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~Da LaVa LoUnGe~ (SLR Social Thread)

^ I find women versed in mathematics and science extremely sexy.

But I do think that due to the fairly average level of intelligence of the human race, cultural stereotypes as well as the 'stigma' some people place on quantitative sciences women often play dumb. Years and years of practice playing dumb can make one come off as, well, dumb.
 
I do too, a chick who is some sort of scientists/engineer/computer person etc is a huge turn on...shit, as it goes, every girl I'm into/intimate with is either a professional in a sci discipline or in a sci program at uni.

I don't understand the stigma or stereotype on the sciences. I mean everyone wants what science produces ( Plasma TV, medicines, cars, cell phones etc) yet the people who make it happens are seen as unsexy? Wtf.
 
Stereotypes. Who cares? I personally run in many circles myself. I don't get along with everyone in my engineering program, a lot of them are too 'conservative' shall we say.

Open minded, intelligent people with a broad variety of interests are hard to come by. I cherry pick, I have my smart friends, my crazy friends and my sexy friends. The trick is finding it all in one. Different strokes s'pose
 
I'm getting so tired of all these chicks going for this "baddass slut" attitude. It's the fakest, phoniest shit I've ever seen. They are quick to try to call guys pussies when in fact they have never done anything "hardcore" other than cause bitch drama. Just cause dudes want to fuck you doesn't make you desirable either. There are plenty of dudes that will fuck anything with legs including the kitchen table. Being a cump dumpster for many dudes doesn't make you experienced either.

Sure, the dudes will be lining up to get some, but it's not for a relationship. So quit blowing money or blowing tattoo artists for tats and clean your image up and do something productive with your life.
 
@beers: yes, many engineers and physicians are too conservative, but the ones who ain't rock.

I find the pure science crowd is however very liberal.

Smart sexy and cool in one package is the best.
 
I am going to try to describe a weird feeling that I have been getting lately, and maybe someone can relate to it. Now I have, let's say, a rather broad sexual appetite. Sure, I love the basic and most popular bedroom/intimate/romantic/sexual stuff, but a lot of my fetishes and things that really get me going are pretty far out there. They are more taboo. They are things that (well maybe not on BL) are not very popular in regular society and most people probably get creeped out by them even. As in, I get turned on and whatnot by the same stuff that everyone else does, but it takes a bit of unorthodox kink to really bring out that animalistic/"naughty"/8o sexual rush for me. It's like two different levels.

Now what seems to happen is that the sexuality that is rampant in our society is the tamer of the two levels, so I can only tap into the common sexual energy around me during the day so much. Now it would be fucking incredible if the people dropping sexual innuendo and whatnot in public (or media or...) were hinting that the kinky stuff I like, but in all likelihood they are not, and we probably wouldn't connect on that level. At least not most of the time. But there's kind, again, and anticlimactic feel if the sexuality that you have going on in your head is on a different level as that which is hinted at by the subtleties of life. It would be similar to being at a rock concert full of drunks while on MDMA. Sure, you can all basically feel the excitement and the mob mentality together, but it's just not the same as if everyone in that crowd was also rolling (which would be unquestionably better).

As a result, I find it hard to really tap into to the collective sexual innuendo around me because it's just too tame for me a lot of the time. It's not exactly guilt that I feel for being more extreme than most in my desires, but it is a bit of an uncomfortability. For some of the things I like, I'd have to basically engineer my own environment where everyone shares the same fetishes before I feel like I could really get the feeling that the sexual energy that I feel around me is associated with the energy rampant in the sexual ideals I have in my imagination.

Can anyone understand me at all?
 
I understand bro, I'm into a variety of kinks myself.

I dunno, if I'm a sexually charged atmosphere, I just drop them in the open and a) IDGAF if people hate on them...haters gonna hate. b) Find a lot more people than expected are actually into them once you get it out in the open.
 
I'm post whoring SLR in at attempt to put off studying for my midterm in 2 hrs and nooooooooobody can stop me.
 
rangrz said:
I understand bro, I'm into a variety of kinks myself.

I dunno, if I'm a sexually charged atmosphere, I just drop them in the open and a) IDGAF if people hate on them...haters gonna hate. b) Find a lot more people than expected are actually into them once you get it out in the open.
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Right now I am in sales for one job and I interact with a predominantly female target market. A lot of innuendo and flirtation goes on in such a place, especially when you get them in groups. But when I speak about a mismatch of sexual energy, I mean that I might make a joke and receive a smile and one of those "looks." And let's assume that the look is sexual in that it tries to convey the "I want to take you out back and kiss and then awkwardly feel each other up, resulting in sex eventually." Okay, that's great and all, but if I am attracted to the woman, that wouldn't be my first choice of activity to do with her. Her ideas of a good time would be sufficient to get me off, but a bit kinkier stuff is necessary to really make me feel like a sexual animal. And the latter stuff would, on average, turn that woman's sexy look into that "umm okay...kinda gross but to each his own" look. Now in that woman's mind, what she'd want to go out back and do would be enough to push her to her limits, so the rush that she gets off of the innuendo/flirtation would be comparable to the rush I'd only get off of an environment where a group of women with my kinks were handpicked to surround me, and anything subtly sexual could be assumed to extend to both parties genuinely liking the things going on inside of my head.

I understand that I can go to fetish clubs and similar venues to get this, but I'm more just kinda envious of people who have their complete sexual appetites shared in the common sexuality traded around in everyday public situations. People who don't feel empty because they are sexual outliers. It would be really nice to be charged up to the fullest extent of your sexuality in public situations AND knowing that the majority of people around you would be turned on, not turned off, by what's in your imagination.
 
girls that play "hard to get" frustrate me.

in my life, i've pined over enough girls that weren't actually interested in me. if a girl doesn't seem like she's interested in me, i'm gonna move on, for my own sake.
 
i just want a girl who is friendly, loving, curious, and open-minded/thinks-for-herself.

physical beauty would be nice, but i'd much rather have a girl that appeals to my emotions.
 
I hear ya, but I wonder why chicks care less about physically appealing or emotional appealing men...

They say they all want men who appeal to their desire for power. That's fucking evil.
 
rangrz said:
I have no patience for the unwashed pleeb masses either, but is there no sources of intelligent people in your region!
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I used to be an elitist asshole, then I realized that the masses build the great things that brilliant people in-vision.
 
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