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do you love giving oral sex?

Any tips on how to give good head op?

Well, since you asked. :D

In no particular order...

~You are the director.Yes, it would seem that the person doing the sucking is the submissive, but you have control. Remember that.

~Learn to read body language, and ask questions. Most anyone can give passable head, but to give out-of-this-world head, you need to be in tune with your partner's reactions. If you switch to something that elicits a 'meh" response, go to something else. If you find something that makes his breathing fucked up, or his toes curl, keep doing it, dont stop.

~ Watch the teeth. Few men like teeth or pain. that said...

~ Go hard and slow, not light and fast. Make every move deliberate. Many men see porno and think that's the way it's done (light and fast). some men might like it this way, but the ones i've come across like it more heavy and slow (they probably dont even know they like it like that)

~ Use your hands! sucking dick is hard work; take off some of that jaw work with your hands. Your hands can grip tighter than your mouth possibly could. Even if you dont use your hands on his dick, put them on his hips, caress his ass. Remember, you are in control. DO NOT SIT THERE WITH YOUR HANDS IN YOUR LAP!!

~ this is probably #1 (so much for no particular order): BE ENTHUSIASTIC! This is hard if you're timid, or had a bad experience, but once you give a blowjob that takes a man off his feet, this becomes MUCH easier. It's human nature to like what you're good at, or great at. Dont just give a blowjob, give him a BJ that he'll be talking about 30 years later with his buddies ("Hey, when I was in college, there was this ONE chick who gave AWESOME head...). and yes, guys do remember shit like this, and talk about it.

~ For me, I think about what *I* would like, then give it to my partner. I try to put myself in their shoes.

~ some guys are very sensitive to certain things. me, I HATE sloppy BJs (with drool running down my balls) and hate slurping sounds (it is a HUGE turn off). also HATE to have my balls played with. the next guy might find the exact opposite appealing. Ask him before hand if there is anything to avoid.

~ A fair number of guys like deepthroat. If you cant do it, no problem: use your hand to take up some of the shaft length and use your mouth on the head. You dont gag, and he feels pressure/stimulation on the entire length of his dick. Win-win lol.

~ If he asks for something you feel is "freaky", like a finger up his ass, or to jerk it like you're trying to rip it off his body, then do it. shit, you've already got a dick in your mouth and balls on your chin, might as well, right?

~ This probably would be #2 if I were ordering this list: when he is about to come, DO NOT STOP!! Many an otherwise acceptable/awesome/perfect BJ has been utterly ruined by this. cum in your mouth isnt the end of the world; that's what mouthwash (or swallowing) is for. dont try to get cute or change technique at the last seconds; you got him this far by doing good/right, dont fuck it up in the last seconds. You can even spit it out after w/o offense; most guys, after they bust a nut, dont care what you do. Sorry if that offends, but it's true.

~ Some men like eye contact, others are 'meh', and some close their eyes. In my experiences, those that close their eyes are enjoying it the most.

~ Male orgasms vary WILDLY. Some you wouldnt know came at all except there's a small amount of semen, some cum like crazy, others are loud, still some go into a trance like or seizure like state. It's a bit deflating to give what you think is a killer BJ to see someone barely react, but it happens.

~ strive for giving the best head imaginable. You wont always be able to pull it off, but my motto is "If you're gonna do it, try to be the best at it".

~ For me, the best oral sensation is suction. I have found this the case with my partners as well. Lips and tongue LOOK hot (in a porno), and if looks are huge to your partner, this may do it for him. But what if you're both in a dark room? No one is gonna see that stuff. Make it FEEL good, not LOOK good.

~ Take a break. You dont have to have him in your mouth the whole time. *remember use your hands*. You can take those moments to ask if he likes it, or talk dirty to him ("You like having your dick in my mouth, dont cha?). Most men dont get to hear dirty talk. for some, it is distracting, for many others, it can be HIGHLY erotic.

~ Dont be fake. If you hate giving head, better probably to bypass it altogether. dont fake moans or say shit like "ooh, your dick is soooo big" if he's average. guys do know this shit, and unless his self esteem is completely fucked, they arent going to buy it. iow, dont sound like a cheap whore or pornstar.
 
My boyfriend likes it when I put my hands on his head. When going down on me, he will grab my hands and place them on his head if I don't already have them there. I've never questioned what he likes about it or what he wants me to do with my hands, so I go back and forth between rubbing his head and pressing his face "deeper" into me. He seems to like it.

Ask him. Communication is key. Chances are he wants you to be aggressive about it. I know I do. The worst that is gonna happen is he'll pull back and be like 'what are you doing?'. The best is it turns him on so much he eats you out like never before, and you come like never before. Grab his head and neck, his ears, even maybe scratch the shit out of him when you come. If it were me, I'd have a mile-wide grin on my face Monday morning trying NOT to explain the marks to coworkers. Push his face into your pussy; he might even be fantasizing about it but is too shy to ask you. The question is do YOU like it?

"he will grab my hands and place them on his head if I don't already have them there." seems you do. dont be afraid to let loose.
 
love it, and so do most men. only a few have admitted they don't like it
ahh, heady days of 69ing where you get the ultimate view; seeing their arsehole twitch when you get the good spot; giving that a bit of attention too; the point where they get so into it they forget about you and just grind on your face to the point you panic a bit; the shaking, flushed mess that they become after they've came. fuck
 
Love it when Mrs.buffnstuff is really wet and I can just bury my face in her pussy and go to work on it ?
 
Sometimes I watch rough oral sex movies with the male receiving/being dominant, and fantasise about a woman using my face in the same way.

I've had the pleasure of face fucking before, now I just need a willing femdom to sit on my face and use my filthy mouth for exactly what it's made for...
 
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I like eating a woman and it makes her gush and pass out. Rare... but always fun. That's a combination of a woman who is that sensitive and a guy that is that skilled.
 
Oh yesss! And I take a lot of pride in my work. I love being down there. Kissing, and licking, and humming, teasing and sucking. Feeling around and syncing with her rhythm so knowing the next move she wants becomes more instinctual rather than anticipated; to the point where it seems as if her orgasm is under my will. She knows I know what will do it, and I keep her at a 9 until she can't take it anymore and finally take her to 10. The explosion is always well worth it, along with her being so ridiculously turned on at this point she wants nothing more than to take a thorough pounding.
 
Yeah when he tells me I taste so sweet really turns me on. But giving oral turns me on even more I think...but then again I haven't received oral enough I think!
 
I never didnt like getting eaten out, but the older I get the more and more I love it and demand it. And the very best is when you can tell the guy really really enjoys doing it, that turns me on so much.

And I do think in a way it is a very submissive act for the man, and its one of the most selfless sexual acts a man can perform so it can be hard to find a guy to really loves to eat pussy, I think as guys get older they get into it more. Atleast I'v noticed as I get older the cuys I am with and more willing and passionate about doing it.

Oops replied in the wrong bit. I'm new. Lol. I agree, I love it when a blooe tells me I taste sweet, turns me on so much but I think giving oral turns me on more, then again, think I haven't received oral enough!
 
Yes! I can go to town on my wife's pussy and ass for hours on end.
 
oh absolutely! a big fan of it, but she has to be clean. that's a must. nothin worse than getting all excited then nose-diving down there only to get a whiff of a uhhh notsogood smell..

BUT, there's nothing better than exploring in and around her pretty spot with my tongue. ESPECIALLY whilst under the influence of psychedelics, where you feel so connected that you're one as a whole, while being so sexually stimulated at every sense in your being
 
So, then there's me. I don't like head. I got my first blow job when I was 14 years old, and didn't cum. This poor girl went at it for 45 minutes. As life went out, more women gave me blow jobs and I never came. So now I'm at the point where I have to push a girl off if she starts while hooking up. And every girl I tell this to says the same exact thing: "the other girls were not doing it well!". Well, they try and same thing, they fail. I've come twice from BJs in my life. I love sex, cum well from that, very attracted to women, love eating a girl (and agree with the hands on the head bit someone mentioned above).
 
oh well, I see how that can seem disappointing but the thing to remember is that not everyone is into the same types of sexual activities. something about bj's just doesn't hit the spot for you apparently. everyone is different
 
I absolutely love to give oral sex to my partner. Mmmm, I love sucking his cock.

Licking and kissing his penis then slowly entering it into my warm, moist mouth and giving it a good old sucking.
 
I enjoy oral sex giving and receiving.

Somedays its just nice to kick back and get your dick/balls etc sucked licked - I know this feeling and more than happy to return the favor.
 
Oral sex between partners is almost like the closest you can be with each other. I love giving and receiving with someone I'm really into. Once in a while, get some flavor enhancers, and its orgasm city.
 
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