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Do you consider oral sex to be sex?

Is Oral Sex or the Same as Groping/Petting?


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Forget the title semi-answering my question :P

I was discussing oral sex with a female friend and she considers blowjobs/going down on a lady to be sex. I do not however as I guess its just not penetration. I was thinking about this randomly tonight actually.

What do you guys think? Is giving a guy a blow job or going down on a girl considered sex? If not, I assume you'd say it would be considered foreplay but if not that, what do you think?
 
Well first you have to define sex..
Purely physically, sex is just masturbating with another persons body to me, so a mouth is just as valid as any orifice.
 
Yes, I do consider oral sex to be sex, however it is not so cut and dry for me. Oral sex is, yes, a form of sex, but not a form of losing one's virginity. And, I would not say "they had sex" if there had not been penetration, but rather specify it was oral sex or anyother type which does not involve penetration, or simply indicate there was sex, but not penetration through more subtle means. I guess it is more a semantic argument than anything else I am posing.
 
Yes oral sex is sex. Also putting a penis into your mouth or someone else's mouth is penetration and even though other types of sex like rimming and giving a woman oral sex don't always involve penetration of the tongue or a penis, they're still sex. Sex in itself doesn't have to equal penetration at all.
 
IMO- If you are engaging in any activity with another person for sexual gratification then no matter what that said activity is then yes, it is sex.
 
Yes, it is. It is a hetero-centric misconception that sex only involves penetration of penis into a, usually, vaginal orifice.
 
I dunno.. I usually define sex as something on a cellular level... different forms of gamete cells produced by an organism to determine it's phenotypic sex. Or else it's karotype of sex by chromosome complement.

I guess coitus in non-human animals might be easy to also call "sex". Given that they seem to, for the most part, lack the variety that humans engage in.

I'd call the entire realm of human 'sexuality' something else imo. I dunno what to call it, but most of it seems more sensual then anything else.

But who cares what other people think, if you enjoy it, have at er and ignore what name is given to it. You learn all the names for something, and still not have a clue what that thing really is/does/etc...which is really the more important data anyways.
 
oh for fuck's sake rangrz! go suck on a zygote :p

but yeah, i agree if another human's fluids are on your dick then it's sex.
 
Sure it's a form of sex, it's called "ORAL SEX" haha.

But as for whether I consider it to be an act of sex? No, in my mind, "sex" is penetrative. However, I am not disputing that oral sex is a form of sex.

And as for the comment regarding cheating, of course performing oral sex on someone not in your monogamous relationship would be defined as cheating, but in my opinion, other things could be considered cheating as well. I'm going to start another thread on this because I don't want to derail LSD's thread <3 Very interesting thread LSD, I rather enjoy your posting.
 
It really depends in what context.
If oral sex is not actually sex, how could gay people ever have sex?
In some situations, sex means typical penetrative sex. Other times it also includes oral. Technically, it should include oral every time.
 
Now just wait a minute. If you've got a partner with their mouth open, and you're there fucking their throat, you know, penetrating all those little things that make them gag. You know, properly skull fucking them, puke on your dick, mess everywhere, partner gasping for air. Well is getting your dick that far down their throat not penetration?
 
Now just wait a minute. If you've got a partner with their mouth open, and you're there fucking their throat, you know, penetrating all those little things that make them gag. You know, properly skull fucking them, puke on your dick, mess everywhere, partner gasping for air. Well is getting your dick that far down their throat not penetration?
I never said oral wasn't penetrative, It's inserting your cock into an orifice. However, a handjob, I would not consider that to be "inserting my cock into her hands!" to be penetrative sex.

Personally I don't think it is, If I gave a guy a blowjob I wudnt say id had sex with them?! Although i seem to be in minority with thinking its not sex... Does that mean my magic number has jus dramatically just gone up?!
No, I agreed with you to an extent.


I was just saying that when someone asks me if I had sex, if I did something else, I'd say "No, I just got sucked dry/jerked off/ by randomchicksname"
 
you're all full of it. yes, it's sex. and can be some of the best kind.:)
and you all know this..
get real. lol.

~token
 
Yes I consider oral sex to be sex.

It's intimate, it's stimulation of the genitals to orgasm; it's their crotch in your mouth or vice versa; in fact I think it can be equally intimate to penetrative sex.
 
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