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Curves or barbie dolls

^^^ Doofqueen, I think you're gorgeous!

One thing is for sure, if I was a guy, or bisexual, I'd be attracted to curves. :)

(oh dear, that is not meant to sound like I'm trying to pick you up doofqueen :o but upon reading it, it does. Ooopsie! SOrry. )
 
^^^^as if u wouldnt be trying to pick her up, doof queen is gorgeous

and again i say curves are the greatest. id rather hug a big soft teddi bear than a knobby lil barbie doll when im in bed so there .....
 
can i be a little off topic and make a huge generalisation?

i've found over the yrs that ive made the best friends with "bigger" girls. i'm little myself and ive always found that my friends get a little envious. but i never fit in with the so called "popular" pretty girls cos they were all snooty bitches. so to sum it up, i'd say personality way overrides anything and it just so happens that girls who arent barbie dolls usually try to make up for what theyre "lacking" in by being really cool chicks.
 
i think that if you carry yourself like you are totally comfortable with your body, you look healthy and happy no matter what which is the important thing :)

i think that most "larger" girls who carry themselves like they dont give a damn (which is the way it should be) look fantastic, and skinny girls who count calories and hate their weight look unhappy and therefore unattractive.....

i was eating a cherry ripe the other day @ uni and this girl (who i dont even know) comes up to me and goes "do you know that cherry ripes are the chocolate with the least calories in them?" i was just like wtf?? who knows that!??? (some pointless info but i thought it was weird)

anyway i'm somewhere in between happy/unhappy with my body.....its not really a mindset i can change, but i figure if i keep exercising more it will pay off and ill be happy :)

p.s- doofqueen i agree, size 14 IS NOT large!
 
^^^^
hehehe about the cherry ripe.

and u can change the way u think about urself. whats stopping u?? as long as ur healthy and not stressing about how u look then everything should be ok. and dont say its not as easy as that, it is.
and ppl are more attracted to those that are confident and happy with themselves. u said it urself, if u carry urself that way, everyone else will see u that way too!
 
I've been thin in Asia.
I've been curvy in Asia.

I've been thin in North America.
I've been curvy in North America.

Different responses in both places.

Either way, I've five feet tall; for me, curvy means I'm in excess of $1.10, which looks like much more than it sounds because it's not in proportion to my naturally small frame; I never got above a size 5, but it did not look good to me regardless because I wasn't physically active.

I'm a gym-bunny now. When I'm home, in the name of general health and aesthetics, I hit the gym several times a week. If I'm in Asia, I do such a great deal of physical activity every day just getting around or going off on 3-4 hour hikes/climbs that I build better endurance and enhanced tone results, moreso than I've ever achieved at the gym.

If I'm at my optimum size 1 in the US, I get looks in the street from the majority of males I come across, asked out, etc.
I'm treated very well in this case and probably thought of well; usually as a masturbation fantasy, I'm sure, because I am treated as more of a sex-object appearing at this weight and less of a person. People seem to be more polite when I weigh more.

If I'm curvier thanks to not working out/eating correctly for me, not so much. In fact, not much of anything happens. It's boring. I am "friend" material and nothing more to the opposite sex.

...

If I'm in Asia and weigh/appear as I do thanks to the circumstances of what being there entails, It is not uncommon for people to walk up to me and hand me serveral large-numbered bills.

If I'm in Asia and weigh more than I ought to, because I've just arrived and hadn't been caring for myself as I usually do, people still give me money, recite poetry and insist that they buy me meals/beverages/jewelry.

It's interesting.
 
syntech said:
can i be a little off topic and make a huge generalisation?

i've found over the yrs that ive made the best friends with "bigger" girls. i'm little myself and ive always found that my friends get a little envious. but i never fit in with the so called "popular" pretty girls cos they were all snooty bitches. so to sum it up, i'd say personality way overrides anything and it just so happens that girls who arent barbie dolls usually try to make up for what theyre "lacking" in by being really cool chicks.
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i dont know what you mean exactly when you say larger girls are 'lacking' 8( i personally dont want to look like a barbie doll...there are too many out there that just look the same
 
Isnt it really boring and time consuming having to count up calories before you eat the thing anyway?? Surely just eating sensibily is much healthier and way more attractive than to see someone adding up how many calories they will consume in one mouthful??
 
i'm all confused about this right now. i've dropped probably 15 pounds in the last, oh, 3 months - from 140ish to 125ish on a 5'8" frame. i was by NO means anywhere close to fat before, i'd say i was moderately thin but not overly thin, and now, well, i'm 125 on a 5'8 frame. borderline anorexic-looking. anyway, i find that now i get more looks from guys than i used to. this does kind of unsettle me because i wasn't trying to lose weight, and the fact that i lost that much kind of scared me... oh well. i'm sure once i go off to school it'll alllll come back - junior fifteen here i come.

My theory is that there is a certain weight at which everyone looks their best, and that at that weight they are HOT. I know plenty of girls that I think are amazingly beautiful who are curvy, size 12 or above and would look sickly if they wore a size 8, but I think I look my best somewhere around 130 (anything below that and, well, mah boobies all but disappear :(). I've been a toothpick for most of my life, and that's the way I think I look the best.

And, it's all just a matter of personal preference, and that there are guys who go for all body types of girls, just as there are girls who go for all body types of guys. me, i have trouble finding guys that i like that weigh more than i do - 'cause i go for that scrawn. to me there is nothing hotter than a tall, twiggy dude.

i will say that christina is hot in that picture (except her face is a little weird looking)... she's a thick chick stuck in an anorexic's body most of the time, i guess.
 
I know this thread was started with probably good intentions but maybe a thread like this isn't really worth much since it really only makes one group feel really good about themselves right? I mean the general consensus I'm seeing here in curvy women are the more favorable but if it came the other way and thin was *in* possibly some girls would be hurt and in a rare case might fuel a eating disorder. I'm not saying anything bad about ANYBODY just maybe something a little more constructive should be discussed?

~Shelly~

*does exotic belly dance*
 
^^i have already talked about thin girls etc and how its hard for them to put on weight as it is for bigger girls to loose it....i'm not dissing thin girls...i know most men like slim girls, thats why this thread was started.....to see if there were many that liked the larger ones, i have been pleasently surprised they do is all :)

how is talking about appreciating body curves and liking larger women going to cause eating disorders?
 
Eating disorders are not caused by people's or the media's perceptions of what body image should be, i.e. being thin or petite. They go much deeper than that.

I will say that I think all kinds of girls are attractive. For example, I love how Kate Moss looks and I also love Kate Winslett. I'm a size 12 by the way, Ms Average, and I don't think I'm fat at all but have felt fat on many occasions (for various reasons I'm sure we can all relate to).

Fair enough for the girls who aren't a size 8 to want some love.

=D
 
^^yeah that's kinda what i was thinking....i didn't think a thread about liking curves would really start any eating disorders
 
what i meant by 'lacking' is that society might think theyre lacking. thats why i put it in inverted commas. i have no prejudices towards ppl. if i notice that i'm being presumtuous, i'll try my best to correct myself. i hate ppl that make assumptions of me so i try not to do it myself.

when i meet someone, the "default" feeling towards them is that theyre a good person. the way they act as i get to know them will either increase that feeling or decrease it. meh, its hard to put it into words. i think i give ppl too much leeway at times and think too much of them which can prove nasty to me in the long run!
 
I'm not going to bother reading through 4 pages of replies... this is for your original thread poster.

I love women. I love all shapes, sizes and colors... all ethnic backgrounds and social structures... it doesn't matter. All it takes is a cute look, nice eyes, sweet smile, a little neck-line, and I'm down. Include a little education, add in some street smarts, and a pinch of wit and I'll be yours forever.

Admittedly, I find the "barbie shape" attractive. Hourglass figure, angelic face and perfect hair will get my hormones pumping... but that's about it, a physical attraction and no more. "Barbie" better be bringing a lot more to the table than a nice rack.

However, when a woman reaches the size where I fear that she might hurt me physically, I must draw the line. I'm a pretty big fella, so there aren't too many women out there that can scare me... well, that's not true, lots of them scare me... but I can handle just about anything thrown my way. A lot of it has to do with just looking HEALTHY... someone that is obviously obese isn't going to turn my head.

Then there are the women that look like they would kick your ass ... these I steer clear of too.
 
I really like some of the replies in this thread when people said that it's more about how you carry yourself in your frame than your weight. This is very true. There are a lot more body types than just curvy and skinny.
Ibizakat said something about being 5'8" and weighing 125 and feeling she looks anorexic. This is a perfect example of how we can't really compare weights..I am also 5'8", and have never weighed more than 120 pounds. 120 pounds on me is getting a little pudgy, because I have tiny bones and am very light in structure. So usually I weigh around 110-115, and eat ALL the time, and even have a little belly and ass. The weight number is completely irrelevant, it is sad that so many girls stress about it.
You should examine your body type and determine your ideal weight from there. I think girls should aim to be in good physical shape to FEEL GOOD, instead of stressing on a number.
I also just want to sympathize (can't spell) with any girls out there who are naturally thin and get the "Are you anorexic" comments, which are VERY rude and hurtful. I am still tiny but I have a little meat on my bones now that I am in my 20's, but you can imagine what it was like when I went through my growth spurts when I was younger. I was growing fast, and I got really tall and was still like 90 pounds, and I was almost constantly harrassed at school, every day, called anorexic, told by boys I was ugly, laughed at by girls who said I looked like a flagpole..it hurt even worse because I actually did have eating problems during an earlier period of my life, which I worked really hard to overcome, and at the point where I grew, it was because I WAS eating, and trying really hard to take care of myself.
Everyone just needs to remember that there are a million different body types and just as it is natural for me to weigh 115 pounds, it might also be natural for a bigger girl to weigh 160 pounds, or more, or less...etc.
Oh yeah, and ALL the Bluelight ladies are gorgeous! =D =D

-andi
 
^^
yep, "put on some weight girl"
bah! "i cant!"

and ur right about the weight number doesnt matter. for my height (5'4") i should be 55kg. that extra 7-8kg on me would REALLY show. hmmm...
 
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