Experiences With Prostitutes & Prostitution

[MethaContin]

I'm calling shenanigans on xtcgrlatl. I think it's a bunch of bullshit to be honest.

Just throwing that out there.

Hey, who knows though, maybe there is an attractive young girl with access to millions of dollars would like to risk contracting STDs by having unprotected oral sex and has had 400+ sex work clients without ending up in a dangerous situation or getting an STD while simultaneously thinking hotels are safe places and wants to talk about it on bluelight but only posts in this thread while claiming to be a recreational drug user and writes in such a manner as to show up highly likely male when her writing undergoes gender analysis and as others have stated is quite articulate for a prostitute plus has no history of abuse or any other mental hang ups that might explain things while also not having a different perspective on guys from the business and only charges $200 an hour which is like cheap craigslist prostitute rate from what I've seen.

I'm just saying.. it doesn't seem likely.

If everything you're saying is true xtcgrlatl then you are like 1 in 8 billion.

Maybe she is................

 

[Kul69]

Maybe... I'm not saying it's impossible or anything. Just EXTREMELY unlikely.

 

[GoddessLSD-XTC]

I Harlots

A sociopath is simply defined as someone who does not feel empathy, does not truly love, and is not motivated, as most of us are, by a constant low-level fear of losing those we care about. Sociopaths are in this game of life (and it truly is no more than a game for them) for themselves, period. They know this, and they're perfectly comfortable with this. They don't feel any motivation to form relationships that aren't for personal gain alone. Not having to care about how anyone feels (except for how it might personally affect them) gives sociopaths the freedom to try things non-sociopaths would find ethically questionable. Still, I'd reckon most are harmless law abiding citizens for a lifetime.

Am I correct in my assumption? That is, for those of you who've known successful prostitutes who were good at what they did and didn't get burned or emotionally scarred, would you say that a good percentage of them displayed sociopathic tendancies?

I once read an interview with a female porn star where she stated quite bluntly, 'All I care about in life is sex and money. Fuck everyone else.' I remember thinking to myself, yep, I'm sure the sex industry gets a lot of their best and longest-lasting workers from that sort of people. I'm not saying it TAKES a sociopath to do it. But seems to me it sure would help.

Nice post. I would fit the definition of "sociopath" per the DSM-IV but, question your definition.

I would also fit the DSM-IV definition of several other personality disorders and so too would Jesus-Christ (if he existed). (Pharisees said he was possessed by a devil, he said U must hate your mother/father and the world and care only about god. Jesus also said to honor your parents, I do. I'm NOT sure that "hate" is the right word or is translated correctly.)

I have empathy 4 others (that's where I feel the karma of screwing Johns and telling my one night stands to NOT fall into love with me); life (in this world of $$$) IS a "game," money is used in games; sure we MUST think of our selves first (unless, of course U were stupid/rich enough to bring a child into this world); I don't really care about losing the ppl I love 'cause I know god will provide (it's happened so many times before), I DO care about them and they know I do these things impulsively -- live, learn experiment, experience new things. (I'm getting tired of my slutty ways but am always open to taking a trick & their $$$, when offered and convienient.)

Screw this world & screw for fun, pleasure, excitement and $$$!

My long-term goal is to save the world. (Cum 2 think about it, wasn't Jesus's favorite woman a prostitute?)

EDIT: I should add that I DON'T fit many of the "symptoms" of the DSM-IV: I don't lie, steal, have difficulty keeping friends, rarely if ever feel "bored," depressed, angry (fight) and am financially responsible. I also feel like I did my fair share of work in this world and am essentially "retired" from the World.

 

[GoddessLSD-XTC]

xtcgrl: How many guys (BF's/clients) have fallen or started to fall into love with U?

How many guys have U fallen or started to fall into love with?

(I fell/started to fall for about 8 women (one was a prostitute but I didn't know it at the time), one man, and out of 50 men, maybe 5 have said they love me, which really touches my heart but then I give my warning.)

Bet lotsa guys U meet start to fall into love with U. How do U keep from breaking their hearts?

 

[MethaContin]

xtcgrl: How many guys (BF's/clients) have fallen or started to fall into love with U?

How many guys have U fallen or started to fall into love with?

(I fell/started to fall for about 8 women (one was a prostitute but I didn't know it at the time), one man, and out of 50 men, maybe 5 have said they love me, which really touches my heart but then I give my warning.)

Bet lotsa guys U meet start to fall into love with U. How do U keep from breaking their hearts?

She probably just explains that is it Strictly Business to her........... But I will let her answer this one one her own...............

 

[nuke]

The fact is, people with varying degrees of sociopathic tendancies make up an estimated 1~2% of humanity, and most will never kill anyone. A sociopath is simply defined as someone who does not feel empathy, does not truly love, and is not motivated, as most of us are, by a constant low-level fear of losing those we care about. Sociopaths are in this game of life (and it truly is no more than a game for them) for themselves, period. They know this, and they're perfectly comfortable with this. They don't feel any motivation to form relationships that aren't for personal gain alone. Not having to care about how anyone feels (except for how it might personally affect them) gives sociopaths the freedom to try things non-sociopaths would find ethically questionable. Still, I'd reckon most are harmless law abiding citizens for a lifetime.

This would qualify most of the humans I've ever met as sociopaths. How many people do you really give a shit about who you don't know and don't benefit from in some way? Even social gratification to the self ('I like to talk to people because it's fun to me'), without any other reward, qualifies this definition.

What's socially good is usually best for the person, so if someone tries to be good to everyone else to benefit themselves does that make them a sociopath?

 

[xtcgrlatl]

^^^ That's good to hear. Is that typical of the more successful women in your business? For some reason I associate mental health issues (especially issues with connecting with people) with the sex industry, but that could very well be based on hearsay and ignorance.

I don't personally know enough escorts to say, some of them certainly seem to have their head on straighter then others just based on their ad alone and talking to clients.

You're not a ballroom dancer by any chance, are you? I ask because my girlfriend is an amateur ballroom dancer, and what she said about this sport almost matches VERBATIM what you just wrote about yours: you can be world class, but there's no money in it unless you teach.

No, i'm not a competitive dancer, but there are actually a lot of sports like that. Every athlete in the olympics competes basically for free. The olympics is an all amateur event.

 

[xtcgrlatl]

If everything you're saying is true xtcgrlatl then you are like 1 in 8 billion.

You're sweet

Do people ever fall in love with you?

Not generally. One guy started to get a bit creepy and wanted to arrange a long term sugar daddy relationship/marriage saying something along the lines of : "i'm probably going to die soon anyways and I'll leave you a wealthy woman"

I just quit taking that guys calls.

 

[nuke]

No, i'm not a competitive dancer, but there are actually a lot of sports like that. Every athlete in the olympics competes basically for free. The olympics is an all amateur event.

No, the Olympicists are handsomely paid by their government and sponsors. No one who enters the final stage Olympics is an amateur (it's almost impossible to avoid someone trying to sponsor you if you have any talent, and why on Earth would someone refuse handfuls of money for what they love doing anyway?).

 

[xtcgrlatl]

No, the Olympicists are handsomely paid by their government and sponsors. No one who enters the final stage Olympics is an amateur (it's almost impossible to avoid someone trying to sponsor you if you have any talent, and why on Earth would someone refuse handfuls of money for what they love doing anyway?).

A sponsor is not money, a sponsorship is I will pay your way to competitions and give you free gear and that sort of thing, at least in my game. In some countries the countries will actually put the athletes in their own little athletic paradise, and probably give them money so they can train full time, but this isn't always the case. Certainly not in my sport.

 

[MethaContin]

xtcgrlatl- Thanks for so kindly and openly I should add telling us all of this, Its really Interesting too me.

 

[Max Power]

we really need a better metaphor than a chicken and egg....

No.

No, we don't.

 

[MyDoorsAreOpen]

This would qualify most of the humans I've ever met as sociopaths. How many people do you really give a shit about who you don't know and don't benefit from in some way? Even social gratification to the self ('I like to talk to people because it's fun to me'), without any other reward, qualifies this definition.

What's socially good is usually best for the person, so if someone tries to be good to everyone else to benefit themselves does that make them a sociopath?

I'm not really qualified to refine this definition any further, I'm afraid. I'm sure someone with a background in psychology could, though. I think it has something to do with motivation and feelings of connection to people, though.

That whole 'all acts are self-serving, there's no such thing as true altruism' argument really irks me with the way it uses semantics to vindicate cynicism, so I really hope that's not where you're going with this.

 

[nuke]

I think I'm more of a pessimist than a cynic, though, I don't really believe in altruism since the definition of what's good is a quality of an individual or a social order rather than anything concrete (not much is). Well, I mean, I believe in it in the standpoint that some people think the self-sacrificing things others do as meritorious (and indeed, some of it I do find to be so on a human level, others not so much). I try to avoid qualifying actions in words such as 'good' or 'bad', was never much for ethics, because as soon as you venture into those fields you're likely to be start contradicting yourself somehow eventually.

Since I've been young it's been hammered into my head that human beings inevitably will perform in the most selfish way possible (not surprising considering I was raised in the very capitalist United States). Most often they do not, but it's hard to see so sometimes when you're immersed in a society where the rich often behave egocentrically and extravagantly.

I don't think it's unfair to a prostitute to enjoy having sex and making money; I mean, the goal of anyone with a career is generally to make money doing something they enjoy.

Now, if the prostitute were a junkie, that's a little different...

 

[GlassAss420]

"If you do that too many times, you'll run out of bullets. I realize you are new to the board and know me not at all. I have strong opinions about guns and I do not believe you are securing your weapon safely by hiding it under the mattress. It could accidentally go off if you bounce around enough when you are working. That would put you either in the position of injury/death, or your clients. "

Maybe she has an automatic, an automatic would never go off under a matress from someone fucking on top of it.. and a revolver could but it would be unlikely.. hammers on most modern revlovers are set to a certain pound weight and have to be cocked to go off easily.. I wouldn't expect a pro-gun control person to know much about guns but having a gun under a matress isn't that uncommon, esp for someone from a southern state LOL.. now under a pillow isn't a good idea cause you could blow your head or anyone sleeping in your beds head off.. but she said under the mattress so.

And to Klue, maybe shes been on the board for years and choose not to expose her other screen name as an escort..

You don't really know how someone would react given the choice to be independantly wealthy.. I know a girl who is a "trust fund baby" and is set for life at severl G's a month but she chooses to let it accumulate in the bank and works a normal job that she enjoys.. not escorting given but she dosen't just get lazy and live off her familys money.. some people are too proud to do that believe it or not.. I mean shit imagine a young person wanting to be independant/rebelious..

Just saying you come off as ignorant and uninformed and a know-it-all to try and call bullshit on this person.. I think she knows quite a bit and all the answers someone who does that job would know.. she brings up things most people in that feild would think off, that most quote/unquote "regular" people wouldn't..

I'd bet $100 shes legit and not full of it..

 

[xtcgrlatl]

And to Klue, maybe shes been on the board for years and choose not to expose her other screen name as an escort.

Pretty much, though i've only been on the board for a year and dont post often in any case. I know that multiple screen names are against the rules but I really wanted to post on this thread and I hope the mods can forgive me for wanting to maintain anonymity on this particular matter. I didnt know how to do it without making another nick, but I'm sure not doing it toplay games with people. As one can see, I've really put myself out there, I mean really, my crazy life is really way to unlikely to be made up if you think about it, I'm certainly not creative enough to have thought up all the details. If I was as creative as I am smart then I'd probably be in a different business, unfortunately I was made good looking instead

 

[PAMAD]

I just want to know what your sport is.

Cause now I'm just curious.

 

[Mariposa]

Just saying you come off as ignorant and uninformed and a know-it-all to try and call bullshit on this person.. I think she knows quite a bit and all the answers someone who does that job would know.. she brings up things most people in that feild would think off, that most quote/unquote "regular" people wouldn't..

I'd bet $100 shes legit and not full of it..

I told atlxtcgrl that I appreciate her opinion, and I was only asking questions. Maybe my questions just weren't as sexy as those of others. I did not mean to come off as disrespectful or anything else.

 

[GoddessLSD-XTC]

She probably just explains that is it Strictly Business to her........... But I will let her answer this one one her own...............

Yeah, shoulda thought of that. When there's MONEY involved there's not much love. ALL the guys that started 2 love me didn't hafta pay me 4 sex.

xtcgrl: You're lucky U live in Georgia. I just checked their statutes regarding prostitution and didn't see any statute similar to the one below.

13-3204. Receiving earnings of prostitute; classification

A person who knowingly receives money or other valuable thing from the earnings of a person engaged in prostitution, is guilty of a class 5 felony.

A class 5 felony is VERY serious: facing prison. This means, if U live in Arizona and tell your boyfriend that you're a prostitute and U give him money to pay the bills, he could be guilty of a class 5 penalty.

EDIT: I should worry about this if I hook up with a harlot!

 

[GoddessLSD-XTC]

Do People Ever Fall in Love with U?

Not generally. One guy started to get a bit creepy and wanted to arrange a long term sugar daddy relationship/marriage saying something along the lines of : "i'm probably going to die soon anyways and I'll leave you a wealthy woman"

I just quit taking that guys calls.

U mean U wouldn't do what Anna Nicole Smith did?

I would with someone with a real nice house, who was intelligent (like a lawyer/doctor/scientist/professor) or filthy rich.

Now I'm wondering if you're 4 real!