psychotiKK
Bluelighter
Well my girlfriend was a virgin and never really done anything with a guy other then kiss when I met her. Now she gives amazing BJs and will swallow my load every time. She even likes it when I finger her asshole. 
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Do that many girls really not swallow?
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i personally love giving my partner blow jobs.i love making him come and even more swallowing it all up
. in fact when we first started dating he wouldn't come in my mouth 'cos he thought it was impolite, but i love it...so much so that even if he wanks i HAVE to lick every drop off his cock...tis special and lovely...i however think this is because i love him and love making him come,anyway i can.
. in fact when we first started dating he wouldn't come in my mouth 'cos he thought it was impolite, but i love it...so much so that even if he wanks i HAVE to lick every drop off his cock...tis special and lovely...i however think this is because i love him and love making him come,anyway i can.
Doodle
Bluelighter
^ That's fantastic. And hot.
drEaMtiMe*@#
Bluelighter
crystal-tiara said:
you don't like the taste...
questionaire!
im really curious/puzzled/perplexed and i want answers too!
a few girls earlier in the thread have asked for serious input about a few things but noone satisfied me by answering them really! ...how confusing...so many behaviours and neurotic ideas around sucking cock!
for me its pretty simple, if i like someone enough to feel sexual with them, then i totally dig them thus i naturally feel compelled to give them oral sex, often.(it doesnt take much energy).
theres no halfway when it comes to being close to people- if i felt uncomfortable about particulars such as swallowing etc id feel uncomfortable with the whole sex thing entirely! their body,them next to MY body, touching,closeness. either we feel sexual together or we dont.
a zillion Qs!
girls, those of you who arent really into fellatio, dont you ever feel odd liking a boy enough to sleep with him and call him your boyfriend, and having a part of his body so close to you so often that you try to avoid? what does it feel like to really love somebody but to be intimidated or turned off by the idea of touching them? Do u ever wish you could be into it? Do u ever worry it might make him sad and/or like you less? (PS Id like to make it clear that i don't think this behaviour is stupid at all; I know that lots of girls just arent into it, so please dont confuse my genuine curiosity for making judgments or anything like that. I am, simply, dying for answers about how it is from another perspective that is alien to me! thanks xo)
and boys, guys, how does it actually feel to be totally into a girl youre 'close to' but who [for whatever reasons] has a preference not to handle your penis too much? i know most guys are pretty cool & wouldnt ask for more than their girl was comfortable with but does it ever stop feeling like water off a duck's back? does it ever feel strange, like your partner is disgusted by your sexuality or anything?
does it ever kinda get you bummed?
cos i know its completely unrealistic but id feel i was being incredibly mean if i made my boyfriend feel like i didnt want him, or a part of him! even though i know guys arent that shallow i seriously couldnt imagine why a boy would stay in a relationship with me if i had issues about his body.
so any boys or girls who've been in or are in relationships where oral sex just isnt on the cards, please give me the details on what goes on in your heads about it? is it a complete non-issue, (kinda like how some people like my boyfriend and i just arent into anal sex.its not that we'd never try it or we're repulsed, we just couldnt be bothered? because we're totally satisfied the way we are sexually).
?
or is it(as i suspect) just a liiiiittle bit of an issue. does it ever make either party feel unloved?
im really curious/puzzled/perplexed and i want answers too!
a few girls earlier in the thread have asked for serious input about a few things but noone satisfied me by answering them really! ...how confusing...so many behaviours and neurotic ideas around sucking cock!
for me its pretty simple, if i like someone enough to feel sexual with them, then i totally dig them thus i naturally feel compelled to give them oral sex, often.(it doesnt take much energy).
theres no halfway when it comes to being close to people- if i felt uncomfortable about particulars such as swallowing etc id feel uncomfortable with the whole sex thing entirely! their body,them next to MY body, touching,closeness. either we feel sexual together or we dont.
a zillion Qs!
girls, those of you who arent really into fellatio, dont you ever feel odd liking a boy enough to sleep with him and call him your boyfriend, and having a part of his body so close to you so often that you try to avoid? what does it feel like to really love somebody but to be intimidated or turned off by the idea of touching them? Do u ever wish you could be into it? Do u ever worry it might make him sad and/or like you less? (PS Id like to make it clear that i don't think this behaviour is stupid at all; I know that lots of girls just arent into it, so please dont confuse my genuine curiosity for making judgments or anything like that. I am, simply, dying for answers about how it is from another perspective that is alien to me! thanks xo)
and boys, guys, how does it actually feel to be totally into a girl youre 'close to' but who [for whatever reasons] has a preference not to handle your penis too much? i know most guys are pretty cool & wouldnt ask for more than their girl was comfortable with but does it ever stop feeling like water off a duck's back? does it ever feel strange, like your partner is disgusted by your sexuality or anything?
does it ever kinda get you bummed?
cos i know its completely unrealistic but id feel i was being incredibly mean if i made my boyfriend feel like i didnt want him, or a part of him! even though i know guys arent that shallow i seriously couldnt imagine why a boy would stay in a relationship with me if i had issues about his body.
so any boys or girls who've been in or are in relationships where oral sex just isnt on the cards, please give me the details on what goes on in your heads about it? is it a complete non-issue, (kinda like how some people like my boyfriend and i just arent into anal sex.its not that we'd never try it or we're repulsed, we just couldnt be bothered? because we're totally satisfied the way we are sexually).
?
or is it(as i suspect) just a liiiiittle bit of an issue. does it ever make either party feel unloved?
Strawberry_lovemuffin
Bluelighter
^ good questions, but I don't think anyone here has actually said they don't (or won't) go down at all. The thread's simply about not swallowing after the deed is finished.
oopsy
hi strawberry luvmuffin! lol, youre right, but i guess being confounded by the whole thing sent me off on a slight tangent.... Just putting the questions out there for anybody reading this thread who has been with somebody who doesnt dig going down; i know several guys mentioned having had girlfriends who wouldnt. I want the dirt on what the interaction is like in these types of relationships, it bends my brain! I always wonder about people's sexual "things" and how they fit against another person's sexual nature; what little problems they bring up(if any), what other emotions they might induce in people a bit further below the more surface feelings we all allow ourselves to admit we feel. 8( Sorry if im too much offtrack every1!
Strawberry_lovemuffin said:
hi strawberry luvmuffin! lol, youre right, but i guess being confounded by the whole thing sent me off on a slight tangent.... Just putting the questions out there for anybody reading this thread who has been with somebody who doesnt dig going down; i know several guys mentioned having had girlfriends who wouldnt. I want the dirt on what the interaction is like in these types of relationships, it bends my brain! I always wonder about people's sexual "things" and how they fit against another person's sexual nature; what little problems they bring up(if any), what other emotions they might induce in people a bit further below the more surface feelings we all allow ourselves to admit we feel. 8( Sorry if im too much offtrack every1!
Strawberry_lovemuffin
Bluelighter
Cool! Ask away. It confounds me too. I don't understand anyone who won't go down, unless they had some sort of psychological trauma associated with it.
DarthMom
Bluelighter
the few girls I have met who don't like it because of the "ew" factor are simply really immature in many ways, and this is just a part of it.
I don't really enjoy it all of the time because my mouth really hurts during and after, but I have had dentists tell me my mouth is much smaller than most everyone elses. Perhaps that is why guys say i give such good head though :D oh baby, tight small mouth...hehe
but it isn't that I don't like to. also, you do just get a little lazy after being with someone for a while.
as for swallowing, just can't do it. I gagged and almost vomited the one time i tried, just can't do it. i have never had any complaints and not once has anyone asked me to, or complained or done anythign but tell me how good I am, so I could care less about my lack of desire to swallow.
I don't really enjoy it all of the time because my mouth really hurts during and after, but I have had dentists tell me my mouth is much smaller than most everyone elses. Perhaps that is why guys say i give such good head though :D oh baby, tight small mouth...hehe
but it isn't that I don't like to. also, you do just get a little lazy after being with someone for a while.
as for swallowing, just can't do it. I gagged and almost vomited the one time i tried, just can't do it. i have never had any complaints and not once has anyone asked me to, or complained or done anythign but tell me how good I am, so I could care less about my lack of desire to swallow.
ChemicalSmiles
Ex-Bluelighter
I love when girls swallow, especially as they look at me but..... I hooked upwith my ex again a few weeks ago and now she doesnt swallow anymore. WTF is up with that. Have any girls just stopped swallowing after doing it for over a year?
That is what most men say about blow jobs in general after a year
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After thinking about it, I tend to think of a blow job and cum as a whole package. If I LIKE a guy enough to suck him off, then I LIKE him enough to swallow.
The level of feelings that I have for an individual has nothing to do with swallowing but more to do with giving that blowjob in the first place.
. After thinking about it, I tend to think of a blow job and cum as a whole package. If I LIKE a guy enough to suck him off, then I LIKE him enough to swallow.
The level of feelings that I have for an individual has nothing to do with swallowing but more to do with giving that blowjob in the first place.