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DATING a WOMAN who was a MAN

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a2nstyler

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ok so what would you do or say if you found out the person you were dating use to be a MAN or WOMAN but had a sex change?
 
I dont think I would mind, if they were post op, young and attractive/likable enough

like if i didnt really like them that much in the first place i would just say hey im happy to be friends but a relationship is out

but if i really had something with them, itd be ok. also cause i am 18 i date people around my age give or take a few years, so if someone is post op at my age then at least they havent lived as a man for a long time.

If i was 50 or something and with someone of a similar age, and the person had had the op only recently, then no. Because theyve lived most of their life as a man, and you cant take that back.

then again this would be such a shock to the system that i honestly cant say exactly what I'd do until it happened.

good question.
 
I wouldn't. It's just "better" if it's a proper woman. If I wanted to fuck a man I would do so.
 
Hell no. I'd kick them to the curb yo.

Seriously though, i dont care if they are post-op, im attracted to females and females only. This may offend some, but i don't consider a post-op a "true" female.
 
Hmm, cute and post-op, I'd probably go for it if only for the experience. I can't see taking it seriously as a long-term, though; I have to believe surgically simulated pussy isn't as fun to play with as the real thing.

(No, not gay in the slightest. Just not phobic either.)
 
i saw this in an episode of becker
its really interesting..
she tells him after he starts to develop feelings

but to answer the question...i would find it mega weird
 
I think it'd be safe to say that they would have some minor or major psychological issues. I wouldn't want to deal with them at all.
 
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I wouldn't be able to be with them. Just because you have a surgery doesn't make you a woman. You are a man with a fake vagina and implants.

Just my opinion, but whatever floats your boat...
 
Wouldn't want to, they wouldn't have the same personality as a woman. Also, physically, they wouldn't be quite the same, nonwithstanding how good the simulation is these days.
 
TheDEA.org said:
I can't see taking it seriously as a long-term, though; I have to believe surgically simulated pussy isn't as fun to play with as the real thing.
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exactly. i don't see how it would get wet without using a lotta lube. and the reality would always be going through my head.
 
vibr8tor said:
exactly. i don't see how it would get wet without using a lotta lube. and the reality would always be going through my head.
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You know they have to use a 'stint' every week to streach out their 'pussy like thing' to keep that 'pussy-like thing' of their's to stay open? If they dont it will close up and heal itself, so it's basically like your fucking an OPEN WOUND!!!! GROSS (pukes) :p
 
No, it's skin, not a wound. Skin will just grow together if kept in moist contact for long periods. I've had skin fuse between the base of two toes after long periods of wearing boots.
 
Wow, Methacontin, to be devil's advocate here: you'd sleep with a prostitute before you'd sleep with a transgendered person?

Judgmental much? :) I seem to recall you're from Ft. Lauderdale... there's this really great place off Federal that's called "The Copa". You should try it out... the drinks are strong :)
 
Mariposa said:
Wow, Methacontin, to be devil's advocate here: you'd sleep with a prostitute before you'd sleep with a transgendered person?
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I'm thinking 99% of the men in the world would rather sleep with a prostitute than a "transgendered person". For some reason I have this idea of trannies being hotbeds of various diseases, more so than prostitutes, and after all at least it's a real vagina.
 
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