My daughters boyfriend is out of jail. He pleaded guilty, and had 10 days in jail, and 10 days work crew and one year probation. There is a no contact order on my daughter, and he is fine with that. While in jail, a couple of guys knew her and told him that while she was in treatment she cheated on him. I am not sure all the details. So, he wants nothing to do with her. He told me they will give him a lie detector test to see if he violated that no contact order.
I am not sure what to do anymore. I think her lawyer is trying to get her a diversion, and that's why they haven't gave her a plea yet. I am not sure if that is right for her since i think she will use when she gets out. She will use the fact that she cant see her boyfriend anymore as an excuse. Not once did she ever tell me that she will never use again while shes been in jail. She did tell me that she will never go back to jail and that's the same thing that she had told her mom. However, she swears to me that she said that to me, but i know she hadn't. Therefore, i gave her her lawyers number and i said you call him and you work it out with him.
Her boyfriend called me at 1:30 this morning and now i cant sleep. I feel really bad for this guy and i dont think my daughter did him right. He told me that she had said before that she has accepted the fact that she will always be an addict. I know that they teach you in treatment that you will be an addict for life so maybe that's what she means.
At this point i dont know if she will plead guilty or take a diversion.
Her pre trial is on Friday and i know she wants a diversion but also wants to plead guilty and get the hell out of there. I am also tired of trying to dictate what she does. I dont feel like i am helping her any.
Thanks for all the reply's. I will keep you informed.
I am not sure what to do anymore. I think her lawyer is trying to get her a diversion, and that's why they haven't gave her a plea yet. I am not sure if that is right for her since i think she will use when she gets out. She will use the fact that she cant see her boyfriend anymore as an excuse. Not once did she ever tell me that she will never use again while shes been in jail. She did tell me that she will never go back to jail and that's the same thing that she had told her mom. However, she swears to me that she said that to me, but i know she hadn't. Therefore, i gave her her lawyers number and i said you call him and you work it out with him.
Her boyfriend called me at 1:30 this morning and now i cant sleep. I feel really bad for this guy and i dont think my daughter did him right. He told me that she had said before that she has accepted the fact that she will always be an addict. I know that they teach you in treatment that you will be an addict for life so maybe that's what she means.
At this point i dont know if she will plead guilty or take a diversion.
Her pre trial is on Friday and i know she wants a diversion but also wants to plead guilty and get the hell out of there. I am also tired of trying to dictate what she does. I dont feel like i am helping her any.
Thanks for all the reply's. I will keep you informed.