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Cute, Classy, Slutty or plain?

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Haha he's going to be so horny he'd rip it to shreds. Being locked up for however long, seeing nothing but gross dudes all day every day... ugh, when you finally get back.. Hah. I won't be surprised if they fuck straight for 3 weeks.

The last time I was locked up I was only gone for 3 months but my girlfriend and I still didn't leave the bedroom for weeks when I got back. Hah
 
I'm not picky, it is more the way she is acting. If I have to put a vote out there: any pyjamas from Peter Alexander usually does it for me. I do like it when she is wearing my clothes (trackies, hoodie etc) for some reason though! :)
 
pretty much anything, or nothing for that matter

sometimes I just want her to be naked, but sometimes it's real nice to see a lil effort involved in the ordeal
 
Mr.Scagnattie said:
How long has he been away? Did you answer that already?
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Yes honey bee, I have answered that a few diff places.. but I don't mind answering it again :) He just had to do a 120 (4 months)

downfallin said:
Haha glad I could help
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Indeed.. Laughter is the best medicine.


axl blaze said:
...... but sometimes it's real nice to see a lil effort involved in the ordeal
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I am one of those girls that ALWAYS puts in effort. I don't understand those girls that just don't give a fuck about the way they look or even worse, their hygiene. I get called "high maintenance" a lot and my dope dealer actually called me "prissy" once, but I don't think I am any of those things.. I just think I care about my personal appearance. I went to my dope mans house and I wanted him to run out to my car with the shit and he wanted me to run into the house to get it, so I lied and told him I didn't have any shoes on so I couldn't (it had snowed the previous 3 days) and he was like "You aint gotta lie.. I know yo prissy ass aint come out the house with no shoes on." lol. He was right.. I did lie. I got my way tho :)
 
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Oh good. 4 months isn't bad at all. I was getting the impression he'd been away for years.

Still.. 4 months without getting laid is no picnic.. Hah. That was about how long I was locked up for the last time and there where guys who got in the same time as me, already getting blown by other dudes by the time I got out.. so, it doesn't take long for some of these guys to start freaking out and taking whatever warm orifice they can get.
 
Yes, I know, it isn't really that long.. so I apologize for acting like a baby about it. I just really miss him. And I have a very high sex drive, so it's hard being away from my partner.. especially since I want to stay loyal to him.

My ex boyfriend, whom I caught my case with- (which I would like to get the courage to share about and my story with you guys one day,) was always in and out of prison. He would go for 120's all the time, then a year, then a year and a half.. and a handful of jail stays.. and when I say handful, I mean a fuckton. Now he is doing a 12 and 14 year bit ran together, and has an 85% mandatory minimum. THAT was a really hard situation to deal with, because he was gone A LOT over the span of our relationship. We were together for EVERRRRRR though, but I bet he was locked up for like 40 % of the years we were together.

I swear I don't only date guys that go to prison. It just happened that way. :/

Sorry to give the impression that my man has been gone for a long time.. I must be really annoying and being a whiney baby.

Oh yeah, and my ex would tell me about dudes that had been down a while and things they did. The most interesting thing I heard of though, was a "FiFI" lol
 
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Nah, I know how shitty it is to be forced away from somebody you love. Even one day is too much.

I'm happy for you. Value your time together because as you know, you never know when that shit could end.

My girlfriend might have to go through the same shit as I'm currently set to go away for 3-4 months right now. She's really upset about it but trying to stay strong.
 
^ Hey I am really sorry to hear about that, MS. It is a very tough situation, and if she has never been through it before, it can be rough. But since there always has to be an opposite for everything, the beauty in these situations is that if a relationship survives this, it can bring the two closer together.

It might sound weird, but when my dude locked up, I try to think of the positive, like, instead of thinking about how bad it sucks without him out here I try to remind myself that I GET an opportunity to be out here holding shit down for him, waiting till he gets home, you know? Also, tell your girl that it might not seem like it, but doing certain things (like sleeping in your shirts, sleeping on your side of bed, listening to your fave song etc) can really help ease the pain. I really liked writing to my man, it really made me feel close to him.. even tho we talk on the phone daily, there is something I like about writing. Plus, I like to get cute cards and I spend a bunch of time decorating the envelopes and doing stuff like that because oddly it makes me feel better. Also, I have written on his Facebook wall once a month since he has been gone.. and even though I know he can't see it, it made me feel better. She will find her own way.. and find her way of stuff that makes the pain less. Keep me posted and let me know how everything is going once things transpire a bit. Also, let your girl know there is an online forum that is pretty cool-its much like BL, but only for prison stuff. Lotsa girls (and some males) that have loved ones that are locked up. Not only do they offer support, but they have a wealth of information.. pretty much anything you'd need to know about various prison systems, rules, regs...etc. It can be found here: http://www.prisontalk.com/forums/

I hope everything works out for you buddy! <3
 
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