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Gibberings episode 0x000000c5 -- Play nicely or you're out!

Get all your information together, have all messages / emails printed out etc. If they are calling you get a digital message machine and copy the messages to disk, contact the police with this evidence or seek legal help via a solicitor. A solicitor will charge you a fortune and I know you already have debt so the police route would be cheaper. On the subject of your debt, contact the citizens advice - work out how much you owe and try and consolidate it to reduce your % of interest being paid per month (only putting you further in debt).

You can contact the people who you have debt with - tell them that you can't afford the repayment and ask for a payment plan. Most companies would rather get into a payment plan with you than you simply not paying them at all as this costs them more in the long run to have to contact you, take legal action etc.
 
Bearlove said:
Get all your information together, have all messages / emails printed out etc. If they are calling you get a digital message machine and copy the messages to disk, contact the police with this evidence or seek legal help via a solicitor. A solicitor will charge you a fortune and I know you already have debt so the police route would be cheaper. On the subject of your debt, contact the citizens advice - work out how much you owe and try and consolidate it to reduce your % of interest being paid per month (only putting you further in debt).

You can contact the people who you have debt with - tell them that you can't afford the repayment and ask for a payment plan. Most companies would rather get into a payment plan with you than you simply not paying them at all as this costs them more in the long run to have to contact you, take legal action etc.
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Thank you. Raasy told me I can call the police n that they will warn her n make het sign a piece of paper warning her to no longer contact me again. I don't want to go down this route as I don't like to get people into trouble but will have to if she continues.

Evey
 
She's continued for long enough already I'd say, reading back on it. If it's causing you that much stress it's worth speaking to them or as others have said at least the CAB
 
Eveleivibe said:
I don't want to go down this route as I don't like to get people into trouble but will have to if she continues.
Evey
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Fuck that nonsense straight away. Your peace of mind is way more important that whatever shit she gets into through her own actions. Putting off seeking help is simply allowing her to have power over you, you cannot simply ignore people like this as they will continue the abuse or it will escalate until they get the reaction they are looking for.

What happens if she is not content with abusing stalking you and turns her attention to your daughter ?

Contact the police or lodge for a restraining order or if you have enough evidence you could sue her for mental anguish and settle your debts :D
 
evey.

been there and done this one. watched my ma and sis get crucified everyday by a psychobitch. you cant help her. she can only help herself when she decides to. youve tried appealing to her better nature, she unfortnately isnt in a place where she can domonstrate it. The longer you let it go on, the more you enable her. She needs help whomever she is. she wont get it until shes stopped and her circumstances change (either forcibly or through her own strength of will) so she can see what shes actually doing and the affect its having on you.


if you dont take measures now evey, youre being a victim and complicit at the same time. its not an easy position to be in as it means youre shouldered with the responsibility of being a kind person with compassion for others, but having the burden of all the negatives of being victimised thrust upon you day in day out, crushing your will and motivation and impairing your ability to live not just a normal life, but one thats even tollerable

my sis and mum made the mistake of allowing it to continue for many years. my sis really regretted doing so when shed had respite enough to see what had happened retrospectively
 
Start harassing her. Sign her email up for as many things as possible. Perfectly within the law - maybe -.. Also continue with the advice given above as that's sensible.
 
I'm no lawyer but id say thats within the law also.. :D

Can I ask, how do you know this persons real name? Seems kinda daft if you're going to these kinda lengths to harass somebody that they'd hand over their real details to the victim?

I'd block the addy, go into an Apple store if you struggle to get it setup. Make a new addy and keep it to yourself.
 
Don't let your family push you into anything that isn't right for you. If you broke a leg, and your family insisted for you not to have a plaster cast because it was a sign of weakness, would you take any notice of them? Why is it any different if you need medication?

My family are going to be the last to find out about my transition; because I know they will try to manipulate me into going back to being Simon, and it will be harder for them to stop a strong, confident woman who is comfortable in her own skin than a timid tr*nny.
 
She E-mailed me from another site. When i first joined here she n her friends pestered the then, admins with lots of negativity about me n trying to get them to ban me. I'm lucky to be on this site thanks to people like Ali who didn't listen to the nonsense n allowed me a chance here.

Edit she's also on this site under another ID reading all my posts could be anyone.

Evey
 
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Changing your email address (and abandoning your current one) must surely be easier and more effective than dealing with this every day???
 
Shit shit shiiiiiiiiiit remember i said i had a go at a person in my volunteering as i paranoidly thought she was taken over n was trying to push me out. Shes bipolar. Anyway we sorted that n now she's quit. I feel bloody dreadful.

Afternoon, Felix. How are you doing? What you planning once the loft has finished?

Evey
 
Chippendale said:
she doesn't necessarily need to be a member here to read all your posts, it's all available to the public, anyone can be reading anything you put on this forum.
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She told me she was a member here under a different ip then tried saying she was a certain member but I think that was to get me to go at this person n look an idiot. I've told mods.

I think I'll change E-mail when I've a minute n some motivation to get round to changing stuff over. Thanks everyone for support xxxx

Lets change subject now I've taken up enough of gibs with my dramas last few days n its not fair on other members.

So whats everyone up to today?

Evey
 
Eveleivibe said:
Shit shit shiiiiiiiiiit remember i said i had a go at a person in my volunteering as i paranoidly thought she was taken over n was trying to push me out. Shes bipolar. Anyway we sorted that n now she's quit. I feel bloody dreadful.

Afternoon, Felix. How are you doing? What you planning once the loft has finished?

Evey
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The woman you had a temper tantrum at and then you stormed out of volunteering. I remember your post.

You should feel dreadful. Especially as you accused her of taking the piss out of your disability. Hopelessly ironic.

Start taking responsibility for your actions, they have consequences. The world doesn't revolve around you.
 
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