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~Da LaVa LoUnGe~ (SLR Social Thread)

^Well do it then! I hear you on the SSRI shit though, no experience of it myself, but was depressed for a few years, which caused my libido to be scanty.

Get bang on the aphrodisiacs - I HIGHLY recommend kratom and red panax ginseng.

Just go for it, find out what you like, and move on, otherwise you will be second guessing yourself over and over, bro!

Dayuuuuum - this past week - I am in my 3rd week of absolute celibacy - no sex, no masturbation, and pushing away all sexual thoughts and fantasies that may arise - my sexual view has become anew! Seriously, I am much more honourable - I still have that dog quality - but I'm proud of it, because I am surrounded by attractive women! Never a bad thing! I can visualize again though - I am trying not to but I don't find it hard! Ever since I first started masturbating at the age of 14/15 I used porn. There were few times when I didn't by myself over the years - really sad...but now I am totally refreshed and reset.

I am finding it pretty hard to push out visuals when people start talking about sex stuff though - last night over dinner and a few glasses of wine with 3 (yes 3!) lovely ladies, I actually had to put my fingers in my ears, hum intermittently and practice calming pranayama due to a certain side of the conversation. 12 days more. It's getting more and more challenging!
 
Skyrim is no more. I'll brb in a few months after I finish Diablo III.

Got a new mouse, headset and mousepad for this game.

Forever alone for the next few months. :D
 
I was really into Chopper Command for a good while. Defender was a'ight, but Chopper Command seemed closer to home.
 
dextromethorphan and the mind connection

im drunk so my typings off. hell when isnt it. just a forewarning never connect souls with someone on dxm. theres nothing but pain. i feel like i lost my soul. and the worst part is, im in a shitty part of iowa with all shit talkers and snitches so i have zero friends. along with an (only psychological) addiction to iv opiates
 
^ that sounds fucked. what part of iowa, near fairfield? Sounds about right. Never connect souls - how did you do that anyways?

It really sounds like you need to get away from all the druggy druggy people, and find some really happy positive people who make you smile. RUN, FIND THEM!
 
I thought Oblivion was the best Elder Scrolls but I didnt play Morrowind when it first came out
 
I actually have Oblivion, but I never played it. LOL I'm on to bigger and brighter things: Diablo, but jesus christ Blizz sure does love its OCD players. I'm in Hell on the 3rd act, which is hard as fuck BTW, but you have to play the same thing over 4 times. I still don't know what happens after you bean the inferno level. I'm hoping since the real money Auction House came out, that I can at least make enough money to pay myself back for the game LOL If I make a little more, it's gravy.

For anyone who wants to know, my blind date was not a mongoloid.
 
thats funny because I have Skyrim and havent played it because my pc could only run it smooth on low and I wanted to wait until I could play it on high settings and as of tomorrow I will be able to. I dont think im getting D3 Im just waiting for guild wars 2.

Definitely play Oblivion though, solid game. Dark Brotherhood quest line has some great moments
 
Tricomb, I will tell you!

I hadn't smoked pot for 11 months. Shared a J yesterday evening.

Just woke up after 17 hours! That's what's up. I don't even feel like a human.

Which animal sleeps for well over 12 hours? A panda? There I am.
 
On the sleep, or the pot-smoking?

Definitely on the latter, which is why I shared the J like I actually had a tolerance. Instead, I slept as if I'd just slurped the last of the hash oil from a bowl of tainted pasta.
 
Hah! I love making pasta with hash oil :P extra Parmesan please.

I'm working on rolling a fat joint as we speak, lacing it with hash and keif, knowing this is not very efficient, giving no fucks. :)
 
I'll give BL chicks some credit in the sense they are able to read and understand more than a sentence fragment at a time. Most women I meet can't handle any thing in writing over a sentence long unless it's teenage pap novels like Hunger Games and Twilight.

Haha, I was chatting with some chick on a messenger the other day, and I wrote about 3 sentences. Then I thought...oh shit, that's mental overload for this chick and sure enough it was.
 
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We talk a lot about "not caring what people think" as being a key to finding and maintaining good relationships, but one must elaborate a bit on the topic. Remember, what another thinks about us is essential to a relationship. Just make sure you care what the ones who care about you in return think of you. That's important. Just don't go around caring about every stupid asshole out there and what they think. People seem to pay much more attention to unwarranted criticism from complete strangers than the needs and desires of their loved ones.
 
I have no issues meeting girls who can read and understand things. Why just yesterday, Sophie and I where reading my text on magnetohydrodynamics (plasma physics) and guess what? The very sexy aerospace engineer comprehended just fine.

Women are equally human, including that human trait of intelligence and abstract thought. Perhaps you meet the wrong ones man. Where do you meet em? Try meeting some at like university or conferences or even groups dedicated to some interest. (like an astronomy meetup or a photography group or whatever it is you are into)
 
I'm sure the selection of intellectual women in the Toronto metro area is phenominal compared to what I get where I am. The men here are stupid as fuck too. I don't have the illiterate mind and communication amongst those who do is a different game altogether. It's really primal. It's not uncommon here for couples to have touched before they talked.
 
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