Kul69
Bluelighter
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I apologize xtcgrlatl, I just got the impression you were planning on doing this until it didn't work anymore and then just giving up on life.
I have no issues with someone being a prostitute. I just get really sad/angry when someone lives an unsustainable life and they know it but won't admit to it due to "living for today". Obviously this isn't the case with you though and I missed your earlier posts.
My best friend from when I was younger had the whole "I might die tomorrow" mentality and ended up selling lots of drugs before being murdered over money when he was 20. So, it's kind of a personal thing for me when people take the short cut route with no long term plan.
I know that lots of people pick up prostitution as a side job or whatever and it works fine for them. However, I've never known someone to do it as their sole source of income with no plans for the future and have it work out for them in the end. I thought you were the later rather than the former.
I have to say though that you claim to not want to take your mom's money. You say you ruined your credit because of this. Now to avoid taking your mom's money and fix your credit you're selling your body. You know this isn't sustainable past maybe 35 you say so you're trying to save some money. You claim to be a "world class athlete" and your plan is to open a training facility and train other athletes. If you were a "world class athlete" why aren't you making money doing that? Do you think other "world class athletes" want to be trained by someone who can't say what their job has been for the past 10 years or whatever or someone who has been a "world class athlete" and actually has something on their resume to prove it?
Right now all you've said is that you have this goal of opening training facilities and being a world class athlete but you don't seem to be making any money using your athleticism (except through sex). Your only other plan is to use your rich mom's money which you said you don't want to do?
I just went through and looked at all your past posts because I thought I missed something major but really it seems like I'm still right. You're just selling your body and dreaming about how someday when you have enough money from selling your body you'll do this or that. Really though the only "plan" you have that you're actually working towards accomplishing is selling your body until for whatever reason you don't want to/can't do it anymore and then you'll take money from your mom, right?
So, maybe that will work out great for you but I thought you didn't want to take money from her so what are you doing right now to prevent that from happening when you stop being a prostitute?
Oh and you say if you found a guy you really liked you'd get tested for STDs, tell him you're clean and were promiscuous in the past and leave it at that. What exactly would you start doing for money though? Are you going to go back to that "desk job" you hate so much or by the time this happens are you going to have started this training facility?
Look... I'm sorry that I'm not asking you if you've ever let a guy do XYZ or whatever but I don't give a fuck about that. You put yourself out there to answer questions about yourself and I want to know what your plans are for after prostitution and what you're doing to make those plans a reality more than a placeholder for what the future will be so you don't freak out about it? Ok, I get it that you have a rich family but you've said you don't want to take money from them so how are you working on your plans for after prostitution right now?
Why don't YOU get the fuck over YOURSELF and realize I'm just asking you questions about how you deal with these issues instead of telling me I'm speculating, it's none of my business, blah blah.
Honestly it just seems to be that I struck a sore spot and you're pissed off that instead of me asking how many dicks you've taken in a night I'm wondering about your future.
Well, that would require I believe in a soul to start with.
Have you considered not making a moral judgment about me and then going on to tell me you hate people who make moral judgments? I never said anything about prostitution being wrong or bad. Just that it's stupid to use it as your only source of income and justifying it by saying "tomorrow isn't guaranteed".
Personally I think prostitutes are great. I think they provide a needed service just like any other job and it should be legalized.
I have no issues with someone being a prostitute. I just get really sad/angry when someone lives an unsustainable life and they know it but won't admit to it due to "living for today". Obviously this isn't the case with you though and I missed your earlier posts.
My best friend from when I was younger had the whole "I might die tomorrow" mentality and ended up selling lots of drugs before being murdered over money when he was 20. So, it's kind of a personal thing for me when people take the short cut route with no long term plan.
I know that lots of people pick up prostitution as a side job or whatever and it works fine for them. However, I've never known someone to do it as their sole source of income with no plans for the future and have it work out for them in the end. I thought you were the later rather than the former.
I have to say though that you claim to not want to take your mom's money. You say you ruined your credit because of this. Now to avoid taking your mom's money and fix your credit you're selling your body. You know this isn't sustainable past maybe 35 you say so you're trying to save some money. You claim to be a "world class athlete" and your plan is to open a training facility and train other athletes. If you were a "world class athlete" why aren't you making money doing that? Do you think other "world class athletes" want to be trained by someone who can't say what their job has been for the past 10 years or whatever or someone who has been a "world class athlete" and actually has something on their resume to prove it?
Right now all you've said is that you have this goal of opening training facilities and being a world class athlete but you don't seem to be making any money using your athleticism (except through sex). Your only other plan is to use your rich mom's money which you said you don't want to do?
I just went through and looked at all your past posts because I thought I missed something major but really it seems like I'm still right. You're just selling your body and dreaming about how someday when you have enough money from selling your body you'll do this or that. Really though the only "plan" you have that you're actually working towards accomplishing is selling your body until for whatever reason you don't want to/can't do it anymore and then you'll take money from your mom, right?
So, maybe that will work out great for you but I thought you didn't want to take money from her so what are you doing right now to prevent that from happening when you stop being a prostitute?
Oh and you say if you found a guy you really liked you'd get tested for STDs, tell him you're clean and were promiscuous in the past and leave it at that. What exactly would you start doing for money though? Are you going to go back to that "desk job" you hate so much or by the time this happens are you going to have started this training facility?
Look... I'm sorry that I'm not asking you if you've ever let a guy do XYZ or whatever but I don't give a fuck about that. You put yourself out there to answer questions about yourself and I want to know what your plans are for after prostitution and what you're doing to make those plans a reality more than a placeholder for what the future will be so you don't freak out about it? Ok, I get it that you have a rich family but you've said you don't want to take money from them so how are you working on your plans for after prostitution right now?
Why don't YOU get the fuck over YOURSELF and realize I'm just asking you questions about how you deal with these issues instead of telling me I'm speculating, it's none of my business, blah blah.
Honestly it just seems to be that I struck a sore spot and you're pissed off that instead of me asking how many dicks you've taken in a night I'm wondering about your future.
Have you considered the return on your soul by the time you're 40 when at 23 you get so much pleasure from using money to play with human beings like toys?
Well, that would require I believe in a soul to start with.
Have you considered not making a moral judgment about me and then going on to tell me you hate people who make moral judgments? I never said anything about prostitution being wrong or bad. Just that it's stupid to use it as your only source of income and justifying it by saying "tomorrow isn't guaranteed".
Personally I think prostitutes are great. I think they provide a needed service just like any other job and it should be legalized.
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