afctu said:
Mods aren't the problem, Evey is. She might have some issues but that doesn't give her to right to abuse people on here and clog every thread up with pointless drama. Its got to the point sometimes where if I see Evey made the last post then I don't even open the thread and I'm sure im not the only one. It also puts off new people joining/getting involved when they see that tedious bullshit all over the forum.
Job well done mods IMO
She tells me she was drunk and Dans comments that I was going to "meet Inflo as she's so hot", was taken literally and she got jealous because I wouldn't meet her. Though I empathise with Dan, found his posts funny and would have done the same thing in his position... provocation was the cause for her outburst. She actually likes Inflo and has no hard feelings.
Raas, you're right - Eve needs help. Professional help. Much more help than a drug discussion forum can provide her with.
When she continually breaks the rules and causes unnecessary drama, she ruins it for people who can potentially get a lot out of Bluelight. Evey herself might feel she gets a lot out of BL, but she quite evidently needs a different kind of help. If she is suffering from a personality disorder, as has been suggested, no amount of 'understanding' on BL's part will help that. Medical professionals can.
At the end of the day, this forum can only do so much.
I cited MDB as an example, as personal improvements in drug problemed posters across this forum can be observed. He is a great example as he turned himself around and ended up as an eloquent poster. Eve was just throwing a drunken tantrum. It's not professional help she needs, just to lay off the drink and credit cards...something she's already expressed she's making provision to do.
Raas, how would you feel if say 10 people who could potentially have gotten some benefit out of this place didn't bother because of one person acting the goat constantly?
As much as it pains me to say this, through gritted teeth, the rules are there for a reason. I don't really see why mods should pander to one member to the detriment of others. I don't know but I'd think/expect that a bit of leeway had been given, that the rules hadn't just been rigidly enforced.
I don't think a drunken girly tantrum, on one thread (gibberings) is going to put people off the entire board. It might sound cold, but I found the whole thing really funny. I was browsing through my phone at work pissing myself with laughter.
Chatative said:
We have been more than lenient with Evey but in the end of the day, she has continuously broken the forum guidelines
I can see that you're acting appropriately, but you do remind me of a police officer I met the other week
~story time~
I was driving through town and got to a T junction. You're not allowed to turn right onto the road, you have to turn left and go through a long one-way system to get back on to the road. Many drivers turn right regardless, but if the road is congested I guess it could be dangerous, hence the "No right turning" rule.
Anyway, I was at the T junction at 4:45am! Not a single car around, or person visible. So thought "fuck it, may as well turn right onto the road I need to get onto".
Later on.. I saw blue flashing lights behind me and the police pulled me. I had no idea why. He came up to my car and I said
"What's the problem?" to which the officer replied
"...You turned right at that junction! is there any REASON why you did that!?", I then said "
Well, it's 4:45 am... there's no-one around at all... I'm not causing any dangers whatsoever??"... "Just 'coz it's late and there's no vehicles around, DOESN'T mean YOU can break the law!".... I shook my head and said
"Seriously, how could I possibly be causing any harm when there's no cars around anywhere??"...."
It doesn't matter. You broke the law!" he said, and issued me with a hefty fine or the possibility of attending a fucking course on how to drive, even though I've a clean licence for over 10 years.
The law should be there to benefit people as a whole, but when the law itself is so rigidly enforced that it ends up costing people (in my case, a big fine) it ends up defeating it's own objective and becomes a hindrance to the public.
I realise this post is tl;dr territory... but I have nothing better to do with my life than whinge about members of authority over a drugs website.
(Nawt, I'm a cheerful soul. Good morning bitches 
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