bronson
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- Jan 14, 2010
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@ L2R: Yeah, that makes sense to me at the least, I'm not predisposed to the same thinking. I could feel love type emotions towards another guy perhaps, but no matter what I don't think there could ever be any sexual element to it. This is just me, and everyone is different to be sure.
I will say that my view with certainty is not skewed from homophobia though. One of my very best friends is gay, and I've spent many a nights in the same room with him, nothing odd about it to me. Sexual thoughts never crossed my mind, and I assume they never crossed his.
The whole thread is a bit bothersome to me, as is seems to be trying to fabricate answers to questions that can only be answered on an individual level. The stereotypes that manifest serve only to diminish sexual experience as a human right.
I will say that my view with certainty is not skewed from homophobia though. One of my very best friends is gay, and I've spent many a nights in the same room with him, nothing odd about it to me. Sexual thoughts never crossed my mind, and I assume they never crossed his.
The whole thread is a bit bothersome to me, as is seems to be trying to fabricate answers to questions that can only be answered on an individual level. The stereotypes that manifest serve only to diminish sexual experience as a human right.