well, depends on the situation. If its just a night club, then almost definately the drugs. I mean, obviously the music, atmosphere, people etc is what makes me go to a club instead of just taking my drugs at home. But I rarely use drugs (these days lol) so now, if i go out clubbing, yeh, i wanna get high, otherwise I honestly would not bother. I'm way to jaded in the scene to handle it straight (7 yrs on lol). THough ive had my moments of 'doing it straight' and really getting off on a night out without ANY (read no alc either) substance. And dancing my arse off.
Umm, festivals a different matter. The big festivals I DEFINATELY go for the music, camping, atmosphere, escape from city, etc etc etc. *IF* i do take drugs at festivals its gonna be acid, mushies, etc. Not speed or E.
Umm.. sex, well, I've never been a pick-up type of person. Im pretty emotional, and I only do the long-term thing. SO thats never really been in mind, though of course, at a festival, I'd never rule out meeting someone awesome. prob not at a club though, sounds hipocrytical, but these days, I don't think I wanna get attached to someone getting into the whole club thing, I don't need that back in my life again.