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Creating Positive Change vs. If Nothing Changes Then Nothing Changes..

to do list...

quit drinking
become a part of my sons life
become financially independent
visit my sister
write my cousin in jail
accept peoples flaws, because i have plenty
dont be so damn impulsive
treat my friend better
make more friends
use less stuff
adopt a shelter animal
become a vegan
apologize to people ive hurt
constant random acts of kindness towards the homeless
create a logo
initiate a W.I.L.D.
thank my biology teacher
go trick or treating every halloween
meditate every day
exercise every day
enjoy every day

all i can think of at the moment... i think the dark side is going to become my favorite forum. :)
 
Welcome opqr <3 It's a great place to give and receive support and just have people to talk to when you need someone.

There are a lot of great threads. Glad to see you're finding your way around alright :) <3
 
I am doing..


Finish the book I'm working on
Get a new pair of telemark skis
Collect all the paperwork I need and make an appointment to rid myself of this burden
Acquire a new degree
Write that book about dreams with my son
Join a gym now that the weather is getting unconducive to working out outside
I want to start drinking the eight glasses of water I am supposed to a day
Consume 1 gram of semi sweetened chocolate a day
more paper chasing
end relationship
point canon
enjoy an evening with some special things for me
unthaw spaghetti sauce
work on book with son
catch up on a bill
and research proper professional for next phase
go clothes shopping
go shoe shopping
Identify some places in this town where quality women like to hang out.
spend some time at these places
Laundry
clean and organize room and closet
go through old clothes and bag up for goodwill
bring clothes to goodwill
bring record player to the man thats needs it
phone call to the government (make snack for huge wait.. yawn)
get back on gov healthcare website.
 
^book about dreams with your son? sounds exciting! love to hear more about that.
 
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^ thanks I can't until we are done.%)

I am doing..

MAKE APPOINTMENT
sort and organize paperwork
Finish the book I'm working on
Collect all the paperwork I need and make an appointment to rid myself of this burden
Acquire a new degree
Write that book about dreams with my son
Join a gym now that the weather is getting unconducive to working out outside
more paper chasing
work on book with son
catch up on a bill
and research proper professional for next phase
get back on gov healthcare website.
 
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Stay Sober
Study for placement Exam and get into decent classes at school (test on Nov. 6th)

These are my only priorities for now.

After I take the Exam, my list will include:

Stay sober
Register for classes
Get School Books
Get school supplies
Find a room to rent outside of the SLE
Move out of the SLE
Find a part time Job that can work around my school schedule (and still allow time to study/do homework/visit girlfriend - basically just work a couple days a week)

More to come
 
Haven't gotten to anything on my list because today was my BFs day off (I'm making excuses :sue:) but tomorrow!!! I will get at least 2 of those things completed!
 
I am doing..

MAKE APPOINTMENT
sort and organize paperwork
Finish the book I'm working on
Collect all the paperwork I need and make an appointment to rid myself of this burden
Research a new degree
Write that book about dreams with my son
Join a gym now that the weather is getting unconducive to working out outside
more paper chasing
work on book with son
catch up on a bill
and research proper professional for next phase
get back on gov healthcare website.
 
neversickanymore said:
I am doing..

MAKE APPOINTMENT
sort and organize paperwork
Finish the book I'm working on
Collect all the paperwork I need and make an appointment to rid myself of this burden
Research a new degree
Write that book about dreams with my son
Join a gym now that the weather is getting unconducive to working out outside
more paper chasing
work on book with son
catch up on a bill
and research proper professional for next phase
get back on gov healthcare website.
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Whew that sounds like a lot

I am still on the saving up money thing and I am slowly gettin there I think =D
 
MAKE APPOINTMENT
sort and organize paperwork
Finish the book I'm working on
Collect all the paperwork I need
Research a new degree
Write that book about dreams with my son
Join a gym now that the weather is getting unconducive to working out outside
more paper chasing
work on book with son
catch up on a bill
and research proper professional for next phase
get back on gov healthcare website
switch insurance
block X,s calls and email
track down smoke show from last weekend
fax of paperwork
Identify some more places in this town where quality women like to hang out.
spend some more time at these places
 
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MAKE APPOINTMENT
hit gym everyday for a month
make call to Mr B
sort and organize paperwork
Finish the book I'm working on
Collect all the paperwork I need
Research a new degree
Write that book about dreams with my son
Join a gym now that the weather is getting unconducive to working out outside
more paper chasing
work on book with son
catch up on a bill
and research proper professional for next phase
get back on gov healthcare website
switch insurance
block X,s calls and email
track down smoke show from last weekend
fax of paperwork
Identify some more places in this town where quality women like to hang out.
spend some more time at these places
 
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- Stop being so crabby today

- Start to pick out yarn to knit a dear friend of mine a blanket

- Knit said blanket

- Ship before Christmas
 
motherofearth said:
I actually applied for some jobs today. I mean, I'm not sick yet, so it isn't like I'm dogging it out. But still, this is more than I've done in weeks.

I had to skip my workout w/ my friends this morning as my blood sugar was all over the place. I'm hoping it is just the withdrawals I've been continually throwing myself into throughout the last few weeks (my blood sugar always goes high while in w/d and I usually overcompensate w/ my insulin correction - nonsense diabetes talk). All will be well if when I get home from the library, in the evening, I get myself to run up this hill by my house. I really need to stick to the exercise I've planned more than anything else, cos I don't have much else planned to help me through my w/d's.
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Nice to see you posting :), was wondering how you've been <3.

Please try to even yourself out bud, just give it a week, I'm always always here to chat when you need me <3.

My friend leaves on the 21st, we've had an awesome time going to the Universal Parks (Harry Potter geek alert), but once she leaves I'm going to have to get back into the groove of being alone and focussing on finding a new job.

So step 1. Find job :)
 
MAKE APPOINTMENT
hit gym everyday for a month
sort and organize paperwork
Finish the book I'm working on
Research a new degree
Write that book about dreams with my son
catch up on a bill
get back on gov healthcare website
 
_ make at least 1 more attempt at tapering off suboxone
_ take deeper breaths, relax in my body more
_ meditate more often
_ keep up with the gym and my body, music/video/art
_ get laid again (last night was amazing)
 
Christmas shopping
hit gym everyday for a month
sort and organize paperwork
Finish the book I'm working on
Research a new degree
Write that book about dreams with my son
catch up on a bill
get back on gov healthcare website
send package
 
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