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Do girls like anal ever?

Me and my "partner" are exploring things at the moment, but being only 18, Im honestly a bit scared to ask him about it... I think with him being 19 he might think that its weird, although, sometimes when he spoons me from behind when were in bed I feel how hard he gets up against me ... Still though, because its so "taboo" im scared to say anything :) Having never done it before, Im interested, but also pretty wary after hearing some horror stories about "the dayS after"
 
^^ ...i know cultures are different etc...but i dont see whats the matter with being 18...i'm not sure where you're from...but surely you're now considered an adult...nor can i see how is there any great difference between 18 and 19...and how does his extra 12(?) months give him sufficient superiority that you think he is in the position to judge you for something like that..?
maybe people where im from start earlier...but still..

why dont you ask him if he's tried it before...its like the step before asking him for it... that way you can back out of it if he reacts badly...and if he's into it, then im sure he'll let you know.

the day after isnt bad as long as you both are sensible during it. also, have a shower straight afterwards and go to the toilet.
 
I don't know! I tried it once and didn't really like it. It was a fuckin pain in the ass seriously. Maybe I'll do it again if there's coke involved and a shitload of lube!!!
 
renton405 said:
^^^^Sounds like no lube was used, lol

The anal thing has become really big in porno these days...ive seem some where they just skip the vagina and go straight to the ass...

Oh, no, no, no.... there was lube used, BELIEVE ME. It STILL hurt and I STILL bled. It was horrendous...

Maybe it didn't help that I was really scared and tense and anxious and I was totally crying like a little bitch... omg... never again. :X
 
My ex roomies g/f did it. He told me. I really wish he hadn't. I now tell others we know just so they have to be afflicted with teh thought of her taking it up the ass. They deserve it, trust me.
 
*sigh*

and i thought ^that^ post would be a GL version of 'my first time with a shemale'.

:(
 
^LoL!!!

Fuck that! I don't think I would ever try it again. I'd like to stick it up PN's ass though with a strap on! How Fun :)
or maybe not .
 
I think that, for me at least, i enjoy it when he's going down there and having a feel around, but it has to be the right moment when i'll enjoy it. I have had every experience from not wanting it to stop, to wishing it would end.

I know a lot of people who will not even consider it, but i think that if you find the right girl, you could probably ask her to give it a try. Hell, she might even ask you to do it... ! :D I know that i ask my boy to do it from time to time and he gets all hot and flustered at the thought. Him being turned on turns me on, and so the chain continues. :)
 
I just think whats so wrong with the other hole? But yea for experimentation...it can feel good sometimes, it really does have to be the right time
 
Every girl I've been with loves her ass played with (toy, tongue, finger, etc). I've only had anal sex with one of my ex-g/friends but she loved it and asked for it every time we made love that weekend. My new girlfriend loves me to "play" down there and we will work up to anal one day. I look foward, but I am in no hurry. I just want it to be the "right time."

It's all about being slow and gentle, both parties feeling good about doing it, and honestly....being in tune with your lover. Your dick is a very sensitive organ. Between that, and your eyes and ears, you should be able to tell if she is liking it or not. Feel for what she wants. Feel for what feels good for her. Use lots of lube and take your time.

Do girls like anal? The ones I have been with did. If you do it right, and they are open-minded and don't have a stupid attitude like "exit only" they will like it. I never forced it upon anyone either. I was/am generally always asked. Either vocally, or by the fact that a sexy, pink asshole has been placed in my face and it's obvious what is to be done next. :)
 
Hm, I had an ex use a vibrator on me there once (and it wasn't a small vibrator either). It didn't hurt, it just felt slightly uncomfortable. But to tell the truth I am *dying* to try it for real (with a real dick, not a vibrator).
 
renton405 said:
Do girls ever get the urge for anal sex? even the ones who dont like it?? Of course Im talking done correctly with lotsa lube and gentleness... I think girls who are into it are such a turn on, cause its such a naughty kinky things for girls to be into


Lots do....usually the ones who have had it already....
 
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