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Can't feel shit with condoms

JessFR said:
But speaking broadly as far as human psychology, what does it mean to think the world owes you sex? You're trying to come up with rational implications for what it means to think that. It's not rational though.

You know how you can have an attitude that you're superior to everyone else? You can say "but how does that make any sense? You don't make more money, you don't have a job, you have no friends, you're have no education, it's not logical".
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I'm not disputing that he's behaving illogically. I'm insisting that thoughts must be defined based on behaviors. Materialism is the point, not human rationality. (I know that's an abstruse line of argument, but it lets a sentence do a paragraph's work.)

Personally, I think the description "envy" fits here, offers useful comparisons, and is easy to understand. However, I agree that we'd just waste time debating it.

Glad you like the sig!
 
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SnafuInTheVoid said:
I'll be honest I kinda laughed at this.

I don't really understand. (no offense!)

I've had condoms break in the middle of sex and felt no major difference other than the sensation of the condom breaking. Yeah, there is a difference, but not enough to prevent me from getting off or cumming.

also the whole concept of hookers/escorts/sluts being "loose" is hugely overplayed I believe... I don't think vaginas work that way, they aren't clothes that get stretched out... child birth may be different? I wouldn't know, I don't have one.

idk just my cheap 2 cents lol
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Indeed! Vaginas actually have an incredible capacity for elasticity, able to stretch and return back to their original tightness (almost. Yes with the exception of childbirth, but even after that, a vagina is still able to return to a good enough level of tightness). It has to do with the control of pelvic floor muscles, and how tone they are. Even the mental/emotional state of the woman can affect how tight or relaxed she is.

there are mature women that can open bottles with their pussies or shoot ping pong balls lol. See vaginal weightlifting/Kung fu.

There’s training for penis too. To build stamina and pleasure. Keeps ya hard and potent. I’ve even heard of dudes having multiple or full body orgasms. (Never experienced that but dam would I want to).

imo this sort of sexual training should be taught to everyone.

male or female, we are all tired of this numbed out 5 minute bs
 
Michael_25 said:
I fucked a couple of more escorts over the past two week. But I can' feel shit! It's like slinging a sausage down a hallway -- no sensation. After about 7 minutes of pounding away I lose my stamina and ask the girl to get on top ... how do I overcome this condom problem problem? I can't shoot my load with one on.
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Long term, I’d suggest looking into some tantric practices. They could help build control over your sensitivity and awareness of pleasure. Overall they are good for sexual health.

short term.. idk, have you tried anal? 😁
 
Being cut can make you less sensitive. Pants will rub and dry your jr out, try moisturizer and no dry masturbation

Edited: 1/5/21 - decided a direct message was more appropriate for previous content
 
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Oh fuck this shits in my notification queue again?

Your "right" to see prostitutes is NOT "mens health". You have zero such right.

And no, the mission statement is about free and open discussion is for drug issues. Non judgement for drug users.

This wasn't a drug issue, it was a guy who felt he had a right to have sex with women and cared more for his orgasm than their futures, and many other guys deeply offended that I said he has no such right.

If you treat prostitutes like expendable objects. I'm gonna judge the shit out of you.
 
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Skyn makes non-latex that are incredibly thin without being too tight. Its the only condom that allows me to stay hard and have sex for as long as I want. Plus I love that they are compatible with all lubes.
 
DonkeyThick said:
Skyn makes non-latex that are incredibly thin without being too tight. Its the only condom that allows me to stay hard and have sex for as long as I want. Plus I love that they are compatible with all lubes.
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I would think if they were that thin they'd be more likely to break.

Condoms breaking is already something that happens way too often at the best of times.
 
JessFR said:
I would think if they were that thin they'd be more likely to break.

Condoms breaking is already something that happens way too often at the best of times.
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I should have mentioned that these Skyn condoms are also very durable. If I use a standard size condom chances are good that its going to break in a few minutes from being stretched too much. Magnums fit fine but i cant feel enough in them to stay hard for more than a few minutes. i use the standard size non-latex Skyn condom and it fits perfectly because it's so stretchy and I can have sex for over an hour without it breaking.
 
As a female I’m not a great fan of condoms either.
They fuck up that moment right before, inadequate lubing is akin to rubbing a couple sticks together and produce the same smoking burny effect between my legs for days after and then later, when one of you is left holding a little rubber sack of baby gravy awkwardly looking for a bin?

Crappy all round really.

However, as even less of a fan of a crabbie, cheesy, smelly rotting genitalia I begrudgingly forced myself to adapt.
I feel the pay off is worth it.

Can you please PM me your real name and location when you have a moment OP? Or as a public service, perhaps post it here.
Save a life.
Or an itchy vag.
 
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