You're not going to "make ether" from starting fluid the way I think you are going to try (water washes); you'll end up with a bunch of heptane and other shit in it. Unfortunately the only other way you're going to get the ether out of starting fluid would be distilling it but that's an excellent way to cause a massive fire or explosion if you're inexperienced with lab glassware and procedures.
Ether, when freshly distilled and without any sort of stabilisers, should be stored in a cool, dark place preferably in a metal tin or brown glass bottle for no longer than a month before getting tested for peroxides and thrown out. Stabilised ether from chemical houses will last on the order of years rather than months, but should still be tested regularly (either with peroxide test strips or there's a reagent test too). Impure ether will degrade more rapidly than pure stuff. I think, but am not 100% sure, that storage over iron II salts (ferrous sulphate e.g.) will help prevent peroxide formation.
Ether is highly, highly volatile and flammable. It should be stored (and used) in a well-ventilated place away from any spark source. I really don't reccomend carrying ether around anywhere - it fucking stinks for one, boils below body temperature, and if you ever have the pleasure of meeting an open flame with it you will be unrecognizable after all the skin grafts you'd get. If you absolutely have to transport it, brown glass bottles with Teflon liners for the caps would be best. Be careful opening bottles of ether that have been warmed; they build pressure inside quite easily.
Bear in mind ether will eat or soften natural rubber and some plastics (polycarbonate etc. HDPE should be fine) so keep it away from those seals and Nalgene bottles.
Ether is not a recreational drug. It stinks and is too dangerous to handle to use it with any regularity. If you're going to inhale it, regard it as a scientific curio rather than something to be done to "get fucked up", and for safety's sake don't try to handle large quantities of ether unless you really know what you're doing.