Also, Damien, from listening to some of my friends talking about Facebook, they were telling me how that exact thing happens there too, re: the random attractive girls requesting to be your friend (trolls, I guess?) Facebook? more like, Fakebook.
the reasons you indicated for not using it, are still as a reaction to it. therefore it is still controlling (using) you. take charge
i use it, but i keep it minimal. there are no pictures of me on there, no personal personal information
I pretty much always associate the image of you with K-stew, from you avatars, even though I KNOW it's not you, lol. :D
Right on about the personal detail stuff... it's always weird when I see people with their address and phone number on their profile. I guess some people want to be found. Not me.
Also, I didn't know you were allowed to use a fake name on there. I remember reading something in the rules about how accounts that were discovered to not be a legit name would be removed, but I guess they can't possibly enforce that with so many people.
That's like saying that my reaction to alcohol is why I no longer use alcohol and therefore it is controlling me. Yes, it's true, that things like alcohol/facebook are not things I can keep under control *keep them in a way that they don't cause negativity to my life* and that is why I rid my life of them. "Taking charge" is deleting what I don't need. Not sure what point you were trying to make there but for me facebook is almost as similar an addiction/problem as a drug or alcohol. There is nothing I can do but go cold turkey, anything else doesn't work.
I like being able to see the relatives, friends, and their children in photos as I would not care to see them in real life.
I am on FB and BL equally.