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Ever dated another Bluelighter?

Would be cool to find a like minded BLer chick to get into some kinda relationship, I have made them everywhere else on the net,
Never on this forum.. Had a couple Pm exchanges that's it.....
Maybe the ladies on BL just don't like my total honesty that I post on BL..
that is everything to me! and means that was never meant to happen! if the woman don"t like you for exactly who you are!!.
 
Never even thought of it tbh. I dont think many fit young uk girls are on here seems to be mostly guys. Looks like its different for you guys over the water, lucky fuckers =D
 
Two addicts running wild together? A match made in heaven...

I'm talking about IME, not calling y'all raging junkies.

I hooked up with a "reformed junkie" who was banging his jurnistas, & having a stint as an inpatient to start taking them "properly" whilst I was also there at the hospital receiving a ketamine infusion.

I'd only known him a cpl of wks, but with pretty much 24/7 exposure. The night he went home we made plans for him to stay at my place after that Christmas for a week or two.

He reverted back that very night, & I thought "well I'll be fucked if some MoFos gonna be shoving my pills up his arm".

And that, folks, was that!!

Rtp
 
LandsUnknown said:
You could easily find yourself with somebody that's dangerous to be around or has drug habits. Plus, if you have any mental health/substance related issues, being in a relationship with a bluelighter will more than likely just get you drawn into their brand of crazy, whatever that is. We're all a bunch of fuck ups in some fashion, so you'll inevitably walk into some kind of fucked up life situation.
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Graculus graculo assidet ...
 
Looking forward to get my chance. I'll definitely grab the opportunity to date with a Bluelighter, since I'm also one.
 
I dated 2 blers in total, one in the most casual of the sense and one that became a very serious 2 year relationship.

The first one which didnt last very long and wast mostly a relationship based around heavy texting since he lived 4 hours away. I was still a little naive to the site and dude ended up being all talk and no game when we met up. Like ALL talk. One def has to be careful about who one trusts on this website when it comes to getting personal like that. After a few disappointing meet-up it fizzled out.

The second one ended u being very serious, lasting a little over 2 years and living together for about a year and a half of that time. The relationship was wasnt easy at the best of times and extremely hard on my at the worst of times since he was bi-polar and fighting some bad addictions. Around the time we started dating we also started a small business together as a team which had some pretty decent success and I cared deeply about the business as I was the main artist and graphic designer and put a lot of work into helping it succeed. But for all the business's success our relationship seemed doomed to fail and I held out/tried to make it work for the sake of the business and finally my sanity wore thin and I left him and the business taking only the full ownership to any art I produces while togther with him, which is all I cared about anyways in the end.

No more bl dates for neko.
 
Only 1 and it was very good. I had contact with a Gentleman whom we started emailing and I told him I would be in Dallas on Business and he lived there. When I arrived I was thinking about the pics he sent me and was hoping they were real. I emailed him and we decided to meet at a bar and grill. I knew when he walked in as his picture was spot on, a very handsome older man with grey hair and a very neatly trimmed beard. And he filled his jeans out quite nicely. After some stiff beverages I suggested we retire to my room which was only around the corner. My pussy was so wet I swear it was running down my leg. In the room I needed to use the bathroom and when I came out he was naked in bed rubbing his cock. Seeing his cock reminded me of my husbands, 8.5 and very thick. Still dressed I walked over to the bed and he started fingering my pussy which by now was soaking wet. He got up and undressed me as I stroked his cock. He turned me around and layed me down on the bed and went to work eating my pussy until I orgasmed. His cock was so hard that when he fed it to me I almost gagged. After 2 hours of fucking and sucking we fell asleep and in the morning he got up as to leave and I grabbed his nuts nuts and told him he wasn't done yet. His cock smelled of pussy and cum but I sucked it until he was once again hard and I rode his cock until he creamed me again. After 5 days in that room, we fucked no less than 10 times. Now Busness trips to Dallas is no longer boring and has been ongoing for 2 years.
 
No not on Bluelight. But I came across someone I really liked on another drug forum. We were going to meet up but things got in the way and then she had found someone and they were doing heavy drugs daily so... we fell out of contact, I hope she's alright these days.

I don't think meeting someone on sites like these is necessarily a bad thing. I'd love to have a girlfriend that didn't mind using every now and then. However I couldn't be with anyone that is out of control/severely addicted cause I'm not in a place in life where I could handle that.
 
Oh, I kinda fell in love with a gutterscum BLer. He told me he was in love with me, lol, instead he was just using me.

His balls never dropped, even approaching 40, so he couldn't find them in his guts to split from his wife.

We hadn't spoken for a year or so, (previously we'd been phone friends), but he actually, with intent, picked & PMd me outta the blue. Out of anyone.

We ended up chatting offline & txtng every ten minutes. Couldn't talk enough, I actually told other ppl that I had fallen in love. I'd allowed him to manipulate me,- backed into a corner right where he wanted me.

His wife was obviously jealous, which is what he wanted, ( as she was of our former friendship),& he managed to drive that wedge in, & told her he was in love with me.

Two days later, I was hit by a wrecking ball. He'd used me as a crutch & support person so he could actually go through with the split & not crumble.

He no longer had a reason to keep up contact . So didn't. In the space of this being all about him, how he wanted to be a family, how badly he was being treated, how I was the only one in his cnr...he'd written a song about me, he would carry me,- I never had the right occasion or timing to tell him about my specialist appts. That I'd been diagnosed with cancer.

He never answered my calls ever again. (Yes, I had to call him to save him money lol), I'm such a fuckwit at times!!

Anyway, a few weeks of entertainment for me, A story to tell the grandkids, ha,- let's not get too far ahead just yet :( & he got what he used me for.

Happy endings ?

Rtp
 
i think that meeting people on the internet that you have no idea who they really are is always difficult. add in that the distances may be huge. i fail to see the attraction personally over dating apps where they live pretty fucking near. bit of a no brainer

you have to look after yourself, you will only be treated as people let you treat them

Runtoparadise said:
I never had the right occasion or timing to tell him about my specialist appts. That I'd been diagnosed with cancer.
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i think this is 90% of why you got sucked in by that behaviour. i'm sorry to hear about your bad situation. surely though you can meet men locally in your area?
 
One Thousand Words said:
Not every bluelighters is a drug addict. In fact I try and avoid meeting the ones who are because in real life their problems are amplified and trying to organise a meet up is like trying herd cats. People show up late, or have no money to do anything fun or get so shitfaced they are refused entry or pass out in public and suddenly you have to look out for a complete stranger from the Internet

Having said that there was a golden time around ten years ago on bluelight when it was just an ecstasy based forum. This was a time before a bunch of junkies arrived and thought that using any type of drug meant we should all be best friends. Believe it or not there was no need for a Darkside forum let alone three different forums for addiction. Meet ups were plentiful and dozens of bluelighters would organise picnics, ski trips, tripping adventures around different cities of the world or catch up at a large rave and party for days.

Drugs were supplied, tested and consumed. Harm reduction tips were shared and anyone who pulled out heroin was pretty much shunned and never invited again.

There were always a few blips. A couple of people fell out over girls, some got ripped off in drug deals and at least one major meet up got raided by the cops in Florida and even mention of this meet up was censored for 5-6 years.

Amongst all this crazy headonistic mix of raves, parties, drugs and globe trotting I met my beautiful wife who I still consider my soul mate.
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This all happened and I have very fond memories of the golden meet up era in Australia.

What made it possible though in my neck of the woods was not really bluelight related but there were many huge popular music festivals and the drum n bass scrne was booming. Pendulum were regular dj acts and headliners at clubs.


Our group of friends just met up at organised meet ups in the aus events. Just people attending two tribes and a general meeting spot and time if you want to hang out. There was no obvious dealing or consuming there so no real cause for being wirried about narcs.


Thats how people met up and got to know each other and then took further private meet ups arranged iff the board to setiously get fucked up on what was brought to the drug buffet, act like total retards, maybe have some sex or occasional free for all orgy.

Groups who formed their friendships travelled and had meet ups. It was grand.

Yeah there were some dramas and broken hearts and some serious relationships evolved. Theres a lot of married with kids from this era.

There were a few deaths, two consecutive raids that brought down 2 of the crew. No one figured out if it was because of being lax here or if they were being watched as they were dealing in their own lives.
Some marriages broke down because of cheating. A lot more knew that what goes on in bluelight stays there as a general rule and were never found out.

Ive had hook ups from here and just took it for what it was- two like minded people getting fucked up, enjoying the company and living in the moment.

Ive had a couple of doomed flings that kinda hurt but given the subject matter of bl that shit will happen.

I had a relatively short defacto relationship with someone I knew sort of on line here for 4 years and thought they were amazing. He was amazing but both of us behind the scenes were in no fit state to be together so that ended badly and I didnt want to be involved in this board anymore because of it. All good though. I just got a spunky irish tradey as a flatmate and we were fuckbuddies for almost 2 years.

Years later I look back at the time of gatherings and reckon I have got so many good memories from here that any shit from individual bluelighters has been well worth it.
 
pofacedhoe said:
i think that meeting people on the internet that you have no idea who they really are is always difficult. add in that the distances may be huge. i fail to see the attraction personally over dating apps where they live pretty fucking near. bit of a no brainer

you have to look after yourself, you will only be treated as people let you treat them



i think this is 90% of why you got sucked in by that behaviour. i'm sorry to hear about your bad situation. surely though you can meet men locally in your area?
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Hey Po, cheers for the infraction?,- now I can't recall what the mods removed so I might repost those somewhat more polite lol?.

Of course I can meet guys around here. I could be on a date or a booty call within 30 mins if I wanted to be. I'm very selective, I want chemistry, a spark between us, very rare, but it does happen. Dont want to spend yrs with a guy who'll just 'Do',

The thing with the BL member was, originally, when we first began to speak, we were an instant platonic perfect match. We just got each other. Then ultimately we had some petty disagreement & lost touch.

He specifically wanted me back into his life, after a year he had missed me so much. He'd been "shattered". Of course I was happy to catch up over the phone....then he began hinting about hvng feelings just around the same time as my affection was developing towards him.

He was always going to leave his wife, but that he went to the extent of calling and texting night and day, and seemingly adoring me, saying just everything a girl wants to hear...he started wanting to have a life with me,he asked to be part of my little family and yeah, I was stupid enough to believe him. I don't fall often, but I fall hard when I do.

I'm not naive, I'm a grown woman, I just prefer to believe in humanity & that there are good ppl out there. That there is more love left for me in this world,- though I've had plenty, I'm too young to be single forever more.

I know he will regret this. That there's no going back, even with distance plenty of ppl do make it work if they truly want to.

Rtp
 
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Four years ago my girl and I had a threesome with a very cute bluelighter in Socal. The only part that sucked was I was the connect at the time and it was hard to get her to leave my apartment after the deed was done, even after compensating her with plenty of goodies. Biggest load I've ever busted for sure.
 
Just joined the site , will date if the guys are really into me for who i am.

I like to chat a lot before meeting in person
 
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