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Drugs and Family

boats ftw. there is no escaping mwhahaha. your either on the boat or your off the boat ;)

yeh without my family i probs wouldnt know drugs.
 
I really don't want to go into to too much detail here. But when I lived at home with my twin brother, mother, and stepdad, we were all doing oxycontin. We ended up losing the house, they live in an apartment and I live with my grandparents (twin too). That was our family dynmaic, we shared OC's. We all got greedy and it didn't work out.

But they didn't care about our drug use because we were all using together. This is a disaster waiting to happen and it will never work out for the parties involved.
 
Oh yeah, this one time my sister, brother and a I tripped on dxm together.... lol we were so fucked up. My brother and sister were chilling as I played black ops 2. I was in the zone and couldn't get out of playing, hard to explain... so I'm tripping and getting 17 kill streaks and I could never do that sober but as soon as I stop playing the high kicked in even more. The whole night my brother was like I'm doing the scuddle (sp?) Walk like that crab from futurama... we all then went in the kitchen and danced like crabs together. Whooa... what a night but it was an awesome bonding experience.
 
I think ultimately if you raise them right beforehand it won't be too much of an issue. Teach them to be skeptical, rational and use their brains. If they do get into drugs make it boring and stress harm reduction and researching what you are putting into your body.

I have to say I try not to judge but hearing how some of you plan to raise your kids I can't help but think of something Adam Corolla used to say on loveline.. the second your baby is out of the womb if you have a boy dump them on the prison door steps, if you have a girl drop her outside a strip club.

Though I am crossing my fingers you guys are but kids yourselves and have no idea what it is to be a parent.
 
If my kid brings home drugs... I will teach them harm reduction and then take them away so I can get high... okay no, I'm just kidding.. unless it's weed. I really don't want to be doing drugs when I'm a parent.
 
comatoserct said:
Some amazing stuff in here

All I want to add is that my parents were very strict about drugs/alcohol so when I started experimenting I had to hide it from them.

My sister is 3 years older than me and was a party girl, but never too into drugs. One night when I was 14 she woke me up at 3am and took me to a party. I didn't drink but had a blast watching everyone go crazy. Seeing how stupid some of the people were acting made me think twice about if I wanted to drink or not. Then another time when I was 16 she came home from college for the weekend and had some friends over. I came upstairs to get something and noticed they were drinking. My sister invited me to hang out and let me drink a responsible amount. I felt so cool. The next morning she told me that I can drink with her, and she knew how strict my parents are, but I could always come to her. We would drink together, responsibly, in the comfort of our home and I really valued those times. She made me feel comfortable so I confided in her, as well as helping me find which drugs to avoid and which ones were ok to try in moderation.
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Your sister is such a cool and responsible person, that's great! Cheers to her!
 
My mom, whom I live with, is absolutely against anything stronger than ibuprofen, so that's a bummer. My cousin, I've partied to the extreme with. We've smoked $500 worth of crack and chalked it up to lulz. Me and my brother have smoked tons of weed, snorted coke, crack, etc.

My family is very dysfunctional, but we pretend everything is ok.
 
Psychlone Jack said:
My family is very dysfunctional, but we pretend everything is ok.
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Sounds like our family. My 22 yr old son doesn't smoke cigs, doesn't drink, isn't into dope (not even weed), very health-conscious. I'm the 58 yr old stoner dad who's stuck in 1969. My wife used to be a really hardcore drinker, but quit drinking & cigs 9 yrs ago. I also quit the booze & cigs...but I will NEVER quit my 43 yr weed usage.
I've heard rumblings about the feds debating whether to finally just Legalize! It's about time. The Prohibition Act of 1919 was a failure...making organized crime millions of $$$. Plus look how many deaths are attributed to either alcohol or tobacco. Weed deaths? 0!! Legalize it, tax it, sell it in liquor stores to people 21+ yrs of age & watch how many problems rectify themselves. No more thugs on the corner selling dimebags...lighten-up the prison population...let the DEA patrol our Mexico/USA border to keep illegal aliens out. So many things would just work themselves out.
We may just see Legalization before I'm 6 ft under...:D
 
My parents kicked me out for drug use. Rite out in the middle of fuckin last october. Spent a few nites out in the cold. Slept in the church when it opend in the mornin. I made a thread in the darkside bout bein homeless.

Friend of minr hooked up witta room he rents out in a house fulla other. guys that live there. Gotta weeks free rent but I had $$$ from a summer job I did by paintin. Basically from there started doin allotta pills. Got up to bout 300 to 500 a day on 10 to 15 30s then got on dope. I just started shootn cuz I can't spend $ on 15 to 22 bags a day just to get high. So yah I havnt talked to my parents since n they dnt know nothin bout my addiction cuz I never will tellem n I live ina diffrnt town so they never see me so yeh we dnt talk no more they kicked me out.
 
I smoke with my mother-in-law daily. My parents are cool with it, too, not that I need permission, but it's nice to not have them on my back about things.
 
Dad found my bongs right after I started smokin, but didn't think it was his place to say anything because he had been a 10 year stoner and occasional cocaine user and only stopped because my little brother was born and I was past the toddler stage. I found this out when I called him up crying on a crazy-dark mushroom trip. I admitted to meth and ecstasy use, he didn't seem too concerned. He talked me down perfectly. Told me amusing stories of him on LSD back in his college days and how he never really found what he was looking for with drugs, and told me to remember this trip the next time I thought about using again.

I think I was sober for about a week. But I did cut the meth/coke/X out for a couple of years, and never really went back into any of them too heavily.

A few years later I called him crying saying I was addicted to OxyContin, and that this wasn't like the last time, that I didn't think I'd be able to stop. He didn't take it seriously enough. Neither did my mother, who had never smoked even a cig in her whole life. They checked me into the first in-patient "rehab" they could find. It was hell on Earth. Went in with drug issues, came out with drug issues and PTSD (you wouldn't believe what went on in that place, but that's another thread entirely).

Moved in with Dad, he tolerated my OC~Heroin habit for a few years before he finally said enough, he couldn't watch me kill myself.

It was MMT that saved my life.

Moved out of the parents, had a real life, supported myself. Moved back in with Mom to get into school. School didn't work out. Started working again. All was okay until I got laid off my last job. Mom said get off MMT or move out.

And here I am, on bupe. I'm miserable, she's miserable. But ya gotta try.

I have never used a drug with my parents, unless you count stealing my mom's xanax. I would smoke a bowl with Pops, but after his 20 year break the new herb is just too strong for him.

While neither of my parents are addicts, both have siblings who are recovered addicts. One 15 years clean from a 20 year meth/coke habit, another clean from maybe 15 years of cocaine/meth/painkillers/ludes (he is currently a high-functioning alcoholic).

On the outside we look like the perfect middle class Christian family.
 
Your Drugs and Family

How do the two relate? Is your family up your ass all the time or do you party with them?
For me:

Most of my family are pro-alcohol and prescriptions but very anti-drug . There are drug users in my family but they are looked down on and mistreated by the alcoholics (which is everybody).

I got my own place but no girlfriend\wife or god-forbid children. So I can basically tell the world to suck it if I want to do lots of drugs. I was such a different person as an addict no one would even suspect I chip with harder drugs. People don't believe I have that kind of self-control. Which is fine with me because I do and it's a nice illusion for them. I don't want to shatter their world view that drugs are just as safe as breathing pesticides.

Fortunately most everyone is finally accepting the fact that I constantly smoke weed since public opinion and legality have been changing. Not that I care but it's nice to know people don't always remain ignorant.
 
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XThexXTank said:
My parents kicked me out for drug use. Rite out in the middle of fuckin last october. Spent a few nites out in the cold. Slept in the church when it opend in the mornin. I made a thread in the darkside bout bein homeless.

Friend of minr hooked up witta room he rents out in a house fulla other. guys that live there. Gotta weeks free rent but I had $$$ from a summer job I did by paintin. Basically from there started doin allotta pills. Got up to bout 300 to 500 a day on 10 to 15 30s then got on dope. I just started shootn cuz I can't spend $ on 15 to 22 bags a day just to get high. So yah I havnt talked to my parents since n they dnt know nothin bout my addiction cuz I never will tellem n I live ina diffrnt town so they never see me so yeh we dnt talk no more they kicked me out.
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Oh, wow.. So, your parents don't even give a fuck? Like, they never called to check & see if you were okay?
Man, you must've really fucked up, or you got some really fucked up dysfunctional parents........
Sorry about your situation, bro. I hope it gets better.
 
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