he did. He would show up on email accounts and message boards i forgot I even and when he did he would get blocked or the account closed. Had it bled any more into real life than it did then I would have called the police. It was fucking horrible but it stopped eventually. Change your email address, don't let her know it and dont have it set as publiv anywhere. Don't associate it with your screen name at least.
 
Sorry havent read all this yet as doing eggs n stuff ready to take volunteering. Its my family who dont want me on antidepressants. They said before that i should force myself off them. I kinda did it to please them. But nothing I ever do seems to please them so f it. Without citalopram I'm anxious, have extremely bad PMT where im irritable n depressed for two weeks of the month at least (you've all seem me on here get upset over the slightest shite).

I just have to somehow persuade my GP surgary to keep me on it - or at least until I've got off subs. I've kept my subs to the right dose for a week n two days now. I just have to sort shit out. Somehow find something I'm good at to get myself a job n support my child instead of being on benefits as i feel guilty for being on benefits. Much better to work n earn ones keep. Also I need to show lil one the value of money as it's far too easy to give in to her n buy her / take anywhere she wants. My family laughed at me cause i tried telling her what a budget is but even Martin Lewis (money saving expert) says you should explain a little bit to kids as money n why they can't always get everything they want so they understand more.

I'm waffled on there sorry

I agree with GL.

Alternatively stop signing up to places using the same name? You have to make an effort to protect yourself at the same time.


Yea chippy you're right. I learnt that lesson the hard way. I stupidly gave my E-mail n phone number out drunk on another forum about 3 years agp n am paying the price. I really don't want to have to change my E-mail as it means changing it with everyone but looks like im going to have to.
I wish E-mail could be simple n block like it used to but doesnt seem to n she seems to change her E-mail account.

Thanks for all the advice n support, peeps n means a lot honest n I hope I can return the favour some day xxxxx

Evey
 
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