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Do that many girls really not swallow?

^^^^ i do exactly the same thing. I think that some girls that swallow believe they give BETTER head than girls who don't and that it makes it better for the guy if they swallow, which in fact is not true at all. Like many guys here have said, GREAT head can be given w/o swallowing...like SLM said, as long as you wait until the orgasm is over there shouldn't be problem.
 
I don't swallow.

Why?

Cause it's always "get twacked till you puke" day for me. :D
 
It doesnt phase me one way or another, if she feels comfortable then yes all for it but if not it doesnt turn me off... Also there is a lot more bad head going around than good head, for some reason it is not an art form many girls are fantastic at anymore :(
 
I think people will always find the opposite to be abnormal. I swallow, but have many friends who dont.... actually, I dont know any of my friends who (admit) to giving their guys head. I can kinda see the desire to not want to swallow, but I just think thats rude and impersonal.

I quite like swallowing most of the time... when it really tastes awful, I just go to the loo and spit it in the sink discreetly.
 
I have to differ from some of you.

I LOVE giving head and semen doesn't gross me out. (Not to say that that's the case in any scenario described here). If I like a guy enough to suck him off, I'll swallow - and love it. This hasn't happened to me in way too long - but the best, sexiest thing EVER is looking deeply into his eyes while I swallow every drop of him.

I don't suck anyone's dick I wouldn't swallow the result out of. If I care about someone enough to suck their dick, I'll have ascertained their safety level and swallow, happily and lovingly.

And Poison IV - tweakers give mediocre head. :|
 
To be honest, I really don't care whether a girl swallows, although it can definately be an intimacy killer if she rushes for the tissues instead of comes up for a cuddle!
On the subject of bad head, well I'd say I was reasonably experienced on the topic and I'll put this forward, there is no bad head, only head. And excellent head. Seriously guys how can you complain if shes got your cock in her mouth, I mean if all else fails you can just hold the girl still!
I was joking, don't get upset girls
 
I couldn't understand why chicks wouldn't swollow. It's so quick and easy... :)

Spitting just seems like such wasted effort.

Think about it: Guy comes, swallow, lean forward, kiss, kiss more, cuddle etc.

BEAUTIFUL!

rather than worrying where you're going to dispose of the stuff. Interrupting a really good momment.
 
I swallow some, but not all of it. I don't see the point, as others have said. A little turns me on, a lot would probably make me vomit.
 
i swallow- every time. i won't go down unless i like ya, so yeah, if you are essentially swallowing my wetness, i guess i'll do the same for you. and, yeah it does sometimes suck when it has that shampoo-bitterness taste to it, but *shrug* whatever.

for girls who don't even like having it in their mouth, do you ask the guy to warn you, or do you stop when you know it's going to happen? and if so...what do you do afterwards? let them jerk it? manually stimulate them? have sex?

i actually haven't had my bf finish in my mouth forever...he *always* stops me so we can have sex.

here's my question for guys- have you ever lied to a girl and told her how amazing she is? like afterwards? i dunno why...i dunno if some men are just so grateful or just...hhmm. i remember reading a magazine article about how if a man blurts out, "i love you", in the middle of sex, there's a good chance he isn't actually in love with you, but definitely cares for you. so, i guess if a guy says, "you're the best", is he maybe exaggerating a bit?

one more question- is this a trick: telling a woman you can't get off from head? is this just a no-good clever trick?

sorry if there is any hijacking of this thread....=)
 
my gf will give me head let me bust in her mouth and then she will swallow..

when we have sex we dont use condoms and shes not on the pill so when i pull out she wants me to cum in her mouth then she swallows it.
 
poopie said:

here's my question for guys- have you ever lied to a girl and told her how amazing she is? like afterwards? i dunno why...i dunno if some men are just so grateful or just...hhmm. i remember reading a magazine article about how if a man blurts out, "i love you", in the middle of sex, there's a good chance he isn't actually in love with you, but definitely cares for you. so, i guess if a guy says, "you're the best", is he maybe exaggerating a bit?


I've definitely been guilty on both counts, but I've NEVER been the first to drop the L bomb during sex. I always wait for like two or three before I feel totally fucking obligated to either pull it out ot reciprocate. I mean HOW fucking often during hot passionate sex can you have the exchange:

"I LOVE YOU!!"
"Yeah... uh... you're... you're hot..."

Regarding blowjobs and sex and the general quality of it, I don't think guys really experience truly lousy sex, it's always a lot better than no sex and there's this whole "whoohoo! I had sex!" thing going on afterwards that just makes you all happy. If a guy says you're great chances are he really believes it, but it might also be that he's easily impressed, we tend to be =D

one more question- is this a trick: telling a woman you can't get off from head? is this just a no-good clever trick?

Now that WOULD be a good trick! LOL, unfortunately it's true for me. I think it's pretty easy to tell in most cases, for some guys it's just not our thing. Really. =D

--- G.
 
I've actually only had a guy cum in my mouth a couple of times... Mostly bjs have been foreplay and the cumming is saved for sex :) But I have swallowed every time. And I actually kind of get off on the idea. The first time I swallowed it was SO bitter though, I couldn't even swallow the whole lot and the rest just kind of dribbled out of my mouth... But yea I'd swallow every time, unless I was concerned about STD's, in which case I wouldn't be giving the guy head to begin with!
 
poopie said:
sorry if there is any hijacking of this thread....=)
Oh, no, this is a more than welcome hijack!! Good questions! As such, I'll repost them :)

poopie said:

for girls who don't even like having it in their mouth, do you ask the guy to warn you, or do you stop when you know it's going to happen? and if so...what do you do afterwards? let them jerk it? manually stimulate them? have sex?

here's my question for guys- have you ever lied to a girl and told her how amazing she is? like afterwards? ... if a guy says, "you're the best", is he maybe exaggerating a bit?

one more question- is this a trick: telling a woman you can't get off from head? is this just a no-good clever trick?

Any input guys? :)
 
poopie said:

i actually haven't had my bf finish in my mouth forever...he *always* stops me so we can have sex.

Me too! Blowjobs are usually part of the foreplay for us. My partner always stops me before he cums and we switch to sex. I've had other men stop me before they cum as well. I always think that is so sweet and considerate because I don't particularly like having semen in my mouth. I have to admit that most of the time I won't put up much of a fight if they try to stop me.

Sometimes, when I'm in a particularly good mood, I'll make sure I finish the job :) Then I always have to reassure them afterwards that I don't mind.
 
I think i would like the idea of a girl swallowing, but on the other hand, if i were to hear a girl swallows or swallowed I wouldnt give her time of day
 
Yeah, my girl friend swallows, i love it...
I usually suffer - the 'can't blow from head' problem, and sorta been copping that lately, but most the time, she gets my motor going - or i pull her off coz i'm so damn horny, and we get into it ;)

She's great, and i respect her for doing it - i know she knows i like it, but then again, the first time she did it, and every time after that...

the worst thing to ever happen was when a chick gagged after the best head i'd ever got - and spat it all over my chest - YUK!!

that was fucked!

^^|]evil - i think that comments fucking stupid - u wouldn't give her the time of day? why? u think she's a slut?

I'm in agreeance that its a turn off to hear stuff about a girl - but not something like 'she swallows'... the stuff i'm talking about is real rancid shit that you wouldn't wanna hear about a girl
 
A lot of girls give lousy head. It is a drag. What is the big deal? The teeth, the gagging, only taking it in 2 inches.....then not swallowing. When a girl does it right though, wow, heaven.

I have given guys head (straight and bi) and they always say stuff like "wow, you really know how to give head, you are better than a woman at it." No shit, guys give better blow jobs because we know what they hell a BJ should feel like. Having a guy cum in your mouth is great and I really cannot understand women who are not into it.
 
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