Can a man be a slut?

[DeathIndustrial88]

omg ai put all the meds i take which i told it in confidence.

smfh

You take vibrators? lol

 

[atara]

Testostorene

Lmao

 

[Catecholamine Cowboy]

To answer my own question from the OP, as there hasn't actually been any specific responses to the core of it:

I knew a dude at about 20 years of age, we went to school together. He was a solid football player, athletic in that sense. I never played football but we used to train the athletic component together.

He worked out, was in what you would say is decent shape, and was a little tanned.

He looked okay. I remember a time when he was conservative, like I saw him flirting with this girl one time in a nightclub and she grinded up into him, but he didn't really pull the trigger.

Then a few months later we'd knock into each other in another nightclub.

The dude literally had girls throwing themselves at him and he was smashing them left and right, it's like he had potential, then got over a line of some kind and started killing it.

Later he settled down with one regular girl, he seemed to use the skills he had acquired to pay dividends in an actual relationship.
The girl he was dating loved that slutty style thing he had going on, she loved that he was appealing to other girls as well in the raw sexual sense.

Don't know what became of him later but I suspect that was like his slutty phase, probably had a run of about 12 to 18 months, then he moved onto to another phase of life.

 

[lost weekend]

Another definition could be........ hot?

Slutty women are hot to me.

I would even say they're the very definition of hot.

But it takes a good amount of work and dedication to achieve and maintain slutty status.

Some women who try and fail end up being the opposite, tacky, cheap, predictable, and unappealing.

Got to keep their ass in shape, stomach firm, hair well groomed, outfit well selected and appropriately suggestive.

And more than anything it's the attitude.

Some women try for the slutty attitude and end up being toxic.

Men who try and become slutty may either go the effeminate route, or the bad boy route, and the latter is a disaster.

Hottest slutty women have the face of an angel, attitude of innocence, but ultra suggestive, sexualized, and do insanely hot things sexually like it's nothing to them.

You sound like your living in a fantasy world mate
"Slutty women have the face of an angel"
How do you know they are a slut ,do you just see an an attractive women and assume she is a slut
From what you've posted on your fabulous sex life its probably better with your knowledge and experience if you answer your own question

 

[lost weekend]

The way you are describing men I suspect there may be more than a hint of doubt in your mind

 

[SinfulbyNature]

To answer my own question from the OP, as there hasn't actually been any specific responses to the core of it:

I knew a dude at about 20 years of age, we went to school together. He was a solid football player, athletic in that sense. I never played football but we used to train the athletic component together.

He worked out, was in what you would say is decent shape, and was a little tanned.

He looked okay. I remember a time when he was conservative, like I saw him flirting with this girl one time in a nightclub and she grinded up into him, but he didn't really pull the trigger.

Then a few months later we'd knock into each other in another nightclub.

The dude literally had girls throwing themselves at him and he was smashing them left and right, it's like he had potential, then got over a line of some kind and started killing it.

Later he settled down with one regular girl, he seemed to use the skills he had acquired to pay dividends in an actual relationship.
The girl he was dating loved that slutty style thing he had going on, she loved that he was appealing to other girls as well in the raw sexual sense.

Don't know what became of him later but I suspect that was like his slutty phase, probably had a run of about 12 to 18 months, then he moved onto to another phase of life.

Most single men will be sluts if given the opportunity

But you are elaborating and philosophizing all of this way too much. It’s really not that deep bro.


Most men are born with a desire to put it in something. Theyll put it in anything they can get it in. Then eventually they end up putting it in something that they wanna keep putting it in that they don’t want anyone else but them gettin in so then they’ll lay down a claim and set up camp.

 

[Ptahtek.2.0.1 beta]

sure why not?
define and relate

 

[lost weekend]

Most single men will be sluts if given the opportunity

But you are elaborating and philosophizing all of this way too much. It’s really not that deep bro.


Most men are born with a desire to put it in something. Theyll put it in anything they can get it in. Then eventually they end up putting it in something that they wanna keep putting it in that they don’t want anyone else but them gettin in so then they’ll lay down a claim and set up camp.

Men are no different from women ,if you are handsome then you could pull a partner every weekend ,my friend use to constantly, used to just get dumped on my own cos he would disappear, he did get our other mates sister pregnant and picked up more than 1 std so I guess he was a male slut but takes 2 to tango

 

[lost weekend]

sure why not?
define and relate

I think SinfulbyNature means a wife

 

[lost weekend]

I would describe every member of that great American Sitcom set in Central Perk as sluts
But it's fine on daytime TV cos that's what real life is like ,never ending partners and so much relationship choices

 

[SoCalShordie]

Men chase women so the saying is a man will Get Lucky from time to time.

Women have men chase them so they can more or less get laid whenever they want.

The conventional idea of a woman being a slut is to dress in an almost shamelessly oversexualized or exhibitionist way and flirt with or lead on every man possible.

My experience with the type of woman that could meet the criteria for being a slut, is they are by far the best performers in bed.
They'll willing do explicit sexual acts almost effortlessly, acts prudent women may not even consider doing, and enjoy and embrace the concept of being slutty, from dress sense to behaviour to lifestyle.

I've seen the occasional dude who for a brief point in time and space, may find it relatively easy to get sex from a willing pool of women.

This is ridiculously less commonly occurring that is for women, but if the stars align and he's in great form with a great body, presentation and just everything is working well, he can make it happen.

Historically, the idea of a man being slutty typically applies more so in the homosexual sense, like dressing in women's underwear and being effeminate and promiscuous with other men.

How to start the conversation.......... have you ever known a man whom could be considered a slut, but with women?

Aren’t they all? lol

 

[SoCalShordie]

You sound like your living in a fantasy world mate
"Slutty women have the face of an angel"
How do you know they are a slut ,do you just see an an attractive women and assume she is a slut
From what you've posted on your fabulous sex life its probably better with your knowledge and experience if you answer your own question

 

[Catecholamine Cowboy]

You sound like your living in a fantasy world mate
"Slutty women have the face of an angel"
How do you know they are a slut ,do you just see an an attractive women and assume she is a slut
From what you've posted on your fabulous sex life its probably better with your knowledge and experience if you answer your own question

As I see it, prostitution or sex working is the monetization of being slutty.

In other words if a prostitute wants to be successful and being valued by clients, she had better be okay with being an insane slut.

One of the most successful, popular and beloved prostitutes I have ever seen, she looked like butter wouldn't melt in her mouth.

Face of angel?

Who knows what that qualifies as being but she had an incredibly charming sense of innocence about herself, but she would literally climb up on top of anyone and do the nastiest things like it was second nature.

To me that constitutes knowing how to be an effective slut.

The confusion apparent in responses may well be a question of semantics or understanding the genuine word meaning.

- promiscuous
- slutty
- slovenly
- fast and loose
- no moral inhibitions
- any time any place
- provocative
- sex appeal

Many examples here seem to think it means being trashy?

To me the latter is women who try too hard to be slutty but don't really know what they're doing and just come across as being cheap and unappealing........... trashy!!

 

[Catecholamine Cowboy]

Aren’t they all? lol

Do you think men could sell sex to women......... most of them?

A slutty woman can make most men horny at a glance or couple slutty moves.

The same can most definitely not be said in reverse.

Will most men jump at the chance for a piece of action with just about any woman?

Of course.

But that doesn't mean they have the skills of a slut, just that most are desperate horny bastards!

lol

 

[MsDiz]

As a gay guy....

I'd say men are bigger sluts than women. But for some reason we stigmatized women for it while men get away with it because "they're guys & it's just how guys are".

I've never been able to find a male partner that can remain faithful in the close to 40 years of my life.

All men cheat, ive never known one man who hasn’t cheated on someone he has told he “loved”. Maybe some try and I’ve known guys for decades who I thought were “wholesome” who have then hit on me or whatever. Just… disappointment.

Men are sluts if they wanna be. Women are sluts if they wanna be also. What of it?!

There are plenty of guys who know how to play a room who aren’t the most physically attractive in the room. It works for women because we don’t always look for looks. Men generally go for looks so the girls who want that attention play to it.

You just don’t notice the guys getting the women who you are judging the same as the women getting the guys .

 

[Catecholamine Cowboy]

Perhaps I should re-phrase.

If a decent looking woman is prepared to do some pretty filthy things with many men.

And she wears some slut attire like a g-string, skimpy bra and boots.

Is in good physical shape, tanned and looked after her appearance, hair groomed, make up, etc.

And she offers herself to men for sex, or a range of alluring sexual acts?

Then many many men will be interested.

Women who have these qualities and exploit the potential outlined above for whatever reason makes them happy such as,
1) getting attention
2) feeling authoritative or empowered
3) the thrill of sexual influence
4) capital benefit

I think the characterization of being a slut is normal.

How many men can pull this off in reverse?

Can a man who is in good physical shape, tanned with nice hair, adorn a pair of hot looking boxer shorts and a variety of women will suddenly start approaching him looking to avail of sexual acts he may offer?

i.e. can a man be a slut, like that?

 

[MsDiz]

Perhaps I should re-phrase.

If a decent looking woman is prepared to do some pretty filthy things with many men.

And she wears some slut attire like a g-string, skimpy bra and boots.

Is in good physical shape, tanned and looked after her appearance, hair groomed, make up, etc.

And she offers herself to men for sex, or a range of alluring sexual acts?

Then many many men will be interested.

Women who have these qualities and exploit the potential outlined above for whatever reason makes them happy such as,
1) getting attention
2) feeling authoritative or empowered
3) the thrill of sexual influence
4) capital benefit

I think the characterization of being a slut is normal.

How many men can pull this off in reverse?

Can a man who is in good physical shape, tanned with nice hair, adorn a pair of hot looking boxer shorts and a variety of women will suddenly start approaching him looking to avail of sexual acts he may offer?

i.e. can a man be a slut, like that?

Absolutely he can, to the right women… you’re not in the right rooms kid!

 

[MsDiz]

Look, your question can a man be a slut is a bit of a stupid question.

Women are called sluts but men in Ireland who act the same to get women are called “lads”.

A man can be a “slut” but of course it’s going to be defined differently.

A women plays on her qualities and men play on theirs. Both the same play book both called different things but essentially they are the same.

Honestly… come on now.

Women being called sluts is misogynistic crap. It was to degrade a woman who was playing the guys game. Thats it.

I play the game I love it. I’m no slut as in how you term it but I can play the game in a fucking nun’s habit and still win. It’s not about looks and if you really think it is then you’re not paying attention.

 

[Catecholamine Cowboy]

Look, your question can a man be a slut is a bit of a stupid question.

Women are called sluts but men in Ireland who act the same to get women are called “lads”.

A man can be a “slut” but of course it’s going to be defined differently.

A women plays on her qualities and men play on theirs. Both the same play book both called different things but essentially they are the same.

Honestly… come on now.

Women being called sluts is misogynistic crap. It was to degrade a woman who was playing the guys game. Thats it.

I play the game I love it. I’m no slut as in how you term it but I can play the game in a fucking nun’s habit and still win. It’s not about looks and if you really think it is then you’re not paying attention.

Can a man have sexual leverage equal to or greater than that of an attractive woman most men would willingly have sex with?

Very very very occasionally, I've seen something to that effect, but that was questionably effective due to the environment (everything is relative). Take the same man doing well in situation X, and he might be a nobody in situation Y.

It's a theoretical/hypothetical question.

The term slut may historically be less than flattering in the sense of slut shaming, because there are those out there who when left unchecked may exploit the influence and authority being slutty gives them, and this can elicit negative feedback.

It's also infinitely more difficult for a man to actually pull off the role of being a slut, than it is for a woman.



Simple search for "red light district Amsterdam" and this was the first video that popped up (I'm using it to illustrate the contrast in male to female sexual leverage, influence and authority), but if anyone means to tell me a man could actually pull off what those women are doing?

Using raw sex appeal (being slutty) to actually influence or appeal to the opposite gender such that they'd be prepared to pay for sexual engagement?

 

[MsDiz]

Can a man have sexual leverage equal to or greater than that of an attractive woman most men would willingly have sex with?

Very very very occasionally, I've seen something to that effect, but that was questionably effective due to the environment (everything is relative). Take the same man doing well in situation X, and he might be a nobody in situation Y.

It's a theoretical/hypothetical question.

The term slut may historically be less than flattering in the sense of slut shaming, because there are those out there who when left unchecked may exploit the influence and authority being slutty gives them, and this can elicit negative feedback.

It's also infinitely more difficult for a man to actually pull off the role of being a slut, than it is for a woman.



Simple search and this was the first video that popped up, but if anyone means to tell me a man could actually pull off what those women are doing?

Using raw sex appeal (being slutty) to actually influence or appeal to the opposite gender such that they'd be prepared to pay for sexual engagement?

You’re confusing being a slut with being a sex worker.