ChemicalSmiles
Ex-Bluelighter
With new partners I use condoms, and I continue to do so until I know that she is not only on birth control and takes it REGULARLY.... but that she is clean by either going together and getting tested or getting to know her long enough to actually truly trust her. (Usually takes several months this way, but I have never been lied to after waiting this long. I did get crabs from a toilet seat in the hood once tho, for real!