I really like some of the replies in this thread when people said that it's more about how you carry yourself in your frame than your weight. This is very true. There are a lot more body types than just curvy and skinny.
Ibizakat said something about being 5'8" and weighing 125 and feeling she looks anorexic. This is a perfect example of how we can't really compare weights..I am also 5'8", and have never weighed more than 120 pounds. 120 pounds on me is getting a little pudgy, because I have tiny bones and am very light in structure. So usually I weigh around 110-115, and eat ALL the time, and even have a little belly and ass. The weight number is completely irrelevant, it is sad that so many girls stress about it.
You should examine your body type and determine your ideal weight from there. I think girls should aim to be in good physical shape to FEEL GOOD, instead of stressing on a number.
I also just want to sympathize (can't spell) with any girls out there who are naturally thin and get the "Are you anorexic" comments, which are VERY rude and hurtful. I am still tiny but I have a little meat on my bones now that I am in my 20's, but you can imagine what it was like when I went through my growth spurts when I was younger. I was growing fast, and I got really tall and was still like 90 pounds, and I was almost constantly harrassed at school, every day, called anorexic, told by boys I was ugly, laughed at by girls who said I looked like a flagpole..it hurt even worse because I actually did have eating problems during an earlier period of my life, which I worked really hard to overcome, and at the point where I grew, it was because I WAS eating, and trying really hard to take care of myself.
Everyone just needs to remember that there are a million different body types and just as it is natural for me to weigh 115 pounds, it might also be natural for a bigger girl to weigh 160 pounds, or more, or less...etc.
Oh yeah, and ALL the Bluelight ladies are gorgeous!
-andi